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I just wanted to say that you are not "overly sensitive" and what you felt was very real to you. I am sorry that you had to experience this. Unfortunately this happens too often. Commenting on the appearance that are unique to someone's race/ethnicity can be considered racism or overly exotifying the racial/ethnic group even when the comment is positive. If you are unsettled about this, you may wan to consider sending a letter or some sort to express your concerns. I think culturally sensitive people in the clinic will appreciate it and that may lead to a better training of providers. Even though it is such a small act and won't probably change the situation right away, it will still give you the sense that you are in charge and you can do something about it. I read an article that ethnic minorities who took some actions after the incidence of subtle discrimination were much less likely to have health problems than those who did not take any actions after encountering discrimination - meaning discrimination can have serious negative impract. It is hard when it is suble (though I would say the incident you described was pretty overt) but I hope you do what you need to feel better. Good luck.

Thank you very much Dave! Your response was extremely helpful. It is a relief to know that my husband does not have to worry about his decision negatively affecting the immigration process. Thank you.

Hello,

I am a non-US citizen and applied to AOS, AP, and EAD through marriage. My status is still "under initial review". My US citizen spouse is considering changing his given (first) name. We filed all the paperwork under his current given name. He hasn't made the decision yet but we want to know what we need to do if he decides to change his given name after I receive a conditional permanent residency but before getting unconditional permanent residency.

I googled and searched visa journey discussion forum but I did not see any topics related to US citizen spouse’s name change after conditional permanent residency has been approved for the non-US citizen spouse. I find information related to a US citizen changing her/his given name by filing it to the court but none discussed how that may affect the non-US citizen spouse’s process of applying unconditional residency. Any advice will be helpful. Thank you!