Shauna&Wael

u need to be more concerned about your safety not the card. this person sounds like a very violent person. u need to stop communicating with him u are fueling him up to hurt u.

How do you know this if you have moved far away and cut off all contact?

When is he getting out of jail? I'm not concerned about any immigration aspect, but I am concerned about your safety. Just how much would he do to destroy your life? Does he have ANY ways of finding where you are? I'm truly sympathetic, but also very impressed with how much you've already done to protect yourself. stay strong

When is he getting out of jail? I'm not concerned about any immigration aspect, but I am concerned about your safety. Just how much would he do to destroy your life? Does he have ANY ways of finding where you are? I'm truly sympathetic, but also very impressed with how much you've already done to protect yourself. stay strong

Would you recommend one of your patients to take medical advice from a minimum wage tele operator?
How do you know they will?
Seeking to immigrate on a non immigrant visa? With difficulty?

I would turn my pillow over to the cool side and get some good restfull sleep...

They won't ignore their requests; if he can't produce evidence, they will charge him with making false official statements. I would actually say that having him continue is actually in your BEST interest. If what you say is true, and I'm sure it is, I've seen this happen multiple times, then he will bring only himself down. Despite all the cynicism, in this country you are innocent until proven guilty. As a previous poster said, if he makes this claim, and it were true, he would be just as on the hook as you would be, as he was a party to immigration fraud. And if it's not true, he is making false official statements. He's backing himself into a corner where he can't win. Just let him take himself down and laugh as it happens.
Don't worry, you have nothing to fear.

I am so sorry this happened to you.
Not the good news: Rest assured that he has NOTHING and I mean ABSOLUTELY NOTHING over you. If I had a penny for every rotten spouse who threatened to deport their foreign spouse, I'd be on a yacht sailing somewhere. His ability to have you deported is ZERO. He claims that he will tell them you offered him money (which would lead to more jail time as this is a federal offense ON HIS PART) but I think any judge will see right through his story. The guy is in prison for domestic violence! He is where he belongs and you are safe and away from him.

You are a permanent resident with not ties to him at all.
He can try to get you deported all he wants but will not succeed unless he has concrete evidence of what he is accusing you, unless he can prove what he claims they will just ignore him; he is the one with the criminal record, not you from what I can see.
If he continues to threaten you make sure to keep records of everything, get a restraining order and send him back to jail.

First and foremost, this mess you and this man have created is just that. It's not something that can be handled on this site. Call an immigration attorney and pay the price. You should have been concerned years ago, not today.

OP, I mean no disrespect and I don't think anyone is judging you but this doesn't sound quite right. Others have asked for SPECIFIC dates to get a better grasp of the situation but your posts only add more ambiguity to the story and you have yet to answer those questions - so now the question is WHY are you avoiding giving an exact timeline. Just reading it, I'm sitting here like, wait, so was the husband married to you both at the same time? I personally do not understand the timeline of events so I can imagine a CO felt the same. Answering Dwheels76 VERY specific questions may help others give you better advice. Good luck.

Look to the past to predict your future, he TOOK 7 YEARS to visit his children, his action tells a lot about him.Sending a few dollars per month does not mean he was a present father.
I doubt your case will be approved, bUT in my opinion you have a bigger problem than Immigration. Good luck.

Let me summarize:
1) you have a person that you have kids with from your home country;
2) This person married USC and gained citizenship.
3) this individual, once obtained USC divorces his wife, marries you, and is trying to get you and your kids to US.
So far so good??
Now, you are asking why CO turned you down??
I can only praise CO.

AGREE WITH YOU 100%
ALSO I WOULD IMPLORE ON PEOPLE TO STATE FULL FACTS OF THEIR CASE WHEN THEY POST HERE RATHER THAN WITHHOLDING SOME VITAL INFO IN A BID TO COURT PUBLIC SYMPATHY

Your story only sounds more fishy after you get defensive when people ask legitimate questions about your case in order to give you the full scope of advice. If your story is real, you better get a lawyer and fast.

