daliroya

Hey,
I already owned my house and have not changed the mortgage, so I didn't have that to show; however, the fact that the mail is coming to both of us at the same address and all of our accounts are listed on that address and the fact that he's my life insurance beneficiary should be ample. So fingers crossed for us that we don't get a request for more evidence on the simple fact that he isn't on my mortgage or that your husband isn't on the lease.
On another note, these evidences are so ridiculous because many of my "legitimately married" American friends have pre-nups, separation of property, separate bank accounts and yet they are still considered married. These laws and processes are so out of date with the Global world we're living in! (End Rant!)
Good luck with sending it off!! don't forget to send return receipt so you have proof.

thanks! i have a question please, im gonna get my passport on tuesday, can i travel on wednesday to the usa?

I'm so excited to hear that! My son and son-in-law are waiting their turn. They've been living in another country all these years because that country recognizes their marriage. NOW, my son can finally return to the family with his spouse! Great times!! Enjoy your lives together!

I'm very sorry for all you are going through. Your children will miss their father and no amount of child support can replace that. Tunisian men typically love their children and are good fathers.
As I understand this thread, your husband is no longer in the states. I recommend you familiarize yourself on Tunisian law. Tunisia can NOT send money out of Tunisia. How is he going to be sending the $1,500? I realize you have not accepted his offer, but it is something to be aware of. It may be that he is planning on paying you from his portion of the business. The idea that you could get any money OUT of Tunisia as someone mentioned in one of the posts...(something about you are entitled to half of what he sent back home) is extremely difficult.
Also, he can not remarry in Tunisia until he is divorced. Tunisia does not allow multiple wives. You can get someone to get his birth certificate because marriage is registered on the birth certificate in Tunisia. Then you will know if he has re-married.
Be very aware of the law and don't go to Tunisia with your children unless you have investigated all the laws of parental rights. Typically, the father has custody and the children would not be allowed to leave.
Finally, Tunisians are not "backward" people who only obey their mothers. This is a very "Westernized" muslim country and if he has lived in the states for 10 years, he has made his own choice. Perhaps he longed for his own culture or he fell in love with someone else. But don't let him off the hook because he had to do what his mother said. He did what he wanted.
Again, I'm sorry for your suffering and don't see that you're trying to "scare" any others who are married to internationals. We all enter any relationship with our eyes open and face the risks of heartbreak. Continue to seek legal advice, go slowly, take care of yourself and your children. I would encourage you to talk to your family. They may have more insight into this than you realize. God bless you.

I'm very sorry for all you are going through. Your children will miss their father and no amount of child support can replace that. Tunisian men typically love their children and are good fathers.
As I understand this thread, your husband is no longer in the states. I recommend you familiarize yourself on Tunisian law. Tunisia can NOT send money out of Tunisia. How is he going to be sending the $1,500? I realize you have not accepted his offer, but it is something to be aware of. It may be that he is planning on paying you from his portion of the business. The idea that you could get any money OUT of Tunisia as someone mentioned in one of the posts...(something about you are entitled to half of what he sent back home) is extremely difficult.
Also, he can not remarry in Tunisia until he is divorced. Tunisia does not allow multiple wives. You can get someone to get his birth certificate because marriage is registered on the birth certificate in Tunisia. Then you will know if he has re-married.
Be very aware of the law and don't go to Tunisia with your children unless you have investigated all the laws of parental rights. Typically, the father has custody and the children would not be allowed to leave.
Finally, Tunisians are not "backward" people who only obey their mothers. This is a very "Westernized" muslim country and if he has lived in the states for 10 years, he has made his own choice. Perhaps he longed for his own culture or he fell in love with someone else. But don't let him off the hook because he had to do what his mother said. He did what he wanted.
Again, I'm sorry for your suffering and don't see that you're trying to "scare" any others who are married to internationals. We all enter any relationship with our eyes open and face the risks of heartbreak. Continue to seek legal advice, go slowly, take care of yourself and your children. I would encourage you to talk to your family. They may have more insight into this than you realize. God bless you.

