Lost Soul

"Tired of waiting" is not an excuse... I feel tired of waiting too... sometime.
not easy to have long distance relationship, especially come to the stage of submitted document for K1. I am sure the "negative feeling" is just for awhile... (fingers crossed)

awww ;( sorry to hear that fren ;( bkit nmn ganun ! parang may something nga nun nabasa co story muh ;(( but stay calm b patients sis! everything happens for some reasons .. keep praying !

Oh my god I'm so heart broken reading this! I'm not going to say anything other than I am thinking of you. No words can bring much comfort right now. Stunned you would go to all the effort of making the app and enduring the wait to throw it all up! FOOL!!! I'm sure you are a wonderful and beautiful person who desrves so much better! You can and will do so much better. In my thoughts and prayers. Be kind to yourself. All my love to you. Xxx

So sorry to hear about the break-up.. I know how much you are hurting now.. It is never easy to let go of something you've dreamt of and of someone you love most... In this journey both parties should really be patient and be each others strenght. In one point of our journey, i even consider giving up already because of the long wait, thinking it may not really be for me but my fiance was there to always assure me that we will be together no matter how long the wait... that we will end up in each others arms... and assures me of how much he loves me everytime... and yes to tell me too that patience is virtue... lol...
All i can wish for you is hope he changes his mind... maybe he is just overwhelmed of how the process is and how much time it is taking... if not, I wish you could accept things that happened and be positive... There is someone out there much more worthy of your love... Just keep your faith...

I was denied! Yes, I am! My fiancee denied me before even our papers gets approved.
He get tired of waiting and decided to stop our journey and whats more painful is that i tried checking our case no. status today..
just to find out that they sent us already RFE mail a couple of days ago...and he didnt even tell me..guess its really over for him.
But still im keeping my faith that somehow miracle does exist for i really love him.
Thank you for this site.so inspiring! Keep it up guys!And Salute to those who conquered the journey!

I was denied! Yes, I am! My fiancee denied me before even our papers gets approved.
He get tired of waiting and decided to stop our journey and whats more painful is that i tried checking our case no. status today..
just to find out that they sent us already RFE mail a couple of days ago...and he didnt even tell me..guess its really over for him.
But still im keeping my faith that somehow miracle does exist for i really love him.
Thank you for this site.so inspiring! Keep it up guys!And Salute to those who conquered the journey!

I'm truly sorry that this happened to you.
It's hard to understand why he gave up.
But as others have posted, it's probably best that this happened now instead of later.
This visa process is just a small part in the journey of being a couple, being marred; if he couldn't tough this wait out then who knows what else he wouldn't be able to handle.
Again, I'm sorry and try to not let this bring you down.
Good luck on everything in your future.
Things will get better.

i am so sorry to hear this. my thoughts are with you. really, its his loss.

His loss, honey. True love found me when I was nursing a broken heart, and it will find you, girl. x

Its something he found out during the process, maybe not wanting to reveal it, spend the money, start seeing someone else
or plain wishy washy, U cant relay on partner that don't have your back , your day will come when you find a real man who will
love & stick by you.. He may even fall under the Adam Walsh clause who knows?

Oh dear I soooooo feel your pain. My husbands interview was April 15th (yep just 11 days ago). I found out the friday before interview he got married. Yep, I guess he went and got secretly divorced from me and married her.
So I so understand. I won't say all those cute cliche' that frankly don't make u feel any better.
Just take care of yourself. Keep your chin up.

I hope everything works out for you. Anyone who would stop a relationship because he is tired of waiting, doesn't sound very invested in the relationship. I hope you can find someone perfect for you.

wow i think it's better that he did that now than later.i can't imagine he'll bring you here in the US and decide later to walk away before the wedding.
obviously, this man doesn't love u enough to give up to you that easily.
how's your relationship w/him lately? any red flags? any sign his getting cold feet? or any arguments that make him doubt u?
anyhow you don't have to answer those if you don't want to.
just remember things happen for a reason.
goodluck!!!

This process does try one's patience but, so does marriage from time to time.I hope things work out for you but, maybe it's better you found out this quality, or lack thereof, before you were with him in the U.S.

Sorry to hear that. I wish you the best and hope things work out well for you, but maybe it's good this happened now rather than once you're married and in the US.