LenJayUS

My music tastes are very varied... so it's not surprise that I like some country. I like more of the newer country then that ####### my parents force fed me back in the 80's... and yes... I like alot of the patriotic one's as well. Toby Keith does alot of them now adays.

Sounds like it would be best to talk to a lawyer... child support laws verify from state to state, and in this case country to country. Here in NC, and a couple of states that I know of from looking things up, your income would not be considered into it no matter what.

There's too many varibles for a common person that's not up on all the laws to know. Yes, he should pay some kind of child support, but if he's unable to.. the only way that "I" know of for her lawyer to get him over here would be to take it to court, and then have the UK govt try and extradite him.... would they do that over a temporary civil thing? I doubt it.. but again, I don't know.

And figures... he seems to go above and beyond to help out... more CS payments then required.. helping her out and what not... and she wants to pull this #######.

Never heard of it put that way before Merc

That was a shameless theft of some song lyrics......maybe I'm the only one that knows that song hahahaha.

The next line is:

I'm gonna teach ya how to make your man say......ohhhhhh

No, your not the only one.. and it's a kick ### video as well....

Suddenly I'm in the mood for some Jay and chocolate. :-)

And yes... my ho can give Christina Milian some tips of her own to use to make her man say GAWD DAMN that was good!

BTW - here's the full lyrics :-) Guys, watch the video... gals... take notes lmao

He says he wants you, he says he needs you

It's real talk, then why not make him wait for you

If he really wants you, if he really needs you

Really got to have you

Take your time and feel him out

When he's a good boy

I mean a really, really good boy

Why not let him lay with you

That's when you give it to him good

(Chorus)

Dip it low

Pick it up slow

Roll it all around

Poke it out like your back broke

Pop, pop, pop that thing

I'ma show you how to make your man say "Oh!"

Dip it low

Pick it up slow

Roll it all around

Poke it out like your back broke

Pop, pop, pop that thing

I'ma show you how to make your man say "Oh!"

You're getting bold, he's growing cold

It's just the symptoms of young love growing old

You think it's time

And you're thinking of leaving, but give it time

It's late at night, he's coming home

Meet him at the door with nothing on

Take him by the hand, let him know what's on

If you understand me, y'all come on

All my ladies wind it up

If you know just how to move

All my fellas jump behind

And show her what you wanna do

All my ladies wind it up

If you know just how to move

All my fellas jump behind

And show her what you wanna do

(Chorus)

Dip it low

Pick it up slow

Roll it all around

Poke it out like your back broke

Pop, pop, pop that thing

I'ma show you how to make your man say "Oh!"

Dip it low

Pick it up slow

Roll it all around

Poke it out like your back broke

Pop, pop, pop that thing

I'ma show you how to make your man say "Oh!"

We can move if you wanna

We can move if you wanna

We can move if you wanna

We can move...

(Chorus)

Dip it low

Pick it up slow

Roll it all around

Poke it out like your back broke

Pop, pop, pop that thing

I'ma show you how to make your man say "Oh!"

Dip it low

Pick it up slow

Roll it all around

Poke it out like your back broke

Pop, pop, pop that thing

I'ma show you how to make your man say "Oh!"

Dip it low

Pick it up slow

Roll it all around

Poke it out like your back broke

Pop, pop, pop that thing

I'ma show you how to make your man say "Oh!"

Dip it low

Pick it up slow

Roll it all around

Poke it out like your back broke

Pop, pop, pop that thing

I'ma show you how to make your man say "Oh!"

hey... it has to do with youi... it's not grief... adn it's way beyond good muhuhuhu

break.com is a daily stop for me... triplekiss.com was as well.. but it's been along time since they've posted anything new.

Jay is MY HO... strictly for my pleasure and entertainment :-) She's a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets fo-sure :-)

Of the most common misconceptions I've been hearing... and I admit, I thought that way before as well... was that if I wanted her to stay here with me... I could just marry her when she came over for a visit.. and she'd automatically be allowed to stay - never heard people think she and her daughter would be automatic citizens...

I really really wish this one was true.... save us all some time and money :-)

Jay and I have talked about it... and I think I told her at the time that if she didn't want to tell me... that's fine... I didn't care if she was a virgin (kinda hard since she had a kid) or if she slept with hundreds... the past is the past. Most people have done SOMETHING in their past they aren't happy with.

The most important thing to me would be that what ever number it is.. that it doesn't go up at all, or only by 1 if the two of you have yet to take each other out for a test drive :-D

But she told me, and I told her what I could remember. No... not ALL guys know right off the top of their head who and how many. I don't. I actually have to sit down and make a list (not a long list... only in the teens) to try and remember how many. I do know that it's most likely higher then what I originally told her, and not from me screwing around... I have the memory of a gold fish at times lol. Hell, I don't even remember how many I told her... old age sucks.

iD10T.. lmao....

