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I would love to go live with my in his country. We even talked about it. But for me, it was just too much to give up. Jobs are not easy to find there. I own a house here. I have a son who is a quadriplegic and medical issues come up all the time for him. Then there is my brother who has stage 4 cancer and is just buying time right now. No miracle cure for him. If was there I would be worried about how I would get home quickly in an emergency. In the end it was better for my husband to come here to be with me. That is how we decided to go through this process.
Am I whining? You bet! Am I pi$$ed off that illegals got to go to the front of the line? Absolutely!!!

Saylin......I got my case number tonight from NVC. Could u pls add it the spread sheet. many thanks

Hang in there Izzy. Jamie and you have tons and tons of proof of bona fide marriage and face time together. This is just a bump in the road. I feel like its probably something simple and soon you will speed pass us all to get your visa, insha allah. One day you two will visit me and Mohammed, and we will laugh at how crazy this whole process made us.
Watching Jamie leave and not knowing when you will see him again has made you extra sad so I am sending you extra "hugs" today.

Hey have you considered to actually make some constructive suggestions that concerning anyone's immigration issue or problem? If not then just shut your pilehole because other people's personal life is none of your business. Sure you have the right of "free speech" but why don't you just go on the street and point out every single couple which meets the standard of yours of being "old ugly dumb" and "just wanting a GC" and tell them in person instead of making such a pointless post on a VISA forum. I'm sure you will love to argue with them in person.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to come to the US, nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone who is financially stable, and also, nothing wrong with taking a risk to pursue a relationship. So if you are bored why don't you just go to work out or spend time with people who tolerate you in real life, in stead of trolling on a forum while other people are seeking real helpful advice.

I am assuming your post is based on your observations from threads here that cries foul for interracial marriages that didn't work. Scam is most likely concluded when the non-USC left. I wonder if you would also think the divorce rates of an American couple interesting?
Life is a two way street and people do things for a reason. Marriage is a fate of love, some of lust. I don't know how thin the fine line is, but still people get married anyway for their own sound reasoning. Calling the other person stupid just because he fell in love is fallacy at its finest.
No, I don't think you're being harsh. I think you're a sad person and too bored, and just fetching for interesting comments, and arguing back when the other person's perspective is not aligned with yours.
By the way, wealth is relative. and it's the USCIS role to weed out USCs who cannot afford and to filter potential frauds, not yours and mine. Your standards of good physique does not count too.

Um I don't like moaning about illegals or getting political but you should know your facts because the precise reason we have all waited so long is that illegals "took our place" at USCIS. For some reason known only to USCIS and Obama they sat on our files and ignored them while prioritising DACA filers. Yes we did all make a choice to have a relationship with someone from another country and we are all paying a decent sum of money to have our petitions worked on. Other countries work on this a lot faster and with the amount of money we pay for the service we have every right to be frustrated at waiting over a year to be with our families.
If you don't have anything positive or constructive to contribute then please leave the thread to those of us that do.

Really ?
If someone broke into your home without you knowing it and called themselves a "undocumented resident" of your house - would you allow it ?
B.S. my friend is folks like you and your president devaluing american citizenship by giving these people access to American nationality like hot cakes.
They ARE taking our places with USCIS.
THEY WERE PROCESSED AHEAD of the rest of us.
And now they're coming back to flood the system.
AGAIN
Who are you to tell us how to react to the blatant politicization of law enforcement and immigration law for favorable electoral outcomes ?

1. Why does the fact that I met my wife while studying abroad on a US-government sponsored program make my relationship invalid?
2. Why is it that countries like Spain and India are able to give foreign spouses of their citizens permanent, legal residence in less than 1 month?
3. If they have to "scrutinize everyone entering in this Country t's their job" why shouldn't illegal immigrants have to leave and go through the same process?
4. Where do you get off telling us not to "whine" when the only reason people are talking about amnesty, and the only reason DACA is a reality, is due to the incessant whining of the Latino and illegal immigrants communities?
5. If our "whines" should not be heard, then why should we listen to the "whining" of people who knew what they were doing when the broke the law? The KNEW that there was no path to legal citizenship when they came here 20 years ago, so why should we give them a prize just for being able to cheat the system all these years?

