Fiona, what can I say that everybody hasn't already said............my thoughts and prayers are with you and your son. You are a very brave lady to share this and you have no reason to feel ashamed. If the other person has any feelings (which I doubt because he sounds so cold), he's the one who should feel the shame!!! It's his loss!! God bless you and your son. You have to go through the greiving process to get through it unfortunately. Please keep us posted.........you will always be a member of the VJ family.
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