A qusestion to men who would pay for sex...

[KaiserD 12]

Sorry, I didn't realise this was a website for pinning up our trophies to win some kind of award.

Like Facebook with the PS3 trophies Only on there you can choose who you want to receive notifications from!

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

Like Facebook with the PS3 trophies Only on there you can choose who you want to receive notifications from!

but would that make others "jealous"?

I think the lack of "jealousy" might be the issue here in the interpretation of the original statement!

[KaiserD 12]

but would that make others "jealous"?

I think the lack of "jealousy" might be the issue here in the interpretation of the original statement!

Well you can understand the reluctance. Some people are so headstrong in the belief of what a perfect woman should be/look like, they spend most of their life looking to others to reinforce this so when they "obtain" this they think everyone should be patting them on the back, it's like automatically winning at life right? That they have what they want is great* for them but perhaps have yet to figure out why nobody else cares.

Of course it has to be because all of us have hit all the ugly branches of the ugly trees in the ugly forest. All of us

*As I know Gary has been told about 500 times previously

Edited July 28, 2010 by KaiserD

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

I've always admired the ability of certain posters to "know" what posters look like based on the flag of their profile (you know, in the absence of a photo). If only the military could harness their abilities, I'm sure we could find Osama Bin Laden, Lord Lucan and maybe even Big Foot.

[KaiserD 12]

I've always admired the ability of certain posters to "know" what posters look like based on the flag of their profile (you know, in the absence of a photo). If only the military could harness their abilities, I'm sure we could find Osama Bin Laden, Lord Lucan and maybe even Big Foot.

Well, it's pretty easy. If you're a woman who happens to be American or British you're obviously either a gold digger or a man oppressing feminist. Everyone knows all feminists dress like men, secretly want to be men and are extremely ugly. Their very existence is a threat to all real women, lingerie sales and high heels everywhere.

If you're using an avatar of anything other than yourself, you obviously must be hiding something bad. Hiding the very grotesqueness of the feminist form perhaps.

[Amby 490]

Well, it's pretty easy. If you're a woman who happens to be American or British you're obviously either a gold digger or a man oppressing feminist. Everyone knows all feminists dress like men, secretly want to be men and are extremely ugly. Their very existence is a threat to all real women, lingerie sales and high heels everywhere.

If you're using an avatar of anything other than yourself, you obviously must be hiding something bad. Hiding the very grotesqueness of the feminist form perhaps.

I dunno...Kaiser, if you look like your avatar then I totally prefer you over the other two

[KaiserD 12]

I don't have triangular breasts. That's all I'm sayin'

[Gemmie 142]

I dunno...Kaiser, if you look like your avatar then I totally prefer you over the other two

I quite fancy yours over the other two.

[Amby 490]

my former pup does dress quite well

[KaiserD 12]

I quite fancy yours over the other two.

Wings are sexy!

my former pup does dress quite well

Looking in deep contemplation about what it means to be fashionable maybe?

I just noticed you really did get your title changed

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

I have a pic of myself on my member page. I'm not worried about what any of the VJers think of it. I am secure enough in my identity and sexuality to know that there are some that like what I look like, and others who don't, and it doesn't make a damn difference to me who thinks what.

[slim 1,533]

Evidently. You disagree for the sake of disagreeing because you are either dishonest, you really can't imagine how you would feel emotionally in that situation, or you are psychotic (I said all this before).

Can you really not grasp the concept of me having a different opinion than yours?

The inability to empathise with other people is a symptom of a psychopathic disorder.

Is that more "I read about it on the internet" knowledge there or is that supported by actual fact?

Actually, it was "I find my wife a lot more attractive".

Comparative analysis based on observation. He looked at Gary's wife before saying that. He didn't just say a lot more attractive, he said more attractive... a lot more so. That's basically flipping sand in Gary's eye.

For someone so quick to judge implications... you're totally missing the boat on this one. Oh, wait, I forgot... standard MO because it fits your agenda.

No one is here to show off what their spouse looks like, except you and Slim.

I don't show off my wife. People asked for pics, I posted pics.

