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DM & JM

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  1. After reading your post again, I got to the conclusion that you have no grounds here to try to fix things. You have lost the essential factors in a relationship, "trust and respect". You lost your trust in her and she lost respect in you. Without these two, you will only get deeper and deeper in this relationship and will only keep suffering. Forget about her (she is not worth it and you deserve better) and try to reconstruct your life. We all know by your post that you love her but it is better now than 5 or 10 years from now. Nobody has died of love.

  2. Stay strong and positive. There is no better cure than time. Time is your best Allie now and please take that job offer. Your will find yourself in a better position if you take that job and everything else will be much easier. Try to keep yourself busy, try to make new friends. Just remember that there is not illness that last 100 years and a body who would resist it. I know is hard but is doable. If you are a person who believes in God, try to get close to him, talk to him and this will give spiritual peace in you. This might be some sort of a bridge for you to true happiness. Just remember that everything in this life happens for a reason.

  3. Please listen to what others are saying. Do not fall for this trap. I would suggest you to be smart as her current husband, he probably rejected to petition her green card and all of the sudden she regrets marrying him. Do you follow me here? He refused to apply for her GC and now she thought of plan B(YOU). Don’t do it, you will regret it your entire life. But again, only you can make that decision. God bless you in your decision.

  4. Hello VJ community,

    I just thought this would be very informative to everyone.

    Workload Transfer from Service Centers to Field Operations

    USCIS wants to notify customers and stakeholders that some work that USCIS performs at the four USCIS service centers (Vermont, Nebraska, Texas and California) will be transferred to a Field Office or the National Benefits Center (NBC) in order to balance the overall workload with processing capacity. The chart below summarizes these changes.

    http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.5af9bb95919f35e66f614176543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=c3c7ca7c5fed9310VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD&vgnextchannel=e7801c2c9be44210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD

  5. Sounds to me that the OP is taking decisions for what we all would consider an adult woman. If this woman would have desired to make an abortion, she would have done it a long time ago. In conclusion, OP do not push her or encourage her to get rid of her child simply because you are being selfish and not thinking with your brain. If you don't accept her with her child, then cut your loses and move on but don't do anything that you and her will regret for the rest of your lives. PLEASE tell her not to make an abortion, save the life of a 6 month baby and I assure you that you will feel much better and will leave in peace for the rest of your life. GOD BLESS and protect that baby and hope that this woman will take responsibility for her actions and will make the right decision.

  6. Hi Verysadguy,

    I feel really sad for what happened to you. I used to work at court and specialized in illegal immigrant cases. Unfortunately, I have to tell you that your soon-to-be ex-wife is eligible to apply for citizenship because she is the mother of a U.S. citizen.

    Actually, my brother-in-law recently married someone from Vietnam too and some of our family members found out this girl has a "significant other" out there and they are planning for something after she got her green card. I for one don't really know if I should tell on her because something inside of me just hope that she will really fall in love with my brother-in-law during the procedure while she's waiting for the green card.

    If this would be the case, there wouldn't be thousands of illegal immigrant mothers deported and leaving their US Citizen kids behind. You are totally incorrect on this matter.

  7. Most likely because you don't have a credit history yet?

    I agree. It is not that they can't access it, what they mean is that there is not credit history at all. A secured credit card is the best option as others have suggested or if your spouse has credit cards, he/she can contact any credit card company and add your name to the account. Make sure they include your SSN on the account because that will be the only way you can start building your own credit history. This is what many people do,including myself. Good luck.

  8. I think there is more to this story that you, the petitioner, doesn't know about. Is your fiance telling that this is the only reason why it was denied? My fiancee visa just got approved after 15 days of 221g review and all the evidence that you presented, was way more than what we sent. To me there is a more legitimate reason than just not enough evidence. This could be something related to your fiance, his police records, medical, etc. but he is not telling you exactly. I think is time to have a serious conversation with him. These are just my two cents. I am sorry that you are going through this. Good luck!

  9. Yes I know this, I am just trying to see if fellow Russians in specific have had the same situation with the impolite/not friendly interviewers. It's just to rate their customer service and evaluate the consulate in Moscow in general. Thank you!

  10. My fiancée had her interview today but we didn’t have any luck. She didn’t get approved or disapproved. She was asked only a couple of questions, how we met, when we met, etc. Both of us have been married before and she was asked if my ex-wife was US citizen and if she got her green card through me, which she did. My fiancée was completely honest and she told them the truth. These were all the questions she was asked. Then the interviewer told my fiancée that she forgot a form, I think it was the DS-156 form, which she was told earlier by their help line that she didn’t need it. They told her that she needed to send this form by mail and then she was going to be notified of a decision. They kept her passport and some other documentation. Now we are terrified that she will not get approved due to my previous marriage and that my ex-wife got her green card through me. I just would like to know if there is someone who has gone through the same situation and what the outcome was. Also, can they deny her visa based on my previous marriage and that my ex-wife got her green card through me? Please advise. We are really terrified that they wouldn’t approve her visa only because of my past marriage. Just in case someone is wondering, There was no fraud whatsoever in my past marriage, this is life and it just didn’t work out as many others.

    Thank you all for your input.

  11. The only problem I see is the form she didnt give them. The case file must be complete to issue the visa. The questions about your past were answered correctly. If a previouse marrige affected these cases as you think there are many people that would never get a visa. They just want to see if she knows & if she lies.

    If they were going to deny the visa because of your past they wouldnt have kept the passport. Get the form in & they will issue the visa.

    Thank you for your reply. We are just concerned because this officer was really rude and not professional with my fiancee that she didnt even ask for any documents or evidence of our relationship. She didnt even ask for the DHL receipt and this is a problem. This officer seemed not interested at all in what my fiancee was saying, totally rude.

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