sukie175

Jeezus AJ..... do ya mind!!!! We need a warning in the thread TOPIC.....something like

LOOKOUT NAKED TRAILOR TRASH ALERT - OPEN AT YOUR PERIL!!!!!

I'm sure we'd all rather see a picture of you naked mate

####### guys....I have been gone 4 hours , watched 'Ray' which I highly recommend ...and not a soul has posted in that time

Did some huge disaster happen in the rest of the US I am oblivious to

Are you all off hunting Wabbits with Merc?

Or are all the girls round at Merc's viewing his a$$?

Is Mich stuck on the sofa watching downloaded Brits TV

Am I in an alternate universe?

Have you all gone to Hawaii to find Roi B)

Are you round at Deano's helping him finish the house

Have you gone to join Iceeey in Algeria

Did y'all just *sob* leave me

All I'm sayin is I'm in training.

Oh man she has you well trained ....I miss London Chas How's the lovely wheel?

as I said, he is above all this that's how he stays mysterious

Any news??

No problem that's what VJ is here for, to help

Awww you'll be fine, it's a wonderful time. Just give him understanding and lots of love as he adjusts to the idea he is here for good now. It can suddenly hit you and its like OH MY GOD!! But he obviously wants to be right here with you and even if you have rocky moments, keep that in mind. I speak as the one who moved and it is a HUGE deal leaving everything you know behind.

Be prepared for him to suddenly need you for everything...I was like a 5 year old again, I literally did not even know how to use the phone (dialling that is). I had a major losss of confidence for about 3 months and as I had always been so confident that led to anxiety. It is just gonna take time and if he has never left his country before, maybe longer than I did.

You need to really teach him how, what, where evrything is and works, it will take awhile but show understanding and alot of patience. Don't be scared if he is initially not the person you thought you knew, I wasn't, just stand in his shoes and imagine being taken out and away from everything familiar. Don't feel threatened if he is really homesick or upset, just support him and love him.

I am now 9 months down the road and this is definitely home, I have no desire to even visit the Uk yet. Where he is coming from I am not sure if English is spoken widely, but if language is an issue remember that will magnify everything I have told you about tenfold and he could also feel very isolated.

One thing that helped me alot was the PC, so dont feel angry if he spends alot of time on it. I needed it to keep up with news from home, listen to BBC radio on the web and email with my friends and family.

You'll be fine if you just remember what he has done to be with you is HUGE and the bravest move anyone can make I think

If some days get tough and you need to pour it out, just PM me.

Sarah

Mine took just 2 weeks and it sounds like she found you in the system as you don't mention her saying otherwise. So I would not worry yet, the 60 days is the standard thing they tell us all.

Yeh still no Robert and I need to know his shoe size too

Unlikely on the video store receipt!

However you are short on evidence of a meeting. Passport stamps do not prove you were actually together, just you were in the country. Do you not have any photo's, or get a sworn affadavit letter from a recognised professional/official who can verify your living together...a priest, teacher, lawyer, city official, Dr etc.

How about phone bills, did you have a credit card you used in the town where you lived...send the receipts, emails, stamped envelopes addressed to both of you at that address, or mail to each other. Hmmm it's a hard one and I will kepp racking my brain for you.

Maybe others will come up with other ideas on evidence too.

You are ok to file after being out of status, many others have before you, just have everything ready to send it the moment you get the marriage certificate.

It is NOT ok for him to continue working once the EAD runs out.

It all started ages ago when the TSC got too far behind and the CSC was better. So they started getting the CSC to cover the TSC backlog. Confusing

Hmmm, this sounds like someone hit the wrong button at the USCIS to me....just get the RFE info back to them before that deadline they gave you. That is critical or you will get a denial.

Your address must be her address where she lives. It is not our place to judge your decisions here, but I also think you 'may' have a slightly rocky road if she is under 18 and not working.

I wish you both luck.

You only have to prove you have met at least once in person during the past 2 years....trust me you will have to do enough hunting upevidence on this road, don't give yourself more work than you need to

Don't turn up too early, in our local office due to security they only let you in the building 15 minutes prior to your appt time.

You need a photo ID, passport is best

No I don't think it's risky at all Jamie, he has Gov't permission to leave and return...so chill girl.

The only time there is a prob is probably when some smart Alec makes a witty or stoopid comment when returning and I know he wouldn't do that

Your I-94 number is the big number on the top left side...Departure Number do not include the 2 slightly seperate digits at the end.

Your Visa number is the red number

Your A number is on your visa under the words Petition Approved starting with A

Can you give me the options on the last question about what you are please and I will answer

dang....ur ###### showed as just that, what's up with admin these days!!

So we can call u Hamster Dong eh?

I figured we need to get back to porn....

Merc, Miror, Roi....cough up yer shoe sizes please

Wow thanks very much for the info

Bald as a coot or Mercs a$$

Waiting for hubby to finish cutting his mom's grass and then we are on for the movie

What size are your feet Bro Dean?

Don't worry I have a picture in my head AJ

Not long now girl...what time do you fly??