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Sorry to hear about your current relationship. I think that in your heart you know that she is just playing you. Based on your story, this woman uses herself physically to get what she wants from you. I believe that is not what makes a relationship. I have been through a bad one, my one ex and only. When they use their body to get what they want it just means one thing. There is no love there. I don't care about what others are saying, "oh! let her adjust to her new surrounding and the new country????" If you love someone it doesn't matter where you are, your affection never disappear. When you love someone you don't make them feel the way she makes you feel at the moment," all confused about wether or not she loves you, wants to be with you, or if you should just be sending her back!" There should be no doubt in your mind and in hers that she and you want to be together. My friend do yourself a favor and stop this wishful thinking (we know you love her and are probably infatuated with her). If she really cared about you instead of just wanting to just use you as a bridge to american permanent residency; you wouldn't be on this forum asking us what we think. I think you need to cut this cancer off right away before you get yourself in too deep. I apologize for being so negative but the truth hurts.

Thank you everyone....NO2 10 days after VJ approximations. Happy Happy Joy Joy!!

Hello everyone,

I am so happy and relieved about receiving my NO2. I was having nightmares about what could have gone wrong??? but now I am so excited...less then a 100 days for the NO2 YOOHOOO!!!! So my silly question is, "What's next?"

Hello friend and fellow journeyman,

I can't say I understand your pain as my father still lives although he had a very bad stroke and is no longer the same. My ex-wife also lives and is happily married to the person she left me for. These last few years have been very painful and I've also had to endure through a lot. I may not know your pain but I do know mine and I want you to know that I wish for the very best for you and for you to be rejoined with your loved one. Hopefully life will treat you better than in the past. I am also anxious and impatient. You've [probably seen my previous post about how accurate are VJ timeline approximation. I would probably bet that your adjudicator and mine are one and the same because this morning I also woke up to an approval of my NO2. I just checked your timeline and noticed that you have also received your approval, CONGRATULATIONS!!! May the rest of the way be smooth sailing for the both of us and all of us!!!

Thank you all for your replies.....I am still anxious but I feel better now

I just wanted to find out from fello VJ journeymen what they thought of how accurate the VJ timeline approximations were? my timeline approximate adjudication between 06/27 and 07/04 and I have yet to receive notification and I've checked to immigration case status and there is nothing yet nor have I received any RFEs. Thank you for your thoughts on this, I guess I am just too anxious.

Sorry my friend I filed a whole 30 days behind you...however my vjtimeline anticipates a 07/27/11-8/14/11 adjucation date so that may give you aomewhat of a reference...

Congratulations!! I am very happy for the both of you that is definitely great news