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Dwheels, just an update....I received our DHL email stating that visa is available for pick up. Yupppppppeeeeeee!!!

Dwheels, just an update....I received our DHL email stating that visa is available for pick up. Yupppppppeeeeeee!!!

To all my Jamaicans awaiting interview....Andrews Memorial Hospital seems to be the only place that is currently conducting medicals. My husband's medical is scheduled for 9/22. We were told to bring $15240 for registration and an extra $15000 for possible vaccines. We were also told it is a lengthy process and to expect being there all day. Good luck to everyone awaiting interviews. Dwheels...thank you for your time and information. Our interview is 10/06 and we asked that everyone keep us in your prayers. Thank you.

I believe 5/15 will be a busy day for NVC. CCs will be coming in.

Oooooh, if you're on your phone it won't be there, no. You're not missing anything

I'm not seeing any box or arrow...is this on mobile version too. That's what I use mostly. Could be im totally missing it...that's how my brain works some days. Lol

Obama writing the laws has nothing to do with how USCIS chooses to handle these cases. It is all about prioritizing and management. If USCIS handle each case in the order in which they are received, we will all have our loved ones here eventually. Fussing and ranting is not going to make anything better. Blaming the President is not going to help either.

Obama writing the laws has nothing to do with how USCIS chooses to handle these cases. It is all about prioritizing and management. If USCIS handle each case in the order in which they are received, we will all have our loved ones here eventually. Fussing and ranting is not going to make anything better. Blaming the President is not going to help either.

Obama writing the laws has nothing to do with how USCIS chooses to handle these cases. It is all about prioritizing and management. If USCIS handle each case in the order in which they are received, we will all have our loved ones here eventually. Fussing and ranting is not going to make anything better. Blaming the President is not going to help either.

Obama writing the laws has nothing to do with how USCIS chooses to handle these cases. It is all about prioritizing and management. If USCIS handle each case in the order in which they are received, we will all have our loved ones here eventually. Fussing and ranting is not going to make anything better. Blaming the President is not going to help either.

I believe in every aspects of our lives there will be mishaps. We are all employees, some of you employers and I can bet a million dollars we have made mistakes somewhere down the line. Whenever the mishaps happens to us we get very upset and unforgiving, but if we are the ones that cause the mishaps we are seeking forgiveness. The only thing I hope for is that your immigration process has not been sabotage by this.

Well let me say this, I've read a lot of your posts and comments....it was obvious there were or should I say still is a lot of anger. By reading this post I am going to say that I am concern about you saying you are no longer suicidal. Most times once a person who contemplates suicide starts to say they are no longer suicidal without professional help....we have to keep a close eye on that individual. We may read your post and empathize with you, but we really have no clue what you are going through. You got married out of pity, not love and now reality is kicking in. You were lonely from the beginning and while you were in India you met someone that took that loneliness away. Now the waiting for your wife to get here is bringing that lonely feeling back and therefore it's making you severely depress. You started your marriage with a lie, when you lied to her parents....you shouldn't have. Why would you want to be a part of a family that will not accept you for you? Not to be harsh but you have to think about you and your feelings. I am pretty sure your wife may be stronger than you think. She will be hurt, but she will definitely get over it and you will feel a lot lighter.
Let me tell you a little story about me....I was with a man for 12 yrs that I thought was my soulmate. We now have a child together and he also has a child with another woman, who conceived during our relationship. I loved that man with everything I had. We got engaged in 2005 and I had to call the wedding off because of lies. In 2006 during my pregnancy I decided enough was enough and I moved bk to NYC to be closer to my family. This man helped me to move and did nothing to stop me from leaving. I was hurt and I cried everytime I was alone. The other woman moved in with him even though he and I continued our relationship long distance. We made arrangement for me to move bk with him after I had our son. When I asked about the other lady he said she was leaving because he lived me and wanted only me. I later found out that he was feeding me lies and he was getting married. Now that was the killer for me. I bawled like a baby and all I wanted was to go to sleep and never wake up. I thought about driving my car off the road into some deep water. One night when I stood by the window and I looked to the sky and I called out to God and asked why me and suddenly I heard a quiet voice said to me "I'm giving you what you asked for". I stopped crying and I started laughing and I laid in bed and hugged my son and said no more. I told myself that other than my little prince no one is more important than me. Two years later I met a man that saw me while I was on vacation and his first words to me were "wow.....you are going to be my wife". I laughed. We sat for hours that night and talked. When it was time for me to come back to the US....I told him I cannot do a long distance relationship. We talked on and off for a few years and everytime I would go back to Jamaica we would spend time together, but I still did not want to make the commitment. We lost contact for a year and I went to Jamaica and we bumped into each other and before we knew it our relationship was going stronger than before. I decided to make the sacrifice and to try this long distance relationship. I am now married to a man that I never thought I would be married to and everyday we are apart, our love for each other gets stronger. I submitted his i130 in Nov 2013 and like you the wait is excruciating. I try to go and see him as often as possible....even though it's costly, but I believe it's worth it. The moral of my long story (LOL) is we sometimes lose ourselves in other people that we allow our true love to pass us by. I almost lost a man that truly loves me because I was caught up in someone that was not right for me. Find someone that you can talk to and cry and find yor way back to your Christian faith and call upon God and if you believe strongly in him.....he will guide you. I do hope that you will be okay. Peace and Love.