when will i hear good news?

[rozi 0]

today is excetly 3 months of being AP.. how long do im gonna wait more. every sec every min.. its killing me.. i wanted to be with him. i dont know when my dream will come true.. what i should do? when will allah hear me..

[hellraiser 42]

Sooooon..........

Be patient. There isn't an end to it. On e you get it then it will be POE then your green card, and SSN and then real life and then removal if necessary, then citizenship, kids and their school and the list will go on and on.

Relax and wait as your waiting has a positive end however not everyone I as lucky as you are. Think about that and may ease some o the pain. This is. Ertaonly painful bit can't avoid this uncertainty.

Good luck

[rozi 0]

Sooooon..........

Be patient. There isn't an end to it. On e you get it then it will be POE then your green card, and SSN and then real life and then removal if necessary, then citizenship, kids and their school and the list will go on and on.

Relax and wait as your waiting has a positive end however not everyone I as lucky as you are. Think about that and may ease some o the pain. This is. Ertaonly painful bit can't avoid this uncertainty.

Good luck

Do u think I should go to bangladesh. Is that a good idea? I'm having difficulty time always Allah knows.. I know even though it's painfull I don't have no other choice beside waiting.. 6 yes of marrige life didn't spend one month together.. Allah knows how long is will take.. Every single moment I felt like million years

[hellraiser 42]

Life sucks, isn't it? If you can afford a trip and stay their for a while, do so. The pain of separation and anxiety will ease for sure; however I do NOT think that will help to expedite this process in anyway. However know this, you are almost at the end of this ordeal. If you are really missing him that much, I would say dump everything and just go. Heck with all these waiting and comeback with him when you are all set. However you may have to wait a month more may be two, three or even more, so consider tha as well.

As I said the waiting is nearing an end and once it is go back and bring your prize back with you :-))

Best wishes.

[rozi 0]

Life sucks, isn't it? If you can afford a trip and stay their for a while, do so. The pain of separation and anxiety will ease for sure; however I do NOT think that will help to expedite this process in anyway. However know this, you are almost at the end of this ordeal. If you are really missing him that much, I would say dump everything and just go. Heck with all these waiting and comeback with him when you are all set. However you may have to wait a month more may be two, three or even more, so consider tha as well.

As I said the waiting is nearing an end and once it is go back and bring your prize back with you :-))

Best wishes.

thank you so much for the advice.. i think i will see one more months.. before i do something.. cause my boss said i cant take off more than 1 months.. and i dont wanted to loose my job too.. its really hard to find a good job now these days dont u think? my job wasnt really that good but its not less too i love working here. and i dont wanna leave and come here with no jobs.. well my point is if they were tell people how long they are gonna wait that will help people.. cause we dont know and thats the reason its giving me more prob.. i mean i dont know what position is in my case.. please pray for me i hope my waiting time will be over very soon.. i have little feeling inside of me i felt like very soon we will be together.. the rest allah knows better..

[hellraiser 42]

My guess on the attitude of DOS or embassy on this is: this timeline varies by countries, and making a commitment may come with keeping it. But an open ended generalized category can keep you on hold forever without any explanation. Beside some of these exercises could really take long. So don't worry. If you really want to wait, I would suggest give 5 months. For Bangladeshi males lately I have noticed few getting out of AP right after their 4th month.

One month of vacation? Can't even dream of it. Lucky you......... Where do you work? Heaven? Just kidding.

Stay positive, keep up the good spirit and support your hubby who probably is much more depressed than you are......

[rozi 0]

My guess on the attitude of DOS or embassy on this is: this timeline varies by countries, and making a commitment may come with keeping it. But an open ended generalized category can keep you on hold forever without any explanation. Beside some of these exercises could really take long. So don't worry. If you really want to wait, I would suggest give 5 months. For Bangladeshi males lately I have noticed few getting out of AP right after their 4th month.

One month of vacation? Can't even dream of it. Lucky you......... Where do you work? Heaven? Just kidding.

Stay positive, keep up the good spirit and support your hubby who probably is much more depressed than you are......

thats why im gonna wait another months or so.. if i see they are not responding then i will go to bangladesh.. well i dont work in heaven.. i work for DD..but im store manager.. so thats why they r not allow to have us more than a months.. they will hire someone else in my place.. and i have family to taking care of.. so thats the reason im not going..

[hellraiser 42]

Got the information from your timeline. So congrats

Feel free to pas the info and share your experience with others. That will help, benefit others in similar situation.

Now is the easy part, POE. Good luck and best wishes for both.

[hellraiser 42]

Sorry never mind about my previous post. That was for someone else. My bad

[rozi 0]

Sorry never mind about my previous post. That was for someone else. My bad

its okay dont worry abt it ..