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Go back there and get married then file for cr1. That's your best and only chance. Two red flags on your shoulders
- The country from wich the beneficiary is from!
-The HUGE gap of age between you.
File for cr1 and frontload your package with tonnes of evidence and hopefully that might work out for both of you.
Good luck

To: All vjs members
Subject : Request for Evidence "RFE"
-if you noticed that a RFE has been issued to you as it appears online "status", make sure you go online and schedule an infopass as soon as possible.
.As you may know, it put on hold to your dreams, aspirations and everything else in between.
-if you don't receive the mail 10 days after it was issued, call uscis and talk to an io in pronto to see if the mail was sent to your address.
- finally go to your infopass appointment before an io and ask them the mail whereabouts or a new one in your own hands.
-In doing so, you wouldn't be going through the same ordeal that many of us in this forum had to go through and it save you time & money

I deeply share your frustration as it's been a new normal at uscis not to MAIL RFE to applicants so they can promptly respond to that. Its really shameful and disgraceful on the part of some the reckless employees whose doing so for a simple purpose..delay and/or deny you benefit sought. I personnally went through the same ordeal year ago and had to refile a new package with new fees $1070 because the mail never left the office. I salute your tenacity and relentless attempt to call them out. Bravo!

Always include proof of a bona fide marriage. Try to frontload your petition to avoid any RFE which always derail or delay your dreams. Why, why wait for USCIS to request anything you suppose to provide up front as a petitioner for your spouse? I disagree with your attorney in that front.

Yes I agree. She's already a legal permanent resident upon arriving in the US. She just have to wait for her green card in the mail anytime now...

As a spouse of us citizen/ permanent resident, you may qualified to apply for vawa (violence of womens Act) provide you can prove that your us citizen /LPR spouse has mistreated you or you've been battered..have police reports and counseling documents. You can self-petition or retain an attorney. Reminder" your spouse shouldn't know that you're filling for vawa...

You are absolutely correct; if you do have enough income 125% above the poverty guidelines then there's no need to provide bank statements. That's exactly what we've done..

No they will always give you a second chance to submit more evidences that's why they send RFE to applicants as long as you sent marriage cert in the original package. Like keep your fingers crossed and get all documents for interview

A real husband will never leave his lovely wife and awesome family at the whims of ICE for deportation. You should tell the truth about your marriage. What's your husband is scared off? Maybe a $10.000 fine and a jail time..