AF-Wife

it's NOT about believing her, leave that up to USCIS I really think a moderator needs to step in now! because this whole threat is about believing her story and not helping her!!!

and I am wondering. aren't we suppose to help people & not judge them? I feel like, that's what you are all doing right now ...
OP, you have 3 options:
1) talk with your husband about everything and maybe he's willing to change so you can make it work
2) go to his squadron commander. they will help you for sure!!! this will have serious consequences for him.
3) leave him, go back to Russia & start a new life
good luck on whatever you decide!

OP mentioned before, that of course the military knows about her, but he husband is telling his commander that they are divorcing. for his CO, there's no reason not to believe him. squadron commanders are very busy with other stuff & wouldn't follow up on the situation. also, even if he would have enrolled her in the DoD system without telling his commander, he wouldn't know about his wife. commanders don't get the information: listen, one of your workers just enrolled his wife. my husbands command didn't know until we told them in person. the military is big. keep that in mind.

and I am wondering. aren't we suppose to help people & not judge them? I feel like, that's what you are all doing right now ...
OP, you have 3 options:
1) talk with your husband about everything and maybe he's willing to change so you can make it work
2) go to his squadron commander. they will help you for sure!!! this will have serious consequences for him.
3) leave him, go back to Russia & start a new life
good luck on whatever you decide!

a photographer is a position at public affairs in the military.

and I am wondering. aren't we suppose to help people & not judge them? I feel like, that's what you are all doing right now ...
OP, you have 3 options:
1) talk with your husband about everything and maybe he's willing to change so you can make it work
2) go to his squadron commander. they will help you for sure!!! this will have serious consequences for him.
3) leave him, go back to Russia & start a new life
good luck on whatever you decide!

a photographer is a position at public affairs in the military.

and I am wondering. aren't we suppose to help people & not judge them? I feel like, that's what you are all doing right now ...
OP, you have 3 options:
1) talk with your husband about everything and maybe he's willing to change so you can make it work
2) go to his squadron commander. they will help you for sure!!! this will have serious consequences for him.
3) leave him, go back to Russia & start a new life
good luck on whatever you decide!

a photographer is a position at public affairs in the military.

and I am wondering. aren't we suppose to help people & not judge them? I feel like, that's what you are all doing right now ...
OP, you have 3 options:
1) talk with your husband about everything and maybe he's willing to change so you can make it work
2) go to his squadron commander. they will help you for sure!!! this will have serious consequences for him.
3) leave him, go back to Russia & start a new life
good luck on whatever you decide!

a photographer is a position at public affairs in the military.