I think this whole immigration process creates so much stress on our relationships that there are times that it brings out negative feelings. We had 30 wonderful days together. The first 8 days was spent sleeping apart until we were married. And there was his family there with us to make sure we did so, lol. I felt so close to my husband when I came home but 9 months later I have days I feel like we have become strangers again. Sometimes I just get angry over things that don't even matter. Then other days like last night, we were both laying in bed with our laptops remembering things we did in those 30 days that made us laugh. At one point my husband lean forward and said, "I feel such love and peace when I talk to you". Then we went to sleep with skype open so we could hear each other breathe or wake up to see each others face. My daughter finds it odd that we do that but its the closest thing that we have to being together. This wait is so hard but I can't imagine being with anyone else. And I agree with the poster that said our lives are on hold.

I think this whole immigration process creates so much stress on our relationships that there are times that it brings out negative feelings. We had 30 wonderful days together. The first 8 days was spent sleeping apart until we were married. And there was his family there with us to make sure we did so, lol. I felt so close to my husband when I came home but 9 months later I have days I feel like we have become strangers again. Sometimes I just get angry over things that don't even matter. Then other days like last night, we were both laying in bed with our laptops remembering things we did in those 30 days that made us laugh. At one point my husband lean forward and said, "I feel such love and peace when I talk to you". Then we went to sleep with skype open so we could hear each other breathe or wake up to see each others face. My daughter finds it odd that we do that but its the closest thing that we have to being together. This wait is so hard but I can't imagine being with anyone else. And I agree with the poster that said our lives are on hold.

I haven't been on VJ much the past 2-3 days as I have been working and in my free time trying to figure out what is needed for the National Visa Center. I usually try to keep up with all the august filers but now I have fallen a little behind.
I am right there with you Lisa............confused, lol. I understand my part but my question is.....once we get the number from NVC do I just go pay the fees and the DS-260 package is a hard copy mailed to my husband or do we log on to some site to electronically fill in the forms? Its all kind of confusing. I understand what is needed just not how we get it.
Deep I am so so happy for you. congratulations......what a roller coaster ride you have been on.
Now where is Izzy? Did you get approval yet my friend? I haven't seen you for while now.

I haven't been on VJ much the past 2-3 days as I have been working and in my free time trying to figure out what is needed for the National Visa Center. I usually try to keep up with all the august filers but now I have fallen a little behind.
I am right there with you Lisa............confused, lol. I understand my part but my question is.....once we get the number from NVC do I just go pay the fees and the DS-260 package is a hard copy mailed to my husband or do we log on to some site to electronically fill in the forms? Its all kind of confusing. I understand what is needed just not how we get it.
Deep I am so so happy for you. congratulations......what a roller coaster ride you have been on.
Now where is Izzy? Did you get approval yet my friend? I haven't seen you for while now.

I haven't been on VJ much the past 2-3 days as I have been working and in my free time trying to figure out what is needed for the National Visa Center. I usually try to keep up with all the august filers but now I have fallen a little behind.
I am right there with you Lisa............confused, lol. I understand my part but my question is.....once we get the number from NVC do I just go pay the fees and the DS-260 package is a hard copy mailed to my husband or do we log on to some site to electronically fill in the forms? Its all kind of confusing. I understand what is needed just not how we get it.
Deep I am so so happy for you. congratulations......what a roller coaster ride you have been on.
Now where is Izzy? Did you get approval yet my friend? I haven't seen you for while now.

That is assuming he is even still in Morocco. He has been gone 6 months and has his U.S. citizenship. I would say it is more likely he is back in the USA. Besides, plane tickets are expensive and so is divorce fees. The cheapest way to achieve her divorce is running the ad. Why waste her money really? He has cut off all communication with her and seems to not care.

That is assuming he is even still in Morocco. He has been gone 6 months and has his U.S. citizenship. I would say it is more likely he is back in the USA. Besides, plane tickets are expensive and so is divorce fees. The cheapest way to achieve her divorce is running the ad. Why waste her money really? He has cut off all communication with her and seems to not care.

I sure hope you do indeed get good news. I have been watching your case and Izzy&Jamie's case hoping for good news for you guys.

That is assuming he is even still in Morocco. He has been gone 6 months and has his U.S. citizenship. I would say it is more likely he is back in the USA. Besides, plane tickets are expensive and so is divorce fees. The cheapest way to achieve her divorce is running the ad. Why waste her money really? He has cut off all communication with her and seems to not care.

Just cause that is how the USCIS rolls........don't let it bother you. It happened to all of us. I got 5 text and 3 emails when I got my transfer. The transfer date changed from 3rd the 5th on one of the emails and then got the "your petition has been transferred to your local office". I means nothing.
Just wait for the hard copy in the mail. It will tell you the Service Center it was transferred to. I got my approval a week after my transfer. So no worries, be happy. The ball is rolling now!

