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Mateo&Raquel reacted to Gosia & Tito in • My K1 status wife now says she wants to leave the US
A new immigrant is always very very very overwhelmed and stressed, even if she speaks English well. It takes time to adjust and a support network; add to that this problem you noted with daughter and the easy way out is go back. I'd first look into whether the 'problem' with daughter is solvable. I have direct experience in Peru and I just don't buy the no one wants to take her, unless she is a problem teenager/child, this kid needs some discipline that no one has provided and essentially your wife is the only one who would put up with that behavior. Before anything, I'd see about solving the daughter problem. If it was a marry your wallet, you would have been supporting her since long ago, before she came here. Since she is leaning to call it quits, I doubt is a GC what she was/is after. It seems to me that is stress.
The advice about connecting with other con-nationals is sound; that is the very first thing I did for my wife. Luckily I had friends from her country and they hit it off. She now can speak her own language any time; can visit. Then out of her English class, 2 other friends also foreigner. The only one who truly understands how your wife feels and is going through is someone else going thru same. Them Skype and backup phone cards so she can talk to family at will.
Good luck
Just my 2 pennies
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Mateo&Raquel got a reaction from Darnell in Advice for voluntary deportation and divorce
I have no clue what you are going through, nor will I ask for personal details, as to that is not any of my business. I don't know how many people still use the VOWS in their weddings today, but unless there is adultry going on, or you or your kids are being beaten, I suggest the best advice of all..PRAYER..I will be praying for you as well. We must all remember the VOWS we say and take on that Special day. For richer or for poorer, in sickness and in good health, in the times of good and the times of bad, for all the days of our lives, until death due us part. Too many people are forgetting these vows nowadays. And I hate to say it, but America has the highest rate of divorces than any other countries. Its heartbreaking. Im not trying to tell you what to do..just giving advice as you asked. If you have never heard of it, there is a Great movie, titled Fireproof. If you can find it, watch it together, or watch it alone. Fireproof your marriage. Im not saying that there will never be hard times, or disagreements. Im only saying remember why you two got married. You stated you have 2 children, 3 stepchildren...You have five children who will be affected, majorly affected. Pray, as I will with you.
Mateo
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Mateo&Raquel got a reaction from Glyn and Kathy in Advice for voluntary deportation and divorce
I have no clue what you are going through, nor will I ask for personal details, as to that is not any of my business. I don't know how many people still use the VOWS in their weddings today, but unless there is adultry going on, or you or your kids are being beaten, I suggest the best advice of all..PRAYER..I will be praying for you as well. We must all remember the VOWS we say and take on that Special day. For richer or for poorer, in sickness and in good health, in the times of good and the times of bad, for all the days of our lives, until death due us part. Too many people are forgetting these vows nowadays. And I hate to say it, but America has the highest rate of divorces than any other countries. Its heartbreaking. Im not trying to tell you what to do..just giving advice as you asked. If you have never heard of it, there is a Great movie, titled Fireproof. If you can find it, watch it together, or watch it alone. Fireproof your marriage. Im not saying that there will never be hard times, or disagreements. Im only saying remember why you two got married. You stated you have 2 children, 3 stepchildren...You have five children who will be affected, majorly affected. Pray, as I will with you.
Mateo
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Mateo&Raquel got a reaction from Olomi_811 in Advice for voluntary deportation and divorce
I have no clue what you are going through, nor will I ask for personal details, as to that is not any of my business. I don't know how many people still use the VOWS in their weddings today, but unless there is adultry going on, or you or your kids are being beaten, I suggest the best advice of all..PRAYER..I will be praying for you as well. We must all remember the VOWS we say and take on that Special day. For richer or for poorer, in sickness and in good health, in the times of good and the times of bad, for all the days of our lives, until death due us part. Too many people are forgetting these vows nowadays. And I hate to say it, but America has the highest rate of divorces than any other countries. Its heartbreaking. Im not trying to tell you what to do..just giving advice as you asked. If you have never heard of it, there is a Great movie, titled Fireproof. If you can find it, watch it together, or watch it alone. Fireproof your marriage. Im not saying that there will never be hard times, or disagreements. Im only saying remember why you two got married. You stated you have 2 children, 3 stepchildren...You have five children who will be affected, majorly affected. Pray, as I will with you.
Mateo
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Mateo&Raquel got a reaction from Bryan and Isabel in Advice for voluntary deportation and divorce
I have no clue what you are going through, nor will I ask for personal details, as to that is not any of my business. I don't know how many people still use the VOWS in their weddings today, but unless there is adultry going on, or you or your kids are being beaten, I suggest the best advice of all..PRAYER..I will be praying for you as well. We must all remember the VOWS we say and take on that Special day. For richer or for poorer, in sickness and in good health, in the times of good and the times of bad, for all the days of our lives, until death due us part. Too many people are forgetting these vows nowadays. And I hate to say it, but America has the highest rate of divorces than any other countries. Its heartbreaking. Im not trying to tell you what to do..just giving advice as you asked. If you have never heard of it, there is a Great movie, titled Fireproof. If you can find it, watch it together, or watch it alone. Fireproof your marriage. Im not saying that there will never be hard times, or disagreements. Im only saying remember why you two got married. You stated you have 2 children, 3 stepchildren...You have five children who will be affected, majorly affected. Pray, as I will with you.
Mateo
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Mateo&Raquel got a reaction from amberlynnloves in Advice for voluntary deportation and divorce
I have no clue what you are going through, nor will I ask for personal details, as to that is not any of my business. I don't know how many people still use the VOWS in their weddings today, but unless there is adultry going on, or you or your kids are being beaten, I suggest the best advice of all..PRAYER..I will be praying for you as well. We must all remember the VOWS we say and take on that Special day. For richer or for poorer, in sickness and in good health, in the times of good and the times of bad, for all the days of our lives, until death due us part. Too many people are forgetting these vows nowadays. And I hate to say it, but America has the highest rate of divorces than any other countries. Its heartbreaking. Im not trying to tell you what to do..just giving advice as you asked. If you have never heard of it, there is a Great movie, titled Fireproof. If you can find it, watch it together, or watch it alone. Fireproof your marriage. Im not saying that there will never be hard times, or disagreements. Im only saying remember why you two got married. You stated you have 2 children, 3 stepchildren...You have five children who will be affected, majorly affected. Pray, as I will with you.
Mateo