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    THANK YOU !!!

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

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    Congratulations on everything...I know you are ecstatic to have this long arduous part over with...Enjoy your honey and thank you for your encouragement. Also thanks for get back to us on his interview. WELCOME HOME TO YOUR BOTH!!!

    :P

    Providing proof of fiance relationship

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

    Posted

    I agree with masterpiece...and I too am untested...one alternative I did was to print the the folder that I store our emails in. It show a date time stamp for all emails. I then selected about 60 emails. As far as chats I made sure each has a date time stamp (F2 on Yahoo messenger) and then printed only the first page before it gets...umm too personal. Good luck...

    Traveling to Nigeria

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

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    Has anyone tried going into the actual ticket counter to purchase the ticket? I use to work at the airport and they allowed this type of transaction. For a fee(of course) you could go in and buy a ticket to be picked up by the individual at thier origin. Of course they would have to show proper id etc...Since United is a partner with Lufthansa....and KLM is a partner with Delta(I think) you should be able to go to these ticket counter and purchase the ticket this way but call and speak to a human reservation agent. They had restrictions on them such as the ticket can only be refunded to the purchaser and travel dates are set in STONE. I would try and call the airlines direct and see if this can be done.

    Lagos Interview Date

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

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    We are finally in line. We got the interview date after I emailed the consulate. This was the 4th time I had emailed them and each time prior I got the same response that they had not gotten the petition.

    So now we are doing the happy dance and getting ready for the date.

    :dance::dance: :

    i need all the help and advice i can get

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

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    I don't know it this will help but see if you can find your case number an open an account with USCIS.

    Maybe once you enter your case number you will be able to give us more information and locate your case to see if it's back at USCIS.

    When was his interview? What information did he have during the interview? What did they say you needed? Shame on you lawyer for not preparing you two. Thats why you paid them the money to prepare you not just fill out some paperwork. I'd ask for a partial refund myself at least.(I doubt they'd give it though)

    Here is the USCIS website

    https://egov.immigration.gov/cris/jsps/login.jsp

    And the phone number

    1 (800) 375-5283

    Don't expect the operators to be really helpful they are mainly just talking heads but every once in a while you get a helpful one.

    Several folks here in the past have gone through this and have been successful so don't give up hope. (F)

    something worth reading

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

    Posted · Edited by Neya

    There is no doubt that all relationships take a commitment from the people involved. For those that choose to go down this path there are additional obstacles to over come. We know what they are so there is no need to continually beat a dead dog. Why can't we rejoice in the spirit in which this thread was started?

    Negative breeds negative and that's true in all walks of life. There have been and will continue to be those who fail on this journey and those that succeed. For once why can't we rejoice for one that is succeeding instead of harping on those that have failed? Why can't we hear the good instead of always the negative? This is not to say that one has blinders on to reality. We can't because it is being thrust down out throats at every opportunity be it appropriate or not.

    Instead of hijacking something that was presented for good, start another thread to "educate the newbies" and point out the negative and even solicit input in that venue. Why is it crazy to for once enjoy something positive? Why can't we just be happy for those that are making it work?

    something worth reading

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

    Posted

    Idocare,

    What does VAWA mean?

    Violence Against Women Act

    Idocare

    While you make some very valid points I have to say your opinion is skewed toward the negative.

    YES, there are those that have taken advantage of USC's, both men and women, and have used the USC to get to America.

    YES, everyone going through this process should be aware of ALL aspects of bringing a foreign national to the US. And don't think they haven't thought of this already.

    HOWEVER!

    The points and examples siyonri wrote about can be applied towards ALL significant /marital relationships.

    Do you not know any AMERICAN men or women that have been abused by their AMERICAN SO. Well the shelters are full to overflowing with Americans facing this. Do you not know anyone that hasn't MARRIED UP to escape AMERICAN poverty? Just look around at the pro-athletes and celebrities. Look at the persons on welfare that married to escape the projects with thier children only to find thier spouse is a pedophile/abuser.

    You constantly imply that ALL foreign/USC relationships are going to end in fraud. That ALL foreign nationals are users and abusers. Well they are not! There are many examples of USC/Foreign national relationship that are working just as there are many examples of these relationships that are not working. You continually paint ALL USC/Foreign national relationship with the same brush and this is unfair and careless and shows you are biased to ALL of these type of relationships.

    What have you done to move on with your life? Can you say your relationship had absolutely NO positives. What about your son that is product of that relationship care to give him away. Of course not! He is probably you pride and joy and is a result of your union and you celebrate his life every time you tell him you love him.

    Please get off of your moral crusade. STOP spewing only the negative. And if negativity is all you can offer think of how those negative vibes rub off on your child and those that surround you and by default people here.

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