Go back to court? Why? he had the house before she got there, so I assume it iss still in his name. Call the police and show them the Deed and he will escourt them out immeadiately. No fuss no muss.
The real issue here is the man has a heart. I know how that is, my ex was supported fully in another home by me for 6 months after she left while we were, "working things out". Used me up big time during that time. But I was able to leave the relationship with a clear conscious... Worth a lot to me.
Until the OP decides he has truly had enough though, there is nothing to do. The truth is, you have worked on the issue, she has rejected you, so yes, you kick her out on to the streets. Harsh, yes... but SHE made that decision, not you. Hell you would probably let her stay indefinately if she just treated you with respect. She has chosen not to. What you are in danger of now is abuse claims, so be very very careful. I would worry, if I were you, that if you allow her to stay, some day she will have a bruise over her eye and the police will meet you at the door. I would suggest strongly that you end this now, forcebly, ESPECIALLY since there has already been abuse talk by her.
I know it sucks, but being used always sucks. It is up to you how long you allow it to suck. The fact is, there is no way to save this relationship. She is using you and that is all there is to it. The only question is how long will you endure it...
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Go back to court? Why? he had the house before she got there, so I assume it iss still in his name. Call the police and show them the Deed and he will escourt them out immeadiately. No fuss no muss.
The real issue here is the man has a heart. I know how that is, my ex was supported fully in another home by me for 6 months after she left while we were, "working things out". Used me up big time during that time. But I was able to leave the relationship with a clear conscious... Worth a lot to me.
Until the OP decides he has truly had enough though, there is nothing to do. The truth is, you have worked on the issue, she has rejected you, so yes, you kick her out on to the streets. Harsh, yes... but SHE made that decision, not you. Hell you would probably let her stay indefinately if she just treated you with respect. She has chosen not to. What you are in danger of now is abuse claims, so be very very careful. I would worry, if I were you, that if you allow her to stay, some day she will have a bruise over her eye and the police will meet you at the door. I would suggest strongly that you end this now, forcebly, ESPECIALLY since there has already been abuse talk by her.
I know it sucks, but being used always sucks. It is up to you how long you allow it to suck. The fact is, there is no way to save this relationship. She is using you and that is all there is to it. The only question is how long will you endure it...
Sorry for you situation.