At work, we have fun with new officers quite a bit. Every american should know that blood hounds and other kinds of tracking dogs are used for escapes. So most people would assume that each prison had dogs... but the don't.. each region does... so one of hazing ritiuals is to send the newbies out to feed the dogs on the back side of the perimeter fence.. which is probably about a mile walk... :-)

But the one I love is sending them down to the LT when they are done their mentoring (their first 10 days, they are stuck at the hip to a mentor) to get the form to make them an "official officer"... an ID-10-T... so of course they go and ask.. all excited... and the LT normally prints off a sheet of paper that simply says... id10t....

it's really bad when they don't get the joke though... damn blondes :-)

Len just called but they have no record of us still

Update: Received 03-23-06

Too each his own I guess... I seem to keep myself and my kids entertained enough. Granted I don't do much right IN Lenior... but I still find stuff to do. Of course, I'm not big on the heavy drinking/bar scene... which you can't find in Lenoir... so that probably helps.

Umm, I just got my 2005 tax transcript in the mail... I didn't have to wait until May. If you've been paid your return already for this year, you should have no problem in getting your transcript.

Im not Canadian either but I'll be based in Lenoir by summer

no no no no! Don't do it! EEK!

I lived in Lenoir for 6 months...bloody awful place

And its about 9 or so hours from the coast.

Only half an hour from where I am now tho Also a bloody awful place We're moving out of state sometime by summer I think.

Why do you think it's such a bloody awful place? I've lived here for 3 years now, and I like it. And if I can get to Raleigh in about 3 hours... I think I can get to a beach in less then 9 :-D Hell, it only takes me about 9 hours to drive up to NJ.

The debate over capital punishment, as with abortion, has largely been over in Europe for decades. In some ways it seems like a step back to see images of people in the news jumping and cheering when a criminal gets sentenced.

All our resources seem to be spent on hurling hellfire and brimstone at convicted felons, we're rather less bothered about finding out what is wrong with our society that causes people to behave like this. The US for example has a monopoly on serial killers, similarly cities like Los Angeles are notorious for black and latino gang crime, but we seem less interested in discussing or finding solutions to the real social problems that cause this kind of activity.

Unfortunately every time I ask this question I get accused of having some sort of desire to protect criminals rather than victims of crime. Untrue and inaccurate.

I think some people don't want to hear about social inequalities (a major cause of crime for instance can be tied to economic inequalities). Part of the reason that blacks and latinos are filling our jails is because ethnic communities are traditionally poorer and are less likely to enter higher education. I think there's a general unwillingness to accept that these factors play a role in determining the opportunities that are available for different people. I'm all for holding people responsible for their actions, but that's not to say I think a person's choice to turn to crime isn't at least influenced by external factors. Anyway... that's going a little O/T for this thread. I seem to do that quite a bit...

As far as this dude getting sentenced to die... GREAT!

There's more to it then social inequalities. Dealing with alot of troubled youth at work alot, it's not just about money and what not. This may sound racist, but it's not... you'll find that I'm not a racist at all. Most of our prison where I work is filled with blacks. Find out who their role models are. Do you think it would be people like Denzil Washington, Morgan Freeman, Bill Cosby and other law abiding, successful people? Or do you think it's people like Snoop Dogg and other rappers that have strong ties to gangs and what not? Alot of their culture flock to the bad boys, and they want to copy their life style. 50 Cent is a popular rapper amongst the thug-wanna-be's in my prison... he's been shot I forget how many times. Doing time in prison is a way for them to get street cred.

Most of the one's that break the law don't want to do things the traditional way - get a basic education, go on to college, get a job, become successful. No... they want to drop out of school at a young age, and sling crack on street corners. There's a lack of forwarding thinking... it's all about the here and now.

I worked with a black guy in Germany when I was in the army... and he was a bit of a racist himself... but he said for all the problems with the white people... they knew how to plan and prepare for the future. We were talking about mutual funds and savings when he said this.

No matter what social class you grow up in, you have the same oppertunities as each other. Yes, it'll be a bit easier for the rich ones. But if you apply yourself early on, in school mostly, doors continue to open. But that seems to be impossible for the thug wanna be's.

And it's because of that, that the social inequalities seem to get worse and worse. The ghetto is the ghetto because as a whole, the people there let it become that. If drugs were frowned upon by the neighborhood, instead of just about everyone taking hits off a joint with each other... they'd find their neighbors in better shape... and safer. There's no way in hell I'd let some one start selling drugs on my street. It's not going to happen. If I think one of my neighbors is slinging dope from their house... I'm making a few phone calls.

It's not a question of money or education. These people need to get their heads on right and start being held responsable for their own actions.. not placing the blame on their dads that took off, or their mom working 3 jobs to try and support them, or the crack they were high on when they killed someone.

All of htis is of course my opinion.

I'm trying to set up a date while Jay is visiting for us to go to the school and have a chat with the Principal so that we can find out what's what... what the Lil brit will need to bring, and have, etc, etc... I do know that in NC, they don't need the TB test done to go to school.

God, I wish it was the 51st state... you would already be my wife (or would we just "live in sin"? lol) and here with me already. :-D

Me... personally, I'd let it go... I think friendships take both people involved... they don't want to keep in touch... see ya.

