AngelAndJoy

Why are so many blind to see the immigration system in this country is screwed up? What do other countries do for a USC trying to immigrate there? Can a USC ever go to the philippines and become a citizen? NO. Can anyone immigrate to Australia without having a job there? NOPE. What about the prostitutes from Brazil? They happened to just be in a situation involving secret service. Dumb luck they were the ones. And they can immigrate to the US just for a story. The protestor in China. Jailed there, but gets to come to the US within a month. Why do they get moved to the front of the line?
You have at least a better view that the children get benefits (but it costs the people who do things LEGALLY, time... one thing you can not get back. And I mean that as processing time that we have to wait. The actual time spent someone working on a case is the same, but adding more orders makes the overall processing time longer. It's not a hard concept to grasp) Some just think that the parents get rights to stay too because you "can't" break up families. You feel we don't give compassion, but what you don't realize it's actually being shoveled out already. We can't solve all of the world's problems.

I am going to guess that I am old enough to be your father (I am 52).
Upon reading this, I have a couple of emotions for you which I probably would go through if you were my daughter.
1. Anger for you: can you not see he has played you and he is being a dog? Victims ALLOW themselves to be victims. You have a choice. If you were ten years old, I'd spank you and I'd go to his home and kick his ####, his father's ####, and his dog if his dog barks at me.
2. Sadness for you: betrayal from a loved one hurts the most, and I know when it comes to love, logic flows out the window. At this point, I'd hug you and tell you 'sweetheart, I know this is hard and I know you've heard it before, but time will heal. Find your inner strength by praying for clues to get your life back on the straight and narrow'.
There are 7 billion people in this planet. Let's say one third are marriage age material, which leaves about 2+ billion. Half of that are men, which leaves one billion. Less than half of that are on the Western Hemisphere, which leaves about half a billion. Less than half of that are single. Trust me. Out of 250 Million available men on the Western Hemisphere, that moron is near the lower half of the heap.
Who'd want to marry a liar? Odds are in your favor that you will find a MUCH better person. Trust me. God works in mysterious ways.

I am going to guess that I am old enough to be your father (I am 52).
Upon reading this, I have a couple of emotions for you which I probably would go through if you were my daughter.
1. Anger for you: can you not see he has played you and he is being a dog? Victims ALLOW themselves to be victims. You have a choice. If you were ten years old, I'd spank you and I'd go to his home and kick his ####, his father's ####, and his dog if his dog barks at me.
2. Sadness for you: betrayal from a loved one hurts the most, and I know when it comes to love, logic flows out the window. At this point, I'd hug you and tell you 'sweetheart, I know this is hard and I know you've heard it before, but time will heal. Find your inner strength by praying for clues to get your life back on the straight and narrow'.
There are 7 billion people in this planet. Let's say one third are marriage age material, which leaves about 2+ billion. Half of that are men, which leaves one billion. Less than half of that are on the Western Hemisphere, which leaves about half a billion. Less than half of that are single. Trust me. Out of 250 Million available men on the Western Hemisphere, that moron is near the lower half of the heap.
Who'd want to marry a liar? Odds are in your favor that you will find a MUCH better person. Trust me. God works in mysterious ways.

The thing about #5 (Divorce) is that she will hit you for spousal and child support. Can you imagine that? Someone defrauded you, and YOU have to PAY every month to be reminded? Yikes!

The thing about #5 (Divorce) is that she will hit you for spousal and child support. Can you imagine that? Someone defrauded you, and YOU have to PAY every month to be reminded? Yikes!

The thing about #5 (Divorce) is that she will hit you for spousal and child support. Can you imagine that? Someone defrauded you, and YOU have to PAY every month to be reminded? Yikes!

I COMPLETELY DISAGREE with you regarding his privacy. They are married, right? There should be NO SECRETS between a man and wife PERIOD. No separate emails, no separate passwords. Man and Wife are ONE.
People who complain about their privacy have SECRETS to hide. Secrets are cancers to a relationship. TRUST ME. Secrets lead to betrayals.

