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I paid $135 to have the USPS deliver with Tracking a 16"-16"-15" box filled with Christams presents to my Fiance in Zamboanga City Philippines. It was last scanned and stated:

Arrival at Pick-Up PHILIPPINES 12/06/12 6:36am

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My Fiance has called the Zamboanga City, Philippines Post office, and the Airport post office as that seems more likely where this last scan came from. But they state that No package has arrived from the USA even though this box was scanned to show it is there. I contacted the USPS to perform an investigation and I really thought something would be done as boxes of this size and fact that is was scanned shows it is located somewhere at delivery point!!!

Instead I recieve this email from USPS:

Date: 12/13/2012

BRADLEY MCCULLOUGH:

In response to your request dated 11/29/2012, we regret to inform you that we were unable to

locate any delivery information in our records regarding your item number XXXX xxxx 806U

S.

If you require additional assistance, please take this receipt to your local Post Office or postal

representative.

Sincerely,

United States Postal Service

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I feel sick knowing all my Christmas gifts for the kids and her is going to someone who stole them. I pray that it just may take a bit more time to show up but am so disgouraged by USPS to have paid $135 to have someone steal my presents and hold no one in the Pilippine postal service accountable.

This box was scanned so there is a trail but no one cares to follow.

Any suggestions, Is it possible that it will take more time or should I try to replace all my gifts and never use USPS again? I really hope its's just going to show up and my Girl is devasted that the toys for the kids are now gone.

I thought paying $135 with USPS Express mail and tracking was as safe as I could go?

I'm so sad right now...

Brad

Sorry VisaJourney Forums, I'm trying to get used to replying to the posts so I hope this posts correctly.

Thank you all for the great advice and we are very serious after many months of seeing each other through Skype,phone,email,etc.. I will travel there soon and had a wonder if that would be good or safe for me as a foreighner in a place that USA says should not be traveled. It is Zamboanga, Philippines. She had assured me that I am safe as her Christian community is stron and that no harm would come. I also seen that the major hotels and such were very nice and provide a comfortable place to stay as a visitor. I do believe that I will not be harmed and I will go see her very soon. If any one has a good flights to Zamboanga and hotels please let me know. I have looked up all ther is so I'm aware of all they have to offer. Whats most important is spending time with her and the boys and letting the kids know me as much as my Girl as I don't want to tramatise the kids if and when we marry and they come to USA..

Hello All,

I'm glad I found this site. I was in love and and moved the earth to be with her. She lived in Russia. This was 2006 and we had got our K1 and married 3/17/2007 in US. My Wife became very distant after 2 years and after 3.5 years she moved out of out house with no notice and only a short hand written note. She took our dogs and all she wanted but I didn't care. I just wanted to know why after whe had such a good life together and my family loved her so much too. Anyways, it seems it was she that had things to work out so I tried to make it work but no amount of love could change her. We were officialy divorced in 7/2012 We still talk and actually she wants me to be a big part of her life and be with her again. Sadly, I can't do that as my heart was broken and I feel embarrassed that she took me and my family for granted. I love her and wish her well but I will never trust her again as a Man should trust his Woman.

This brings me to my question. It has been 2 years since our seperation and 7/2012 since the paperwork of divorce. I have dated a few ladies localy in the USA and they were fine but I dated a Fillipio girls and she showed me a whole new culture and life that I never knew. It seems my date was only going to be a friend but through her family I was introduced to another woman with 2 kids still living in Philippines and we have been talking, skyping, writing, email, and regular mail for some time. This Woman has captured my heart and I want to think that maybe we can be together someday if she would have me.

What I would like to know is will I be able to get another K1 if we decide we want to marry or will this be a hard time for both of us. I am a professional man with a very good job and my Ex has a good job with a large State county that I helped get her, plus my ex has a Masters degree so I pay no alimony and we have no kids. My ex and I parted as friends and with the understanding that I pay all of our debt including credit cards. I am doing that and I can afford to.

I hope my blind love for one doesn't stop me from being together with the one I want to be with now. Any advice would greatly be appreciated!!

Thanks all!!