confused about I-485 fees

[pushbrk 13,611]

Just know I was furnishing some constructive criticism pushbrk. Just take it easy.

I hear you. At the same time, I think the admonition to "relax" is just as valid for those who are being too sensitive. Communication is a two way street. Offense is often taken where none was intended.

How many people have to say "you are being sarcastic" before you start to wonder if it is you that needs to stop and think about how you write in reply to people.... saying people are just "being to sensitive" is just an excuse for your sarcastic replies.....

Kez

Well thank you everyone for your support and answers.Pushbrk I feel I did take your suggestion the way it was intended,sarcasticly.I am not an oversensitive person but at the moment I am under alot of stress getting ready to move a teenager to the states.I was told at my immigration interview 2 weeks ago that on K-2 she was not under travel restrictions and she would not need an AP.Obviously wrong information right from the horses mouth.So..when I'm reading up about EVERYTHING I'm going through to most people it would be QUITE understanding that I'm checking to see if I'm missing anything.I thought that questions were welcomed here.The fact you clearly considered my question a dumb one goes directly against the saying**there are no dumb questions** At any rate thank you to everyone who was helpful in this manner and Pushbrk how about you see any other questions from me you deem beneath you..how about you don't answer.Better yet even if I come up with a brilliant one leave it to someone else.

It was sarcastic humor. My PM's are running 100% indicating they got the joke. I can't read your mind from reading a question any better than you can read mine from reading an answer. Questions, including this one are welcome. Your question was not beneath me. I answered it my way. I'll forget who you are by tomorrow, so if you ask another question of any kind, my response will have nothing whatsoever to do with your above requests or with you. It will be a response to a post, period. These threads are read by many more people than those who initiate or respond to them. I write for both the readers and the responders, not just the initiators. You run your ads and you take your chances, so to speak.

For what it's worth, you said you'd been reading about the new fees. I though maybe you would have considered reading the fee schedule. That's a reliably horses mouth kind of source to which you may have other reasons to consult in the future. The link to it is near the top of the page you'll get if you simply click "Forums" at the top of any page here.

Those who think obvious personal attacks are warranted in this case, would be well advised to re-read the VJ terms of service, IMO.

[LaL 418]

You guys needs to stop this back and forth - having the last word is just silly, (although I am pretty sure I am having the last word here )... Please stop and consider that a friendly reminder to take it down a notch does not need to be open season for bickering. Is it really that important to have the last word in?

I can tell you, should I post a similar reminder in the future, and the last remarks/back and forth bickering continues, the thread will be closed quicker than this one.