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Marie1123

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  1. Jasman, out of curiosity...how did you label your tabs. Did you do a tab for every category or for each individual type of evidence.

    I'm putting mine together now and i'm having a hard time labeling...maybe I'm just retarded.

    Congrats Jasman. Hope things go smoothly for you.

    I think we have put together a really nice packet. I have it set up in a binder with ACCO fasteners and tabs at the bottom to separate each document section. I have five letters from friends and family about our relationship and lots of other documents so I think we should be fine. :dance::dance: It will be nice to get this done and over with :thumbs:

  2. Looks like I'll be putting mine in the mail either tonight or first thing tommorrow. I have a packet which includes

    • I751 signed
    • 2 passport photos
    • check (signed),
    • cover letter
    • tax transcripts 05,06
    • Pay Stubs
    • Att Phone bills
    • Vonage Phone Bills
    • Wachovia statement, correspondence and a void check plus an explanation of why the account was closed.
    • Copies of 2 joint CC
    • Copies of Sleepy's joint CC
    • Various Car Insurance Cards covering both
    • My 401K statements showing him as beneficiary
    • ING Joint Account Statements
    • Copies of Green Card front and back
    • Copies of my passport
    • Copies of both driver's license
    • Divorce documents
    NO pictures, or letters from friends, no lease or mortgages as we lived with my parents.

    I believe this is all I need. Anyone sees anything missing?

  3. I'm assembling my packagae and here's the list of supporting documents I have. This, I believe is my final list of things. I will also be adding my divorce decree to this list when I get it.

    • Copies of my Passport and green card (front and back)

    • A partial copy of our 2005 and 2006 joint US tax return and/or IRS Tax Transcripts

    • Copy of my 401K statements showing USC Husband as beneficiary.

    • Copy of Job Benefits showing USC husband as Life Insurance Beneficiary.

    • Copy of Job Benefits showing USC husband as Accidental Death Insurance Beneficiary.

    • Copy of our Joint ING Savings Account Statements.

    • Copies of various car insurance notices.

    • Copy of our Bank of America visa cards showing a joint account.

    • Copy of our Citi Bank master cards showing a joint account

    • Copy of our AAA cards showing joint account.

    • Copy of our overdraft notices from our Wachovia joint Account showing.

    • Copy of a void check from our Wachovia Account which is now closed due to repeat overdrafts and insufficient funds.

    • Copies of Statements from Wachovia prior to closing the account.

    • Copy of Vonage phone account Quarterly Bills in both names

    • Copy of AT&T Phone in USC name.

    Am I forgetting anything, we were living with my family so we have no lease/mortgage etc and no utilities, except for the phones.

  4. Everything's been a lot easier. My family seemed a little shocked at the news...they definately weren't disappointed like I thought they would be. In the end everyone was pretty supportive. As far as him, the scum bag he was arrested for gun possession and host of other things as I mentioned in my earlier posts. He was out on bail for almost 3 months and would you believe it? He was arrested for stealing a car, having 150 Ecstasy pills and what else? A Gun. He was just sentenced this past thursday 4 years with good behavior. Personally I think the justice system is a little too lenient. He didn't sign the divorce papers and showed up in court requesting alimony and host of other B.S. Luckily my court date is May 4th and he wont be there. The nerve....

  5. For the first time in 14 years I'm going back to my country. I haven't seen my mom nor most of my family for the same amount of time. Should be a beautiful trip; I leave December 18th and return January 7th. Originally it was supposed to be myself, my husband and my daughter. Husband is no longer in the picture so it will only be myself and daughter (bitter/sweet).

    Who else?

  6. Update: I've sinced spoken with my attorney, same one processed my GC papers and we're going to be serving him papers sometime around the middle of the month. According to my attorney, luckily he'll be in prison so we'll know exactly where to serve him. If it goes like my attorney plans, by the end of February or sooner I'll be detached from this yutz. As for me, I'm not eligible for the pension with my job until January 1 so he suggested I wait until after the divorce is final to sign up; this way he won't be entitled to JACK!

  7. Thanks for the advice everyone. Fortunately there aren't any checks going around, he would take whatever cash was in the account out...I mean down to the last penny and then he would go on a swipig spree...he would go fill his tank up, go get food, and i saw a few walmart swipes (wonder what he was gettig at walmart). I went to the bank this morning and spoke to 2 managers, they eventually reduced my overdraft fees from 9 to just 2 so I had to pay $192 to bring the account to zero and it's now closed and there's nothing out there. Thank God he never had the check book. I also spoke to a couple divore attorney and should be meeting with one before the end of september.

  8. I'm the Immigrant.

    As far as my parents, I guess they're from that era where people stayed married no matter how miserable they were, they believed in turning the other cheek. Frankly, I think it's a bunch of bull!

    This is all so sudden, the marriage, as far as i Know was going pretty OK. Lord knows it wasn't perfect...he was staying out late a lot, money was always short for no appararent reason...now looking back it all makes sense. the worst thing in life is to feel like someone took you for a fool, and that's exactly how I feel.

  9. Um no I don't think you are giving up. What kind of a 'forever' would a marriage like that be?

    Wait a minute - 2 daughters in less than a year....that means two different mothers, right?

    What an a$$hole.

    Nope first kid was born August 26th, second kid was born May 12th. From what the mother told me, somethings wrong with the kid and she was born a couple months premature. Not that I care!

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