Your story only sounds more fishy after you get defensive when people ask legitimate questions about your case in order to give you the full scope of advice. If your story is real, you better get a lawyer and fast.

Your story only sounds more fishy after you get defensive when people ask legitimate questions about your case in order to give you the full scope of advice. If your story is real, you better get a lawyer and fast.

My fiancee will be travelling solo with POE on Spirit in Ft. Lauderdale next week ... with a connection flight ... and she speaks no English. Ft. Lauderdale has plenty of Spanish speaking employees and I think she will not have an issue getitng to her connecting flight - even if there is a change of gates/flight delays. They do have the Customs forms in Spanish, so she can fill it out - I even grabbed an extra form for her that I will go over with her over the phone to make sure she knows how to fill out the form. I will be also sending her some mi\oney via Western Union ... in U.S. cash - so she can buy food and whatnots while in the airport.
To help her navigate her way - I took the same exact flight numerous times, including on my flight back - so I narrated the process in a letter to her in Spanish that I will e-mail her and go over with her this weekend. It tells her what steps she needs to take and I alos included pictures of places in the airport and airport landmarks to help her navigate to the place she needs to be at - including getting her suitcase in customs and then finding the re-checkin line to check her bags back in for her connecting flight. As well as getting off her connecting flight and making her way to baggage claim where I will be waiting for her.
Also on the letter, I have included my name, contact information, and a small paragra[h at the very top explaing her situation in English - so anyone can read it and assiste her. I have her flight information, so I put that in the letter as well.
This weekend, I will go over everything with her and then again the day before she leaves.

My wife and I met online, and we were in our relationship 13 months before I got to see her in person the first time. In the course of three years, we only saw each other for maybe a month-two months total in that time before getting married. Immediately after we got married, I got deployed.
She moved in with me March of 2013; three and a half years after we met and eight months after we married.
I am in the Air Force, and lived in Ohio at the time, she in Bulgaria. It was $1,500 for a plane ticket, and my job requires me to get security approval before I travel to a foreign country, which can take months. We usually had to go a year or more between seeing each other. So trust me when I say I feel your pain.
Don't take this the wrong way, but you get used to it. Yes, the underlying yearning is always there, but eventually it just becomes a daily routine. For us it was relatively fast; we had both been in long-term long-distance relationships before; I, for example, have only been in two relationships my whole life, the first lasted three and a half years and was for the most part purely online/phone. This sounds bad, but hear me out; it helps not to think about the future. Take it one day at a time, and it all sort of blends together. Eventually the day will come where you two are together and today will seem like a distant memory even if it's just a few months. Don't think of it like, "What about Christmas and New Year's?" or similar. Just think about this afternoon or what's for lunch. It's inane, yes, but trust me, it helps more than you can imagine. Naturally I am not saying don't discuss your future, but don't dwell too much on the distance between you, it simply causes more heartache.

God thank you soo much and thank you to all VJ'ers especially the veterans like hank, greenbaum to mention a few.
sept 1 interview 221g japan police clearance
oct 12 document sent
oct 13 document received
oct 16 ready status nonimmigrant visa
oct 21 administrative process nonimmigrant visa
oct 27 ISSUED!!!!

You have the obvious option of going home.

Sounds like a fantastic idea.

Seems very dangerous. Consider writing a check to yourself and opening an account in the US to deposit it. I would also think that if you have more than $10000, $54 seems like pennies for a matter of safety.

You could file AOS now and schedule a quick INFOPASS meeting and ask for an expedited AP so she can leave soon and be able to re-enter the US when her business is complete.

Take police report to infopass, withdraw I 184 and report the abuse
started prior to marriage & cannot work, If he was in jail why did he not
have a ICE-hold....maybe you should inform them too...Get away for
your own safety