No, YOU took it as an objective comparison. I can say "I find my pet goat more attractive than yours" and I don't have to give pictures to prove it. It's not a factual statement, it's a preference. He's seen both, so he can give his own judgement. What you're upset about is that he didn't give YOU the chance to judge.

No, what I'm upset about is he b!tched out when Gary called him out on it. I could care less what his wife looks like. The fact that someone makes a post to disparage someone else's wife and then claims "privacy issues" when called out about it says a lot about who he is. The fact that all of you buy into it shows me a lot about who you are.

The point is not he should show off his wife to prove to Gary that she's hotter... the point is he shouldn't say his wife is hotter - a lot more - and then say Gary is wrong for doing so. Rob was wrong in this situation. Not Gary.

Sorry, I didn't realise this was a website for pinning up our trophies to win some kind of award.

It's not, but when someone says "my trophy is a lot better than yours" and then b!tches out when called out on it, it could turn into a trophy show.

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

Can you really not grasp the concept of me having a different opinion than yours?

Sure. I just don't believe you're expressing an honest opinion on this subject - for the reasons I already gave you.

Is that more "I read about it on the internet" knowledge there or is that supported by actual fact?

I've studied psychology. You can read up on it yourself if you like - psychopathic disorders are characterised by the basic inability to empathise with other people; and to a greater or lesser degree, have a tendency to indulge in behaviours that reflect that inability.

Comparative analysis based on observation. He looked at Gary's wife before saying that. He didn't just say a lot more attractive, he said more attractive... a lot more so. That's basically flipping sand in Gary's eye.

For someone so quick to judge implications... you're totally missing the boat on this one. Oh, wait, I forgot... standard MO because it fits your agenda.

Slim, the fact that virtually everyone here (except Gary) is against you on this kind of suggests that you've not only missed the boat, but somehow gotten on the wrong one all the while insisting that it is the right one.

Once again, the statement was "I find my wife more attractive". That is a subjective personal opinion.

No, what I'm upset about is he b!tched out when Gary called him out on it. I could care less what his wife looks like. The fact that someone makes a post to disparage someone else's wife and then claims "privacy issues" when called out about it says a lot about who he is. The fact that all of you buy into it shows me a lot about who you are.

The point is not he should show off his wife to prove to Gary that she's hotter... the point is he shouldn't say his wife is hotter - a lot more - and then say Gary is wrong for doing so. Rob was wrong in this situation. Not Gary.

There is no requirement on anyone here to post personal photographs. If you choose to do it and someone comments on them, that's the risk you take in putting them up. There's no obligation for anyone to put up their own photos, just because you don't like the comments made about your own.

Edited July 28, 2010 by Its a MADHOUSE

[slim 1,533]

Sure. I just don't believe you're expressing an honest opinion on this subject - for the reasons I already gave you.

How can I prove it to you?

I've studied psychology. You can read up on it yourself if you like - psychopathic disorders are characterised by the basic inability to empathise with other people; and to a greater or lesser degree, have a tendency to indulge in behaviours that reflect that inability.

Can I not "choose" to be empathetic or not? Does it have to be a reaction?

Slim, the fact that virtually everyone here (except Gary) is against you on this kind of suggests that you've not only missed the boat, but somehow gotten on the wrong one all the while insisting that it is the right one.

How does being in the majority prove anything? The majority voted for Obama?

Wanna give that one a go?

Once again, the statement was "I find my wife more attractive". That is a subjective personal opinion.

That was not the statement. Go back and read it again.

There is no requirement on anyone here to post personal photographs. If you choose to do it and someone comments on them, that's the risk you take in putting them up. There's no obligation for anyone to put up their own photos, just because you don't like the comments made about your own.

Totally agree with you. But, if you choose to make comments and then someone calls you out on your comments you shouldn't be a b!tch about not responding. You should either man up or shut up. Neither was done in this situation.

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

1) You can't prove it.

2) No you can't choose.

3) It's a message board, not a political election campaign. And the issue under discussion isn't a question of "opinion" but of reading comprehension. Everyone gets the meaning but you and Gary.

4) No need. I've already posted the comment ad nauseum and verbatim. You are simply wrong.

5) If you choose to put personal information out in public, that's entirely on you. There's no requirement for anyone to reciprocate.