But that might not be the best course for YOU. I'm more of a solitary figure anyway... having one main person in my life... usually a best friend, or a girl friend... and soon a wife. I'll have friends... more like assosicates I guess you could say...

hey.. I have back ache.. you can join me in my misery :-D.

Damn... D's would be so, so nice...

lol

I'd love to try the Brazillian, its just, even after having a kid (where most of your inhibitions about your body tend to disapear pretty fast) Im still not comfortable with flashing my bits to some stranger in a salon!

But I dont like when you shave, and it grows back, it itches like a mare! All the hairs being blunt-ended (cos they've been shaved) isn't fun either - I know waxing makes them grow back finer so less itch factor would be a bonus but still...

Buy a DIY kit.. I'll wax ya :-D

*Feels like a stalker lol*

as the non-smoker of the relationship... I know how you feel. Luckily for the most part, during Jay's visits to me, the effects have been very limited. She's almost ####### about her dental hygenie... I think that's because of the smoking mostly... so I've never had the "pleasure" of kissing an ### tray.

And I can't remember her ever really asking me if she could smoke in my jeep.. I think I let her a few times in my old one though. I gotta fill up alot if we make trips, so gives her plenty of chances to smoke out side of it :-)

The worst part of it for me... granted she's only been here to visit me on 2 week trips... is the smell that she can't really get rid of. What smoker doesn't want to have one before bed? I don't blame her for that. Yeah, she might be able to jump in bed with me.. have our bit of fun.. then go out and smoke (after getting dressed most likely lol), go brush her teeth again, mouth wash.. jump in the shower... back to bed.. and then I could hold her and not smell it in her hair... but damn.. that's very, very... well, that's alot to ask or expect... and besides.. I have a feeling her jumping back into bed all nice and wet from a shower would bring us back to the having fun part :-D.

Holding her in bed, and smelling it on her hair, sucks.. I admit it. I'm not bitching about it though. I love her... for better or worse.. and I do the best that I can to deal with it. But there are some times that it takes alot for it to not turn me off. That's really all I smell it on her or around her.. maybe once in awhile if we are taking a drive and she smokes when we stop some where's... but it's not strong or over bearing... like having her hair in my face...

I guess she could shave her head... but I like pulling her hair on occassion :-D

I don't want to force her to quit - I sorta went through that with my first marriage and it wasn't pleasant. From above, you can see I'm dealing pretty well with it when it comes to how it effects ME. The reasons I do wish she would quit though concern her and the little one's... Being a good Role Model for the kids for one... what smoker really wants their kids to grow up and smoke? For her own health (and I'll be the first to admit, she wants me to eat healthy (notice the healthy.. not healthier lol) and lose some weight for the same reason). This visa process is a PITA... I'd like to keep her around a bit longer thank ya very much lol. But with that said, there's no gurantee that smoking will cut years off of your life... there's so many different things out there that could kill you...

I also had to watch my mom wither away and die from cancer (not lung cancer). I helped take care of her when she couldn't do it. For that reason alone.. what I went through with my mom, I wouldn't want my kids to go through that with me. And I'd rather our kids didn't need to go through that with her either.

But I have faith in her. She seems to want to kick the habit... to take control of her life back from the death sticks. She doesn't smoke nearly as much as she normally does when she comes to visit... so I know she has will power. When she's ready, I'll be there to help her the best I can.

B for ages then when I was pregnant I was a 32DD (lol) now more like 32/34 A/B

I;m getting mine 'fixed' tho at some point and gonna try being a C

(My SO think DD is a nice size but Im not very big person so DD wud look tres weird, plus I hated being that big when I was breastfeeding - they just got in the way! Oh and I couldn't find any bras which didnt look like they were constructed by Isembard Kingdom Brunel )

Hey now.... tell the whole story there missy :-)

You said C's, I said DD's... then said let's meet in the middle and just go with D's :-)

don't forget your rabies shot as well there love.... since you like to bite so much :-)

Well, Jay isn't my spouse yet... but what the hell :-)

Obviously, the biggest thing that ticks me off about her... is that she's still in Merry Fing England right now... but that's not her fault :-)

What else... I don't think there's anything else that ticks me off... but we do have a few big differences... how to punish children for instances... i.e. to spank, or not to spank... things like that.

Of course, if she keeps trying to wake me up at night cause she thinks I stop breathing... I'm sure that's gonna get under my skin pretty quick :-)

I got a question about this form.

Depending if my place of employment figures in my shift pay and normal over time pay (it's consistant each month... unless I take a vacation)... I'm going to be close, probably slightly, under the 125% poverty line.

Would they take into consideration child support? I get $550.00 a month in child support from the egg donor of my two kids. Would I put on the form that the kids are paritially dependent on me? Likewise, I believe Jay will be recieving child support for her daughter as well... would that be considered as well?

I hate rude, ignorante people - yes, I'm rude and ignorant on occassion, but not to the degree of some people... "Stay in your own Country", "Stay in your own race"... blah blah blah...

People at work like making the comment about I have a mail order bride... most do it in fun, but some don't.. and it's really starting to piss me off...