UK fiancee visa holder applied for US K1

[jammie louisse02 0]

hello first of al I wanna greet my fellow VJ'ers here,I am very new member here but a long time reader that decided to post a short version of my own story.

I am from Philippines Who had been a UK fiancee visa holder almost a year ago,I went to UK,with a fiancee visa but refused to get married..

I just stayed there for two months and get back without listening people there to stay while my visa is good for 6 months multiple entry,my story is quiet complicated as I was happened to have American boy friend at the time of my UK fiancee visa application.

while I was there it was my American boy friend whom I wish to get married with,but it happened that he seems not prepared for a family yet,but I do love him,he was the one every time I pictured out my future with kids,he was the one I can see holding them.I know I hurt him and regretted that part which sometimes I cried and blamed my self for the foolish I did to him,

That application of UK fiancee visa was really not intended,I was once denied with my tourist visa application to UK,as I don't have strong ties that will prove the ECO that I am coming back here after the visit,I wanted to see his parents especially the mom who wanted to see me too after talking to her almost every day on phone.

I told my boy friend about what I did,and I can feel how much I'd hurt him,I felt I wasn't deserving after choosing the bad decisions,while I was there in UK I don't feel what they called happiness,there was time that I cried at night,I wanted to call him but I am so ashamed to do so..

my life there wasn't perfect at all,though my ex British bf family were so nice and took care of me,we spent every other week end at their place,she decorated my room some colorful stuffs that belongs to my favorite colors,That part made me glad to go there seeing her,she's the one who prepared for the wedding,go and paid for things we needed,book a hotel for where the wedding took place,every time that I think about the incoming wedding I am sweating and wasn't in a good mood always as I keep seeing my American's PICTURES in my mind.he's laugh,he's touch into my hands,he's snore, the way he looked at me,he's favorite expressions,and every time I threw up at the bus when we go somewhere like my ex parents place,I remember of my boy friend who happened to be there the first time I got drunk with him during his visit,in the Philippines the last time I saw him before the UK,application. and everything that reminds me of him,that made me feel more courageous to back out the wedding and tell the family the whole truth even I am scared to might hurt their feelings as they got close to me already.Those times I was there I am so a sinner I admit myself because I happened to communicate with my boy friend without telling him what was on my mind.That I wasn't ok when I said I am doing fine here,that I wasn't fine every time he ask me how I am doing,if they took care of me and if I'd do eat good and healthy food,without telling when I was sick that I always thought of his healing hand.

My boy friend wants me to go back in the Philippine as he always thought I wasn't look happy every time I saw him on the chat,and wasn't sound happy as I told him when we talked on phone,after doing this several times while my ex bf at work I felt so guilty and couldn't see him and his eyes anymore,so I TOLD HIM EVERYTHING,I told him I do want to go back where I Came from,and after that we told his family,he's family wants to see me and spent time with me before I will go,so they called for a family dinner every one off from work,but I wanted to go home that soon after the big shock of them even they understand my decision I made a letter for all of them.

My ex,wanted me to study over there and finish my university,he wanted to buy me a car and get my license over there,he don't know how to drive and he wants to do this so that I can drive us when we go somewhere,but I don't take those as I know it wasn't the reason of me going there.

shortly my American bf knows everything and he wants to help me get back to my home country and start all over again,that point I am having a lil hope that we could see each other again,that makes me happy already,but still guilty of what had happened,He is a very good person,very understanding,He got me a ticket and book me a hotel for a week while looking for a new apartment,I found one and he come over here followed me,

after two weeks he proposed which WE BOTH CRIED,that time I felt like I am complete I felt the unfamiliar happiness,and promised to myself that I will never let anything jeopardize us and our relationship,that moment that he told me how much he wanted me to be his wife and how much he loves me I felt already content HAPPY that the first reaction I made wasn't saying the word "yes"when he propose the first thing was the tears falling of happiness as I never really thought we gonna still end up with a romantic proposal.and knowing that he wanted to build a family with me is more than enough already and VERY MUCH HAPPY knowing that I could spent the rest of my life with someone I dearly love.

So now,we are engaged applied for a k1 already and have interview date,I wanna ask the following questions and I am hoping those brothers and sisters here who are very kind on taking time and giving their advices to please I will really appreciate your words on my concerns

*DO MY UK FIANCEE VISA BEFORE, WILL AFFECT MY US FIANCEE VISA NOW?and be a reason for denial?.

*What should I answer the consul when they ask me why did I do applied for a fiancee visa without intending to marry my British bf.

*I am scared that the consul will judge me of what happened,should I be worried?

also how many pictures should I bring to the interview?

my fiancee visited me 4 times already,but hadn't meet my mom and dad,we tried everything we could but due to my parents separation that makes everything hard for them to meet,but he had seen my older brother couple of times already,Do I have to worry that the consul might think of our relations is not genuine because of that and what happened?

does the pics of us together, pics of us with my brother,and the pics of us with friends will be enough?

Thanks a lot for reading,and I am deeply sorry that I made a very long first time post,Thanks in advance for the advices,God bless us all!!!

[TracyTN 237]

I don't recall ever being asked along the process if you had applied for (or received) a fiance/e visa in another country.

I think you're worrying unnecessarily.

[Otto 83]

I don't recall ever being asked along the process if you had applied for (or received) a fiance/e visa in another country.

I think you're worrying unnecessarily.

Ditto...

[Chica Yeyé 41]

It does not matter, since it was not a US K-1 fiancee visa.

please read the Guides to see what you will need - it is much more than pictures.