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  1. Olomi_811

    Six months in and last night he verbalized "...I want to do my job as your husband." Two months ago this might have impressed me. Today it just pisses me off.

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    2. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      You must lead and teach by example though you must be ready to be led...Lord help us all with this one. Especially if you feel the leader is not ready for the task. My brother mediated a disagreement with Prince and I...

    3. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      I am afraid to spend...and you know he has no trouble with it. My brother said to me...you must trust your husband with the finances..I looked at him like his head fell off and rolled down the hall. Prince was all up in the chest like "yea!" My brother looked at him and said she will trust you but if one bill falls behind...the s#!! is on you and you better be damn sure you can handle it.

    4. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      So I'm in training to trust. but watching the money too...I aint no fool. Willingness, to try despite all odds with adjustment in self refection and teaching by showing...not always "you need to..." because it just shuts them down. Be pissed off but see if he owns his statement...then own yours..let's see..but not give up just yet...I know I know I know...and I love you sis. whew this was long!

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