There is an assumption in the suggestions below: at the start of the marriage, the husband LOVED the wife and they actually had a good long term relationship that has gone sour.
In Saylin's case, the husband already told her his marriage concerns right off the bat and showed no love. If you really think about it, he is more honest expressing his true feelings than most scum bags. If he does not love you and yet you continually 'fighting' for his love, then the problem is not with him , but with you. Forget the suggestions below. Leave the bum. Both husband and wife should fight for their marriage.

I am going to guess that I am old enough to be your father (I am 52).
Upon reading this, I have a couple of emotions for you which I probably would go through if you were my daughter.
1. Anger for you: can you not see he has played you and he is being a dog? Victims ALLOW themselves to be victims. You have a choice. If you were ten years old, I'd spank you and I'd go to his home and kick his ####, his father's ####, and his dog if his dog barks at me.
2. Sadness for you: betrayal from a loved one hurts the most, and I know when it comes to love, logic flows out the window. At this point, I'd hug you and tell you 'sweetheart, I know this is hard and I know you've heard it before, but time will heal. Find your inner strength by praying for clues to get your life back on the straight and narrow'.
There are 7 billion people in this planet. Let's say one third are marriage age material, which leaves about 2+ billion. Half of that are men, which leaves one billion. Less than half of that are on the Western Hemisphere, which leaves about half a billion. Less than half of that are single. Trust me. Out of 250 Million available men on the Western Hemisphere, that moron is near the lower half of the heap.
Who'd want to marry a liar? Odds are in your favor that you will find a MUCH better person. Trust me. God works in mysterious ways.

I am going to guess that I am old enough to be your father (I am 52).
Upon reading this, I have a couple of emotions for you which I probably would go through if you were my daughter.
1. Anger for you: can you not see he has played you and he is being a dog? Victims ALLOW themselves to be victims. You have a choice. If you were ten years old, I'd spank you and I'd go to his home and kick his ####, his father's ####, and his dog if his dog barks at me.
2. Sadness for you: betrayal from a loved one hurts the most, and I know when it comes to love, logic flows out the window. At this point, I'd hug you and tell you 'sweetheart, I know this is hard and I know you've heard it before, but time will heal. Find your inner strength by praying for clues to get your life back on the straight and narrow'.
There are 7 billion people in this planet. Let's say one third are marriage age material, which leaves about 2+ billion. Half of that are men, which leaves one billion. Less than half of that are on the Western Hemisphere, which leaves about half a billion. Less than half of that are single. Trust me. Out of 250 Million available men on the Western Hemisphere, that moron is near the lower half of the heap.
Who'd want to marry a liar? Odds are in your favor that you will find a MUCH better person. Trust me. God works in mysterious ways.

I am going to guess that I am old enough to be your father (I am 52).
Upon reading this, I have a couple of emotions for you which I probably would go through if you were my daughter.
1. Anger for you: can you not see he has played you and he is being a dog? Victims ALLOW themselves to be victims. You have a choice. If you were ten years old, I'd spank you and I'd go to his home and kick his ####, his father's ####, and his dog if his dog barks at me.
2. Sadness for you: betrayal from a loved one hurts the most, and I know when it comes to love, logic flows out the window. At this point, I'd hug you and tell you 'sweetheart, I know this is hard and I know you've heard it before, but time will heal. Find your inner strength by praying for clues to get your life back on the straight and narrow'.
There are 7 billion people in this planet. Let's say one third are marriage age material, which leaves about 2+ billion. Half of that are men, which leaves one billion. Less than half of that are on the Western Hemisphere, which leaves about half a billion. Less than half of that are single. Trust me. Out of 250 Million available men on the Western Hemisphere, that moron is near the lower half of the heap.
Who'd want to marry a liar? Odds are in your favor that you will find a MUCH better person. Trust me. God works in mysterious ways.

