I srongly agree with you, you look at the helping hand and nothing ealse. I was not born muslim all my family is chatolic but guess what? they love my husband and he loves them back and respect eachother for their believes, and my mother says to me I NEVER LOVED AN ARAB MORE THAN WHAT I LOVE MY GRANDCHILD LOL and they are happy khalid is coming to USA and they are happy knowing our son will be now more involved in Islam... Is not GAY, or Lesbian or Chatolic or Muslim who define us as humans is the kiNdness inside and what your neighbor has done for your husband is priceless, and I been to New York in the past and I have to say people were great with me there and I met some great people.. Good luck and keep on shareing your stories i love to hear more of you guys and your transition.