Pishi_Pishi

Why would you want to be with a person who deceived you? You don't speak to her everyday? You had to find out about it from a family and not her? So you have been waiting here for her and she is betraying you? Long distances are not easy, but when people love each other, they should not cheat and should respect each other and she wasn't even using protection. I understand that you love her, but in the future you might not trust her and she might do it again. I am so sorry for your pain, but in my opinion she is not worth fighting for. I hope you find peace soon.

Many times platonic frendships evolve into a romantic relationship. Feels like more is going on. For me it is a big red flag as he is hanging out with another woman. He is too negative and is probably looking for an excuse to separate. Trust your gut instict. I had couple friends in similiar situation and did not end well. I really hope things turn out for the best, but just wanted to tell you trust your insticts. Good Luck.

Hmmmm, definitely sounds like a red flag to me also. Hanging out with an attractive, new co-worker texting each other all night talking about music and religion. I'll give him credit for being open and honest with you, but zero for respect. It's one thing to have a social life with coworkers, but another to spend other "fun" activities with each other...alone. Should've thought about this before even getting married and the difficulties of the significant times apart. It is hard, I know.
I know sometimes talking on Skype can be boring and sometimes you run out of stuff to talk about, but one of the things I found out is to really incorporate your life and his life like as if you guys are actually together, but digitally. Use technology to its fullest...skype/msg each other wherever you go. Go on skype dates, celebrate different things - birthdays, monthly anniversaries, shopping, eating, heck, wrap your cellphone in a plastic bag and take him in the shower with you...just be creative!
Like some said here, try the best you can to keep the relationship alive and talk to each other. It would be such a waste to end it, with so much time and effort to be together. Gonna have to dig deep and figure out what both of you really want before throwing in the towel. Oh, and by the way, most relationships start out as platonic and feelings for each do grow deeper whether you want it or not. If you can get him to realize that he's totally disrespecting you for hanging out with his "attractive" coworker, then I would advise him to stop it and put more focus on this marriage. Just my two cents.

This guy practically told you from day 1 that he only needed your help to get a green card. I mean his intention was very clear. There is no way in your narrative that he proclaimed any affection towards you. So, he must assumed that you understood what you signed up for when you filled his petition. This is nothing more that buyers remorse. USCIS takes 5-8months to approve petitions just to give all parties amble opportunity to reconsider or withdraw their petition. I suggest that petitioners use this period to reevaluate their relationships without sentiments knowing fully well that human beings only improve they do not change...i wish you well.

I hope everything goes well for both of you. Holding my fingers and wishing you lots of luck!

I hope everything goes well for both of you. Holding my fingers and wishing you lots of luck!