I think I was used for a Green Card

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This is what I was getting at. What USCIS thinks of validity of this marriage is important for immigration status, but has no bearing on what is really going on in the relationship. Marriage can be real, and still suspected by USCIS. Marriage can be fraudulent, but go through USCIS easily. The fact that OP and his spouse were summoned for the interview only shows that they did not do a very good job at filing paperwork.

OP's suspicions are a whole different story. May be his intuition is right, but may be he's just being insecure. My advice to OP is to stay positive. It may make a difference as to where his relationship goes.

Sure. But that could be enough to make USCIS question the validity of the marriage.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

This is what I was getting at. What USCIS thinks of validity of this marriage is important for immigration status, but has no bearing on what is really going on in the relationship. Marriage can be real, and still suspected by USCIS. Marriage can be fraudulent, but go through USCIS easily. The fact that OP and his spouse were summoned for the interview only shows that they did not do a very good job at filing paperwork.

OP's suspicions are a whole different story. May be his intuition is right, but may be he's just being insecure. My advice to OP is to stay positive. It may make a difference as to where his relationship goes.

Sure. But that could be enough to make USCIS question the validity of the marriage.

Aside from obvious indicators of fraud, or the absence of sufficient documentation, there are other "reasons" that a couple could be called in for an interview and, of course, some cases are randomly picked for an interview.

[olgarobert051104 0]

What should I do…We have decided to get a divorce. I do not want to send her back to Russia. She still wants to get her removal of conditions and stay here in the United States. We signed a pre-nuptual agreement in the beginning and I have everything to lose and she has nothing to gain. Should I have all my paperwork in order with a lawyer before we go to the appointment? Does she need to find another sponsor or can I still sponsor her? Please help.

On the removal of conditions form I understand that she can still get her green card. Is this true?

I am hoping for a quick and clean divorce. She is hoping I don’t contest the green card.

I need some advise...

I think my wife used me to get her green card. She has her AOS appointment in a few days. I am out of town and asked that it be rescheduled for when I am home but I don't think she did it. Can she attend the AOS appointment by herself or have a friend take her? She decided at the last minute that she didn't want to come with me on my trip. We had to cancel tickets and everything. She has been doing many other things that have made me wonder, but this one tops them all. I do not want to be vendictive as I do love her and want the marriage to work. What are my options if this was indeed her plan? Your advise is appreciated.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

What should I do…We have decided to get a divorce. I do not want to send her back to Russia. She still wants to get her removal of conditions and stay here in the United States. We signed a pre-nuptual agreement in the beginning and I have everything to lose and she has nothing to gain. Should I have all my paperwork in order with a lawyer before we go to the appointment? Does she need to find another sponsor or can I still sponsor her? Please help.

On the removal of conditions form I understand that she can still get her green card. Is this true?

I am hoping for a quick and clean divorce. She is hoping I don’t contest the green card.

I need some advise...

I think my wife used me to get her green card. She has her AOS appointment in a few days. I am out of town and asked that it be rescheduled for when I am home but I don't think she did it. Can she attend the AOS appointment by herself or have a friend take her? She decided at the last minute that she didn't want to come with me on my trip. We had to cancel tickets and everything. She has been doing many other things that have made me wonder, but this one tops them all. I do not want to be vendictive as I do love her and want the marriage to work. What are my options if this was indeed her plan? Your advise is appreciated.

I'm very curious. If you trully believe that you were used for a green card, why would you not want to do the right thing?

And, if you had a pre-nuptial, why do you believe you have everything to lose?