Then I'm probably not normal . Moved to the USA in 2011. Through all the years I didn't have a single day when I missed my motherland or home. Don't think I had a miserable life there, very nice apartment, perfect job, everything I wanted I had there, except one!!! Which was the most important for me - Good husband!!! Right now I have him. Don't need anything else.
Fears????? I don't remember even had them, but do you remember a movie - Gone with the wind? Scarlett O'Hara always said - I will think about that tomorrow. I'm the same way. I never let myself to go crazy about anything, if it happens to me then I will think. And believe me you might not even have those fears at all in future, what for to worry about it right now????
You have one perfect plus in all of it, you know the language!!!!! Half is done already!!!! Do you know how many women come here without knowing the language????? As for me, they are just jumping from a bridge to the ocean . And they are still doing that.
When I came here, though I knew the language, America was like the other planet for me, really, right now still feels the same . The most important that you found the right man!!! That's the most important in the whole life. You'll find a job, don't think about that right now, you'll get used to everything - don't think about that right now. Give yourself time, to get used, to feel comfortable, to love everything. You'll get it.
The only one thing that may make me cry - is the attitude of some people to the accent. They think if you talk with an accent you think with one......... Luckily there are not so many people like that!!!!! but my accent is Russian, so I think British will be different. Just fine!!!. Good Luck!!! Don't let your fears overwhelm you. Don't think about things which might never happen, it's not worth it!!!!!
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Hi. I came here a year ago from Ukraine though my native language is Russian. The only advise from me is - to stop reading anything, especially forums. believe me if I'd read something before came here - I wouldn't probably came. so horrible everything is discussed. for me the most important was to talk with my future husband via skype. He even wanted me to talk with his frien's wives who came here from Russia and Ukraine. But I didn't want - I trusted mu husband and the only person with whom I wanted to talk was him. He was extremely honest, he told about everything, he should pictures and videos of his home. And coming here wasn't a stress, though I came with my kids and even a cat. We loved it here, nobody even wants to visit Ukraine :yes:. But for me the most important was always my family, my husband, and when I got, what I was dreaming about, I didn't want anything else. So just talk to her as much as you can, support her when she comes here, love her, don't expect everything at once, maybe for her it won't be so easy as it was for my family, who knows. Just tell her not to read a lot information in the internet, it may rise unnecessary thoughts and feelings in her mind.
Good luck!!!!