Sven Nancy

Could you give further information so people could help you. You are not paying anybody and people are here to help themselves as a family. If you can't give more details then users would assume you dont really need help. Your situation isn't the worse on visajourney. Let's.cooperate with each other and remember you are not paying anybody here.

The embassy does not care about the weather in New England or whether or not you turn into "popsicles". There is a legal way for US citizens to get visas for their spouses to the US, and that is not a visitor visa, it is an 130 petition for cr1/ir1 visa. You can argue all you want about what you think is right or wrong and it won't get you anywhere, you are talking to a group of people who took this process seriously, did their research,filed the correct type of petition for visa, paid all the fees, and waited in line. You are banging your head against a wall if you think that arguing your case here is going to convince any of us that you should be the exception to the rule. If I were you I would start reading the guides here at the top of the page, and if you want your spouse to be able to visit next year for the holidays you should start your petition soon. Good luck.

I'm surprised you guys got married and didn't even discuss any of this.

I'm surprised you guys got married and didn't even discuss any of this.

No, she can not...Have the husband get his act straight (update his immigration ####### and become a US Citizen), then he can file for his own mother.