Olomi_811
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"At the end of my life I'll look back on my life and I'll know that my life was good. At the end of my life I'll look back on my life and see I went after you like I should. I went after what I wanted." Nelly Furtado
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"Between a man and his wife nothing ought to rule but love. Authority is for children and servants, yet not without sweetness." William Penn
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"I can hear your heartbeat from a thousand miles; hear the heavens open every time HE smiles!"...Brian McKnight. I never had a reason to understand this before now.
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"I will cross the ocean for you. I will go and bring you the moon. I will be your hero, your strength anything you need."..Monica
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"I'm a wonder woman...let me go get my rope!"
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"Nothing is impossible, the word itself says I'm possible." Audrey Hepburn
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"When my soul was in the lost and found you came along to claim it...Yemi you make me feel like a natural woman!!"
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A major part of adjusting is allowing the other person to JUST BE. At some point you'll realize who you courted online/over the phone and met in person is not who you married (both parties may feel this.) You can overcome this, but you both have to want it. Watch your spouse sprout their wings in self-discovery and you do the same.
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I so agree. It takes time..and the will to want to make your marriage work. It's easy to jump into an unwarranted argument, get mad and point the finger...but wouldn't we rather learn,listen and learn not just from our spouses but from our own internal growth line. Then we can love and that's the end result we all want.
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A year ago today, I saw HIM enter bp chat, immediately I went to his profile (not my norm), read that he was from Nigeria, and thought hmm I'm not approaching him he's too far away. I sat and watched the brief exchange between himself and another chatter(I still remember who and what was said). A few moments later I got a message from him asking about my pseudonym. I told him I decided not to take the question as an offense, but a joke(I wanted to know him). We laughed about it and I ...
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but twice(I couldn't believe it). On day three I was walking to an optimetrist appt giddy and responding to his yahoo messages. He mentioned something about love and I said "oh so you love me?" He proceeded to tell me God's law to love thy neighbor. Then he said could he ask whether I loved him. I told him he could, but I already defined it. He then asked "do you love me?" My answer, "Yes I do." His reply, "am glad u know deep down in ur heart that I love u...
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Amazed at how CSC can get away with saying there is a backlog on I-130s while they are dishing out I-129F approvals with more recent priority dates. Would it not make sense to use the adjudicators to clear out what came first? I don't mind rain, but not when it's yellow!
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Amazed at how even when we are at our worst, our love is always at its best.
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As I'm perusing pages this morning, seeing couples still enduring prolonged separations I thought to myself "Lord thank you, because I couldn't do it." Then I thought of my story and the challenges I've endured. Only those who need to know will know it. This morning I can say "Lord thank you for this form of hardship, growth, and loves continued renewal!" No matter your story speak life into it. Proclaim the positive and pack all the dead and decaying thoughts ...
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I love it.. Having hindsight I'm not sure if I could endure that distance ever again having my husband here with me now. I see the new couples trying to pull through and I'm reminded of the strength, endurance, hope, faith, trust, prayer and love it took to make it thru and in does not stop when they arrive..it continues. My prayer is that the stories we hear will be filled happy beginnings. Thanks for putting this out Olomi
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Awakened early and all I can think about is defrosting the freezer. Not going back to sleep now. I can't drown out his snoring:))
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Aya...hey he wasn't even asked who petitioned for him or where I lived? They had over 60 days of chat to read, but you want to single out one.
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Bittersweet memories that is all I'm taking with me. So goodbye, please don't cry... we both know I'm not what you need...And I... Will always love you. I will always love you.
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Blissfully married? The couple who came up with this term must have been under the influence of some very strong substances or practical jokers. This journey is one of the most rewarding you can have, but it damn sure isn't an easy one. Just as you think you're not stepping on toes you smash a couple. As I reflect on what it looks like when we are warring with each other, nothing and no one else stands a chance against us.
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Can't eat enough dark chocolate to get over missing him right now!
