Do my fiance kids have to come over when issued a green card?

[Fireschool 2]

My fiance boys would like to stay at school in the Philippines and not come to the U.S.A. after me and my fiance are married. We will get permission for her to visit a few months each year. The boys are 15 and 13 and really have a good life in the Philippines. Hope this does not sound cruel to anyone, but it is the best decision for our situation and for the boys who go to a private school and live in a gated community. Life really is good for them. Any feedback on what happens when their green card is issued would be greatly appreciated, thank you.

[Transborderwife 4,666]

This is actually quite common on here, no judgment.  That's fine but if they do so choose to come it'll be a much longer wait.

[Fireschool 2]

So the issue of their green card takes longer than my fiance? And I assume they are required to come here once they are issued a green card? That is the answer we are looking for please.

[Transborderwife 4,666]

3 minutes ago, Fireschool said:

So the issue of their green card takes longer than my fiance? And I assume they are required to come here once they are issued a green card? That is the answer we are looking for please.

Their greencards would be effectively abandoned and new petitions would need to be filed 

[Fireschool 2]

So the boys green cards are abandoned, that makes sense. I assume that would not affect me and my fiances/wife's process in anyway since we would already be married and she would have been issued her green card. Is that correct? And thank you for all these quick replies.