chvsky

Congratulations on your NOA2!!
I'm really impressed with your perseverance!! Good luck and a smooth journey ahead!

Congrats on the NOA2, what a journey so far......

We were stuck in background checks too, I’m from the UK. I have no idea why it happens to some cases. Neither of us have criminal records. We tried everything from calling USCIS multiple times, to speaking to a senator who made inquiries on our behalf. The senator said that we would hear from USCIS at the end of October 2015 and it wasn’t until 24 November 2015 that we were actually approved. We applied 11 December 2014 – that’s 348 days for our NOA2 and it was hell. Try a senator and try OMBUDSMAN. We gave up hope and were actually going to apply for a UK fiancé visa when it finally came through. If you ever want to talk just let me know, I understand how hard it is to have to wait and not have a clue what you can do about it.

This is tough and I really feel for you. There are red flags all over from your fiance that you shouldn't/must not ignore. "not loving you anymore" "not wanting to hear your complaints (your genuine concerns. And you are not even married yet???) " "not working and living with his mother". "wanting to have a baby asap" wow... this one makes my stomach crawl. You are setting yourself up for major disappointment and failures. I've to admit that I could be wrong because I don't know both of you and don't know anything about your relationship. But from what you have shared with us, I would say that you really need to way your options. Marriage can wait. You can reapply. You have a good job now and maybe a promotion coming up soon. Just my 2 cents. You have one life to live, and yes mistakes are inevitable but avoid those that you can. Good luck