Just cause that is how the USCIS rolls........don't let it bother you. It happened to all of us. I got 5 text and 3 emails when I got my transfer. The transfer date changed from 3rd the 5th on one of the emails and then got the "your petition has been transferred to your local office". I means nothing.
Just wait for the hard copy in the mail. It will tell you the Service Center it was transferred to. I got my approval a week after my transfer. So no worries, be happy. The ball is rolling now!

yaaaaaayyyyyyyyy!!!!!! so happy for everyone that got their transfers today.......now come on approvals for those already transferred!!!!
Its like one big team here and I want to see everyone get pushed through this whole process together, lol. Leave no couple behind!

Lisa I got my approval late in the night so I didn't even realize it till the next day. I had checked my status that night with no changes. The next day I logged on to VJ and read aditya's post he was approved. I immediately checked mine and couldn't believe it. I have no idea when it was changed.

I can relate to that completely. I grew up with a father who was in the military for 22 years and was gone constantly. My mother would not see my dad for a year or more at a time and its true what you say.......no internet, cell phones, etc. All they had was an occasional expensive long distance phone calls, lots of letters, some photographs, and if we were really lucky and dad was in the USA he might get a weekend or 30 day leave to come home.
My parents loved each other very much and stuck it out together through all the separations and hardships. Often times we lived near bases were my mom had no family close by and never knew if my dad was going to come back home in a body bag. They died 3 years apart. My mother was heartbroken when my father died and felt she belong in the grave beside him. Though cancer is what took both my parents lives I really believe my mother's heartbreak contributed to her death. If they were still alive they would be have celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary.
We are really lucky to have internet these days to at least see our love ones daily in most cases but still the separation is hard. Some days we can be positive but there are times it takes a toll on our emotions. I guess the point I am trying to get at is that if the relationship is strong and the love is there we can all make it through this time of waiting.
I sincerely hope and wish for many, many transfers and approvals today for all who are still waiting.........remember to check your status late in the evening. I got my transfer late in the day and approval even later in the night. Hang in there everyone!!!!

Lisa I got my approval late in the night so I didn't even realize it till the next day. I had checked my status that night with no changes. The next day I logged on to VJ and read aditya's post he was approved. I immediately checked mine and couldn't believe it. I have no idea when it was changed.

I can relate to that completely. I grew up with a father who was in the military for 22 years and was gone constantly. My mother would not see my dad for a year or more at a time and its true what you say.......no internet, cell phones, etc. All they had was an occasional expensive long distance phone calls, lots of letters, some photographs, and if we were really lucky and dad was in the USA he might get a weekend or 30 day leave to come home.
My parents loved each other very much and stuck it out together through all the separations and hardships. Often times we lived near bases were my mom had no family close by and never knew if my dad was going to come back home in a body bag. They died 3 years apart. My mother was heartbroken when my father died and felt she belong in the grave beside him. Though cancer is what took both my parents lives I really believe my mother's heartbreak contributed to her death. If they were still alive they would be have celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary.
We are really lucky to have internet these days to at least see our love ones daily in most cases but still the separation is hard. Some days we can be positive but there are times it takes a toll on our emotions. I guess the point I am trying to get at is that if the relationship is strong and the love is there we can all make it through this time of waiting.
I sincerely hope and wish for many, many transfers and approvals today for all who are still waiting.........remember to check your status late in the evening. I got my transfer late in the day and approval even later in the night. Hang in there everyone!!!!

I can relate to that completely. I grew up with a father who was in the military for 22 years and was gone constantly. My mother would not see my dad for a year or more at a time and its true what you say.......no internet, cell phones, etc. All they had was an occasional expensive long distance phone calls, lots of letters, some photographs, and if we were really lucky and dad was in the USA he might get a weekend or 30 day leave to come home.
My parents loved each other very much and stuck it out together through all the separations and hardships. Often times we lived near bases were my mom had no family close by and never knew if my dad was going to come back home in a body bag. They died 3 years apart. My mother was heartbroken when my father died and felt she belong in the grave beside him. Though cancer is what took both my parents lives I really believe my mother's heartbreak contributed to her death. If they were still alive they would be have celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary.
We are really lucky to have internet these days to at least see our love ones daily in most cases but still the separation is hard. Some days we can be positive but there are times it takes a toll on our emotions. I guess the point I am trying to get at is that if the relationship is strong and the love is there we can all make it through this time of waiting.
I sincerely hope and wish for many, many transfers and approvals today for all who are still waiting.........remember to check your status late in the evening. I got my transfer late in the day and approval even later in the night. Hang in there everyone!!!!