I was there for a month a i spent less then you did in a week. Rule number one if she asks you for money all they time not a good sign. My fiancee is coming here in 3 days and comes from a very poor family i help out with bills but she has never asked me for money i have always given. She is hardworking and hates that we have to help her family. I dont know man this girl doesnt seem like she cares about you but just about your money BE CAREFUL