krenn08

Being someone in the same position - I consider this. You feel like ####### being married to her - do you think you'll seriously not find happiness in the future? The answer to that question answers all. Folks here have stated it's time to get help and you should do that... talk to someone for a while who will help with depression and objectively point out the facts of your situation - I would not suggest friends or the local bartender, as helpful as they want to be. Get professional counseling. Counselors don't answer questions for you (real ones do not anyway...) - they help you to find the answers yourself. Note, I'm in IT in the Washington DC area too - not a counselor .
If you believe you can be happy with her in the future, great!!
If you do not believe you will be happy with her in the future - consider this:
Stay married: Miserable now, miserable in the future. Divorce: Miserable now, most likely a good future (with better decision making =) Best of luck in your decision friend...

Being someone in the same position - I consider this. You feel like ####### being married to her - do you think you'll seriously not find happiness in the future? The answer to that question answers all. Folks here have stated it's time to get help and you should do that... talk to someone for a while who will help with depression and objectively point out the facts of your situation - I would not suggest friends or the local bartender, as helpful as they want to be. Get professional counseling. Counselors don't answer questions for you (real ones do not anyway...) - they help you to find the answers yourself. Note, I'm in IT in the Washington DC area too - not a counselor .
If you believe you can be happy with her in the future, great!!
If you do not believe you will be happy with her in the future - consider this:
Stay married: Miserable now, miserable in the future. Divorce: Miserable now, most likely a good future (with better decision making =) Best of luck in your decision friend...

Being someone in the same position - I consider this. You feel like ####### being married to her - do you think you'll seriously not find happiness in the future? The answer to that question answers all. Folks here have stated it's time to get help and you should do that... talk to someone for a while who will help with depression and objectively point out the facts of your situation - I would not suggest friends or the local bartender, as helpful as they want to be. Get professional counseling. Counselors don't answer questions for you (real ones do not anyway...) - they help you to find the answers yourself. Note, I'm in IT in the Washington DC area too - not a counselor .
If you believe you can be happy with her in the future, great!!
If you do not believe you will be happy with her in the future - consider this:
Stay married: Miserable now, miserable in the future. Divorce: Miserable now, most likely a good future (with better decision making =) Best of luck in your decision friend...

Being someone in the same position - I consider this. You feel like ####### being married to her - do you think you'll seriously not find happiness in the future? The answer to that question answers all. Folks here have stated it's time to get help and you should do that... talk to someone for a while who will help with depression and objectively point out the facts of your situation - I would not suggest friends or the local bartender, as helpful as they want to be. Get professional counseling. Counselors don't answer questions for you (real ones do not anyway...) - they help you to find the answers yourself. Note, I'm in IT in the Washington DC area too - not a counselor .
If you believe you can be happy with her in the future, great!!
If you do not believe you will be happy with her in the future - consider this:
Stay married: Miserable now, miserable in the future. Divorce: Miserable now, most likely a good future (with better decision making =) Best of luck in your decision friend...

Being someone in the same position - I consider this. You feel like ####### being married to her - do you think you'll seriously not find happiness in the future? The answer to that question answers all. Folks here have stated it's time to get help and you should do that... talk to someone for a while who will help with depression and objectively point out the facts of your situation - I would not suggest friends or the local bartender, as helpful as they want to be. Get professional counseling. Counselors don't answer questions for you (real ones do not anyway...) - they help you to find the answers yourself. Note, I'm in IT in the Washington DC area too - not a counselor .
If you believe you can be happy with her in the future, great!!
If you do not believe you will be happy with her in the future - consider this:
Stay married: Miserable now, miserable in the future. Divorce: Miserable now, most likely a good future (with better decision making =) Best of luck in your decision friend...

Being someone in the same position - I consider this. You feel like ####### being married to her - do you think you'll seriously not find happiness in the future? The answer to that question answers all. Folks here have stated it's time to get help and you should do that... talk to someone for a while who will help with depression and objectively point out the facts of your situation - I would not suggest friends or the local bartender, as helpful as they want to be. Get professional counseling. Counselors don't answer questions for you (real ones do not anyway...) - they help you to find the answers yourself. Note, I'm in IT in the Washington DC area too - not a counselor .
If you believe you can be happy with her in the future, great!!
If you do not believe you will be happy with her in the future - consider this:
Stay married: Miserable now, miserable in the future. Divorce: Miserable now, most likely a good future (with better decision making =) Best of luck in your decision friend...

Being someone in the same position - I consider this. You feel like ####### being married to her - do you think you'll seriously not find happiness in the future? The answer to that question answers all. Folks here have stated it's time to get help and you should do that... talk to someone for a while who will help with depression and objectively point out the facts of your situation - I would not suggest friends or the local bartender, as helpful as they want to be. Get professional counseling. Counselors don't answer questions for you (real ones do not anyway...) - they help you to find the answers yourself. Note, I'm in IT in the Washington DC area too - not a counselor .
If you believe you can be happy with her in the future, great!!
If you do not believe you will be happy with her in the future - consider this:
Stay married: Miserable now, miserable in the future. Divorce: Miserable now, most likely a good future (with better decision making =) Best of luck in your decision friend...

Being someone in the same position - I consider this. You feel like ####### being married to her - do you think you'll seriously not find happiness in the future? The answer to that question answers all. Folks here have stated it's time to get help and you should do that... talk to someone for a while who will help with depression and objectively point out the facts of your situation - I would not suggest friends or the local bartender, as helpful as they want to be. Get professional counseling. Counselors don't answer questions for you (real ones do not anyway...) - they help you to find the answers yourself. Note, I'm in IT in the Washington DC area too - not a counselor .
If you believe you can be happy with her in the future, great!!
If you do not believe you will be happy with her in the future - consider this:
Stay married: Miserable now, miserable in the future. Divorce: Miserable now, most likely a good future (with better decision making =) Best of luck in your decision friend...