I am going to guess that I am old enough to be your father (I am 52).
Upon reading this, I have a couple of emotions for you which I probably would go through if you were my daughter.
1. Anger for you: can you not see he has played you and he is being a dog? Victims ALLOW themselves to be victims. You have a choice. If you were ten years old, I'd spank you and I'd go to his home and kick his ####, his father's ####, and his dog if his dog barks at me.
2. Sadness for you: betrayal from a loved one hurts the most, and I know when it comes to love, logic flows out the window. At this point, I'd hug you and tell you 'sweetheart, I know this is hard and I know you've heard it before, but time will heal. Find your inner strength by praying for clues to get your life back on the straight and narrow'.
There are 7 billion people in this planet. Let's say one third are marriage age material, which leaves about 2+ billion. Half of that are men, which leaves one billion. Less than half of that are on the Western Hemisphere, which leaves about half a billion. Less than half of that are single. Trust me. Out of 250 Million available men on the Western Hemisphere, that moron is near the lower half of the heap.
Who'd want to marry a liar? Odds are in your favor that you will find a MUCH better person. Trust me. God works in mysterious ways.

I COMPLETELY DISAGREE with you regarding his privacy. They are married, right? There should be NO SECRETS between a man and wife PERIOD. No separate emails, no separate passwords. Man and Wife are ONE.
People who complain about their privacy have SECRETS to hide. Secrets are cancers to a relationship. TRUST ME. Secrets lead to betrayals.

BWAHAHAHAHAHAH.
The funniest EXCUSE from someone wanting to keep SECRETS. IT IS FREAKING FACEBOOK, NOT CIA OPERATIVE MUMBO JUMBO. Now, THAT disproves your point.
Hey, if that is how you live your life with your wife, I pity her for all the SECRETS you willingly hide.
Let me reread your response again.....BWAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAH !!!!
I will forward it to all my coworkers now so we can all laugh at you CIA Operative excuse.....TOO FUNNY!

BWAHAHAHAHAHAH.
The funniest EXCUSE from someone wanting to keep SECRETS. IT IS FREAKING FACEBOOK, NOT CIA OPERATIVE MUMBO JUMBO. Now, THAT disproves your point.
Hey, if that is how you live your life with your wife, I pity her for all the SECRETS you willingly hide.
Let me reread your response again.....BWAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAH !!!!
I will forward it to all my coworkers now so we can all laugh at you CIA Operative excuse.....TOO FUNNY!

I COMPLETELY DISAGREE with you regarding his privacy. They are married, right? There should be NO SECRETS between a man and wife PERIOD. No separate emails, no separate passwords. Man and Wife are ONE.
People who complain about their privacy have SECRETS to hide. Secrets are cancers to a relationship. TRUST ME. Secrets lead to betrayals.

I am going to guess that I am old enough to be your father (I am 52).
Upon reading this, I have a couple of emotions for you which I probably would go through if you were my daughter.
1. Anger for you: can you not see he has played you and he is being a dog? Victims ALLOW themselves to be victims. You have a choice. If you were ten years old, I'd spank you and I'd go to his home and kick his ####, his father's ####, and his dog if his dog barks at me.
2. Sadness for you: betrayal from a loved one hurts the most, and I know when it comes to love, logic flows out the window. At this point, I'd hug you and tell you 'sweetheart, I know this is hard and I know you've heard it before, but time will heal. Find your inner strength by praying for clues to get your life back on the straight and narrow'.
There are 7 billion people in this planet. Let's say one third are marriage age material, which leaves about 2+ billion. Half of that are men, which leaves one billion. Less than half of that are on the Western Hemisphere, which leaves about half a billion. Less than half of that are single. Trust me. Out of 250 Million available men on the Western Hemisphere, that moron is near the lower half of the heap.
Who'd want to marry a liar? Odds are in your favor that you will find a MUCH better person. Trust me. God works in mysterious ways.

