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You can apply for removal of conditions yourself. You do not have to stay married to him. You will need to show you entered the marriage in good faith.

The more immediate concern is your safety, health, and welfare. You can leave with the green card but you also have to stay on top of whatever is going on with the divorce.

His CO told me last Wed he will send me the paperwork of the divorce I asked him to mail it to me but he promised me he will not let my husband know where I'm staying at..as of today I haven't received anything yet...

I have all the proof of our marriage in good faith and he's the one who wanna get out of the marriage and not me...going through marriage counseling but he don't wanna go with me but Im still going....

The Commander can punish for not providing adequate financial support to dependents that the military member is receiving a benefit for (assume he's receiving with-dependent BAH)...although punishment should always be in private and not advertised to anyone (in other words, you shouldn't expect a report about what his specific admin action or punishment is). Army has regulations stating a specific amount for these type circumstances, Air Force is just "adequate support". Not sure about the other services.

Contact the First Sergeant, Commander, or JAG (in that order) if the support isn't adequate.

when i went to Jag lawyer they contacted the First Sgt then his commnader I'm able to talked to this CO and said my husband will provide support but I'm not sure how and when it will happened I dont recieved anything yet so far...

any more input??

any more input???

It depends on how tight he is with his unit. Usually, at least in my experience which was about 15 years ago, the military does not criminally charge active duty persons unless the abuse is really bad. They usually force the member to go through counseling, anger management,drug abuse classes, whatever is appropriate as they see it to solve the problem.

As far as support he is required to provide you with either a place to live or the BAH. This will only last until you are divorced, after that he is only required to pay you whatever the court orders.

I have all the text messages from him hows hes abusing me emotionally I am going through therapy right now..

he never hit me but he will throw all the stuff in the house when he's mad..but how will i make sure he will support me till the divorce is final?? do i have to go back to Jag lawyer again???

he never hurt me physically but emotionally,verbally and financially...now that all my savings are gone he just kicked me out..I make report to military police because of his threat to me that if i still wanna stay with him at the house he'll make it harder for me and he can track me down because he has a friend from FBI..The MP gave menumber to call in so I can contact the Jag lawyer so when i went to Jag lawyer they contacted his boss and his commander...

he said im stupid and dont know about any laws here in the US I am immigrant he sponsored for my Green card but he make me his slave...he said he filed divorce already and cannot live together but he knows i dont have a job,money and not driving yet he knows i dont have a place to go....

I received a call from his commander saying my husband will support me in financial then he will send me the divorce paper

today i received a call from jag lawyer check if the commander have called me...

now i dont know whats the next step...wanna make sure he will support me at least the share of the BAH right now staying with a friend and sleeping in the couch...

once you have your green card, you cannot be deported....

but its only conditional and a short marriage..I'm just scared I cannot do the waiver and if I'll visit my family back home i cannot return anymore....

My husband is mentally,verbally,financially abusive I made report to the Military Police then to Jag lawyer they contacted his commander..he kicked me out of our apartment and its military housing...

....is there any punishment for him???

Got my conditional green card few weeks ago married for less than a year my husband not really treating me right I guess he's seeing his ex wife again.very controlling,very jealous,hes not supporting me at all dont have a job dont have a car..last Thursday he got home from work and really mad grabbed the router and disconnected my internet punched my laptop while talking to my family back home and i was scared and he said I have to move out right away and said if im not gonna move out he'll make it harder for me i dont know what he meant by that so that night i packed all my stuff in trash bags asked my friend to pick me out..

I dont have family here too....

were living in military housing...the next day i went to the base and make a report of what he did to me

then the next day i went to Jag lawyer they all said I have the right to stay at the house because were still married...

he's been telling me he already filed the divorce but his commander said he just filed it last monday...

right now I am overwhelmed of all whats goin on in my life..going to therapy right now recommend to take anti depressant and anti anxiety meds...

my husbnad also sent messages to my sister thet he reported me to the immigration and said i can be deported is that true??

I have plan to visit my family back home to gain more strenght from them for the long battle i have to go through..

Do you think i will have any problem coming back in the U.S??