Well, this is what you get, when you get involved with partner from different culture. Actually, if she's from Odessa - COMPLETELY different culture (if you don't believe it, ask if she even speaks Ukrainian, although Odessa is part of Ukraine , chances are - she doesn't) Reading through you post makes me thing that your "sex toy" doesn't work as you expected it... There is almost nothing told by you about emotional involvement, but rather lack of intimacy. Is it only what are you looking for???? Let her adjust to new life, try to understand that she left all her friends to be with you, and deal with it, at least try to help her during this transition. As to her cursing at you (and arguing with you) - here is a joke about women from Odessa. I'll write it in Russian, since it will lose meaning in translation. Just ask your fiance to explain it to you (bet she'll laugh). "Настоящая Одесситка - это мулатка: белая женщина с чёрным ртом"... And as someone, who was born and raised in Odessa, I can attest it is true
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