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  1. I understand where she is coming from. It is very easy to be ten feet tall when you are a "faceless" entity with no chance of coming face to face with the person you are flaming. I doubt anyone would say it to her face. There is a name to describe people like this. I believe it is called cowardice.

    To those VJers here who were so mean and hurtful to Dreamlife, I ask you, "Do you kiss your mother with that mouth?" Think about it.

    Flame me all you want. I can flame right back. We are ALL entitled to our opinions, we just don't have to be mean and nasty about it!

    "Why can't we all just get along?" :D

    I just tried to PM dreamlife and her account is already gone. Well done! :thumbs:

  2. Dreamlife,

    Here is a little saying that is very useful at times like this.

    F'em all, big and small!

    It always makes me feel better when I say it! :P

    Remember, "consider the source"!

  3. Our case has been sent to the NVC for "administrative processing" and I STILL check the USCIS website several times per day. Old habits are hard to break!

    The only thing that a touch meant to me was that our case had not been sucked into a black hole...traveled through a worm hole and ended up in a parallel universe! Other than that, it didn't mean much. But it DID feel good when we were touched!

    BTW, Clare...Rong and I do the webcam "thing", too! They are wonderful inventions... :P

  4. Is the sample form on VJ accurate in regards to the information provided concerning assets. I see that the form only displays the annual salary of the petitioner and not any other assets. I earn greater than the required minimum for entry. Will I need to provide other asset values as well or is my annual salary sufficient?

  5. I am not an advice expert. Heck, I don't even play one on TV, but here goes. It is probably worth what you paid for it.... :P

    Everything in life is a gamble as we do not have any crystal balls with which to foretell the future. Whether it is a long distance relationship, a "short distance" relationship, or a marriage we just do not know. Therefore, we "take chances" on things in life after evaluating them with the best information we have available at the time.

    Who knew that after 30 years of marriage that I would have asked my then wife for a divorce? When we were dating and first married the thought of a divorce never entered into my mind. Stuff happens!

    Be happy in the fact that you took that chance, for it could have been the best move of your life! Without taking chances we cannot grow in life, in love, in our careers. It hurts now and I know that these words sound hollow, but they are true from a man who has experienced a divorce; time will heal your wounds. It hurts now and will for some time, but each day you will feel just a little bit better and one day you will be ready to "take another chance at love".

    God bless you both. :crying: Rong and I are so sad to hear this news, but things happen for a reason. Many times we are not clear as to what the reason is until much later. Keep the faith, baby! :thumbs:

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