I'm very sorry for all you are going through. Your children will miss their father and no amount of child support can replace that. Tunisian men typically love their children and are good fathers.
As I understand this thread, your husband is no longer in the states. I recommend you familiarize yourself on Tunisian law. Tunisia can NOT send money out of Tunisia. How is he going to be sending the $1,500? I realize you have not accepted his offer, but it is something to be aware of. It may be that he is planning on paying you from his portion of the business. The idea that you could get any money OUT of Tunisia as someone mentioned in one of the posts...(something about you are entitled to half of what he sent back home) is extremely difficult.
Also, he can not remarry in Tunisia until he is divorced. Tunisia does not allow multiple wives. You can get someone to get his birth certificate because marriage is registered on the birth certificate in Tunisia. Then you will know if he has re-married.
Be very aware of the law and don't go to Tunisia with your children unless you have investigated all the laws of parental rights. Typically, the father has custody and the children would not be allowed to leave.
Finally, Tunisians are not "backward" people who only obey their mothers. This is a very "Westernized" muslim country and if he has lived in the states for 10 years, he has made his own choice. Perhaps he longed for his own culture or he fell in love with someone else. But don't let him off the hook because he had to do what his mother said. He did what he wanted.
Again, I'm sorry for your suffering and don't see that you're trying to "scare" any others who are married to internationals. We all enter any relationship with our eyes open and face the risks of heartbreak. Continue to seek legal advice, go slowly, take care of yourself and your children. I would encourage you to talk to your family. They may have more insight into this than you realize. God bless you.

I'm very sorry for all you are going through. Your children will miss their father and no amount of child support can replace that. Tunisian men typically love their children and are good fathers.
As I understand this thread, your husband is no longer in the states. I recommend you familiarize yourself on Tunisian law. Tunisia can NOT send money out of Tunisia. How is he going to be sending the $1,500? I realize you have not accepted his offer, but it is something to be aware of. It may be that he is planning on paying you from his portion of the business. The idea that you could get any money OUT of Tunisia as someone mentioned in one of the posts...(something about you are entitled to half of what he sent back home) is extremely difficult.
Also, he can not remarry in Tunisia until he is divorced. Tunisia does not allow multiple wives. You can get someone to get his birth certificate because marriage is registered on the birth certificate in Tunisia. Then you will know if he has re-married.
Be very aware of the law and don't go to Tunisia with your children unless you have investigated all the laws of parental rights. Typically, the father has custody and the children would not be allowed to leave.
Finally, Tunisians are not "backward" people who only obey their mothers. This is a very "Westernized" muslim country and if he has lived in the states for 10 years, he has made his own choice. Perhaps he longed for his own culture or he fell in love with someone else. But don't let him off the hook because he had to do what his mother said. He did what he wanted.
Again, I'm sorry for your suffering and don't see that you're trying to "scare" any others who are married to internationals. We all enter any relationship with our eyes open and face the risks of heartbreak. Continue to seek legal advice, go slowly, take care of yourself and your children. I would encourage you to talk to your family. They may have more insight into this than you realize. God bless you.

I'm very sorry for all you are going through. Your children will miss their father and no amount of child support can replace that. Tunisian men typically love their children and are good fathers.
As I understand this thread, your husband is no longer in the states. I recommend you familiarize yourself on Tunisian law. Tunisia can NOT send money out of Tunisia. How is he going to be sending the $1,500? I realize you have not accepted his offer, but it is something to be aware of. It may be that he is planning on paying you from his portion of the business. The idea that you could get any money OUT of Tunisia as someone mentioned in one of the posts...(something about you are entitled to half of what he sent back home) is extremely difficult.
Also, he can not remarry in Tunisia until he is divorced. Tunisia does not allow multiple wives. You can get someone to get his birth certificate because marriage is registered on the birth certificate in Tunisia. Then you will know if he has re-married.
Be very aware of the law and don't go to Tunisia with your children unless you have investigated all the laws of parental rights. Typically, the father has custody and the children would not be allowed to leave.
Finally, Tunisians are not "backward" people who only obey their mothers. This is a very "Westernized" muslim country and if he has lived in the states for 10 years, he has made his own choice. Perhaps he longed for his own culture or he fell in love with someone else. But don't let him off the hook because he had to do what his mother said. He did what he wanted.
Again, I'm sorry for your suffering and don't see that you're trying to "scare" any others who are married to internationals. We all enter any relationship with our eyes open and face the risks of heartbreak. Continue to seek legal advice, go slowly, take care of yourself and your children. I would encourage you to talk to your family. They may have more insight into this than you realize. God bless you.