husband visited just 0nce. red flag or n0t?

[JasonandJeizel 10]

Helo fellow Vjers.

I have 1 c0ncern about my upcoming interview next month.

Me and my husband kn0w each other for 4 yrs,engaged for 4 yrs before we get married.

Here is the case. We met 0n fb way back 2012,and getting to kn0w each other.after 1 yr he propose to me through skype and yes we got engaged.and planning to get married here in philippines my country,but since we are n0t in a hurry tho coz we need to kn0w each other more better before going to next step,we chatted and call every single day,and skype to0.,and many times that he wanted to visit here,and i suggested that when he visit we will get married,so that in 0ne single visit we can acc0mplish big. And we both agreed to it, and since we are getting to kn0w each other more better,were engaged for quite l0ng time,.and just this year,we decided to get married,since 4 yrs is already en0ugh in kn0wing 0ne another.we got married last january 2016,and that is his first visit to0.

My questi0n is,is it a red flag that he just visit 0nce?

[Ervie and Rob 34]

Most of my readings suggest that meeting once and getting married at the same time is a red flags but I also believe that it all boils down to how you would answer the CO once asked why you decided to get married on the first meeting. I am sure you have chat logs from 2012 that could be your proof of relationship so might as well be prepared to answer that question in case CO will ask you about it. It could be due to financial hardship or practicality. Just be positive and relax during the interview. Other red flags are long age gap or religious differences so if none of that is present, I think you would be fine. God bless!