I am going to guess that I am old enough to be your father (I am 52).
Upon reading this, I have a couple of emotions for you which I probably would go through if you were my daughter.
1. Anger for you: can you not see he has played you and he is being a dog? Victims ALLOW themselves to be victims. You have a choice. If you were ten years old, I'd spank you and I'd go to his home and kick his ####, his father's ####, and his dog if his dog barks at me.
2. Sadness for you: betrayal from a loved one hurts the most, and I know when it comes to love, logic flows out the window. At this point, I'd hug you and tell you 'sweetheart, I know this is hard and I know you've heard it before, but time will heal. Find your inner strength by praying for clues to get your life back on the straight and narrow'.
There are 7 billion people in this planet. Let's say one third are marriage age material, which leaves about 2+ billion. Half of that are men, which leaves one billion. Less than half of that are on the Western Hemisphere, which leaves about half a billion. Less than half of that are single. Trust me. Out of 250 Million available men on the Western Hemisphere, that moron is near the lower half of the heap.
Who'd want to marry a liar? Odds are in your favor that you will find a MUCH better person. Trust me. God works in mysterious ways.

I am going to guess that I am old enough to be your father (I am 52).
Upon reading this, I have a couple of emotions for you which I probably would go through if you were my daughter.
1. Anger for you: can you not see he has played you and he is being a dog? Victims ALLOW themselves to be victims. You have a choice. If you were ten years old, I'd spank you and I'd go to his home and kick his ####, his father's ####, and his dog if his dog barks at me.
2. Sadness for you: betrayal from a loved one hurts the most, and I know when it comes to love, logic flows out the window. At this point, I'd hug you and tell you 'sweetheart, I know this is hard and I know you've heard it before, but time will heal. Find your inner strength by praying for clues to get your life back on the straight and narrow'.
There are 7 billion people in this planet. Let's say one third are marriage age material, which leaves about 2+ billion. Half of that are men, which leaves one billion. Less than half of that are on the Western Hemisphere, which leaves about half a billion. Less than half of that are single. Trust me. Out of 250 Million available men on the Western Hemisphere, that moron is near the lower half of the heap.
Who'd want to marry a liar? Odds are in your favor that you will find a MUCH better person. Trust me. God works in mysterious ways.

From immoral women comes immoral sons.
Facebook is a reflection of today's thoughts. I am very sure teenagers in the 50s and 60s did not talk about F-buddies as they do today. You OK with your daughter's F-buddies? Is that a great moral change for you? Hahahahaha..
OHHHHHHHHHHHHH-KAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY.

You can shmaloney baloney as much as you want, but morality = delineating from right or wrong.
Right or Wrong is codified in our US Laws.
The history of US Laws is based on JudeoChristian principles (all the way back to English common law).
US laws change based on social norms. Social norms in the1960s(most of the people going to some church on Sundays) is much different than social norms of 2010s (no religion in school). The moral standards have changed. Would you say for the better?
Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian as role models for little girls? Look at Facebook and read what teenage girls are writing. Would you say the moral standards today are for the better?
Hiding your head under the ground like an Ostrich does not solve any problems.

Yes, of course it happens everywhere in the world, but IT IS NOT ACCEPTED as a social norm.
It is becoming MORE and MORE accepted in the USA because of one simple reason: the losing grip of religion.
In Latin America, women are still brought up in the Catholic religious ways. This does not guarantee that cheating will not happen, but the STANDARD is there.
The same can be said of the Philippines and Buddhist countries in Southeast Asia.
The difference is MORALITY is still respected, while in the USA, that thought of MORALITY is frowned upon (heck, any type of prayer has been taken out of the schools). When you have no standard/no morals, you have no lines to cross, and you're more free to choose the hedonistic carefree lifestyle that the 70's generation dreamed. I mean having a Paris Hilton or Kim Kardashian (two women who have shown themselves having sex in films) as role models? Give me a break.
It is my opinion. It is my observation. If it hurts too much for you, perhaps I may have hit some truths, because as the old saying goes, TRUTH hurts.

Speaking for myself and my observations only, American men turn elsewhere because American women are socialized to castrate the "traditional" male role (the provider, the decision maker, etc.) here in the USA. American women are more manly in their ways than foreign women, and screw and bedhop and cheat with ease as their male counterparts (a very general, myopic observation of course from a man who spent his life mostly in San Francisco Bay Area). I may sound bitter, but from what I've seen, the Latin American and East Asian women are so much more 'feminine' in the traditional way.