Help me please..

[belovedbyme 0]

Im trying to be awake. He is much older than me for 15yrs. I dont have kids...Do u think you can sleep well as a wife knowing you dont even know where is your husband?I wish I could have talk to customs terminal 2 about passenger name but I called 3 x no one answered the phone. I need to know the truth.

I called 3 hotels in Taipei where he used to go before but his name is not there.

[newlyweds 0]

from your posts, you definitely need to talk to your husband when he gets back as it seems like his character has changed..and that is never a good sign; also how he keeps sayign you;re trying to insinuate him cheating is not a good sign either. hopefully everything will be alright, just pray always

[raquel_1208 1]

I am sorry to say this but if you have this gut feeling that he is cheating, then he probably is. We women can feel when something is amiss or different with our boyfriend.

[angel7407 33]

Im trying to be awake. He is much older than me for 15yrs. I dont have kids...Do u think you can sleep well as a wife knowing you dont even know where is your husband?I wish I could have talk to customs terminal 2 about passenger name but I called 3 x no one answered the phone. I need to know the truth.

I called 3 hotels in Taipei where he used to go before but his name is not there.

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I know it is hard for you to sleep having that situation right now. Im sure a lot of things are in your mind. Please try to get some sleep so your head will be clearer and you can think better. Is there something you have done why he is acting that way? His actions are strange especially because he did not tell you the truth about that hotel check out. Were you okay before he left? Was he like that always? Do you see a big change in him(not only on that travel thing, but in other aspects)? If your husband is doing something wrong, ex: cheating, you can feel that. As they say, "woman's intuition." Can he check his emails there? If so, then maybe you can write him about how you feel. Do it in a calm way, so that he wont feel suffocated. I know it is hard to really "talk" to the person trough email than personal, but that is the best way now since he doesnt call you and you cannot contact him. He did not tell you where he would stay in Taiwan? Of course as a wife, we will reAlly worry about our husbands. Pray to God and talk to Him, He will give you signs.

[belovedbyme 0]

He called me in Japan hotel only ONCE 10min.since he been there for 2 weeks. I called for the 1st time Im able to talk to him but he seems cold when we talk. The next night I called at the hotel phone rang but he wasn't at hotel around 9:20p.m. But I informed him I called at that internet at hotel is always connected. The last time was last night. He wasnt there at all but claimed he was at the hotel. INSINUATION word came out of his mouth.

But we do email each other but sometimes when I emailed evening like 6a.m for me he wl reply that email at 6a.m or 8a.m Japan time. He told me he cant connect to internet the system of the laptop block it is owned by a company so everything is being monitored. At least he emailed me . Oh my god! I dont know what to do. To think he is much older than me its funny. I can play wirhour his knowledge but I remain faithful to him always....

without i mean

[belovedbyme 0]

I am sorry to say this but if you have this gut feeling that he is cheating, then he probably is. We women can feel when something is amiss or different with our boyfriend.

He has some changes when he was back on his July trip. He wanted me to dye my hair to look fashionable. He doesn't like color and stuff now he adviced me last time. Im puzzled as he said thats what he saw in Japan.He was dry when I met him at the airport that time but we did have fun for those 12 days he was with me. We dont have issue at Japan. The issue is TAIWAN. Then he told me he wont be going to taiwan this time Aug. trip it wl be Japan. So i said, okay. But I got an email from him saying he wl call as soon as he is in TAIWAN? He can save money once he booked it himself then deduct it on company agent so he can save money. I saw the itinerary..The thing is: He dont dropped off to taiwan on his way to JAPAN. He will dropped off to Taiwan once he is on his way home 1 night stay then leave next day. Thats the time I dont hear anything from him at all. I was crying again. This time , it gets worst.

When he called me there as he arrived at airport for 5min. call last aug.13th night time. He informed me that his company wants him to go in taiwan sept.2-3 to check the plant. He got a call from the head of the group. So i said okay. But when he is in Japan 2 days after arrival he told me he will be in Taiwan sept.1-6. The company change the sched bcoz of problems in japan earthquake their plant was affected.

As soon as I will just simply ask where are you really? Be honest.. He will just say..Im tired. Good night.

[belovedbyme 0]

I begged to NWA to confirm to me if that passenger name boarded on that plane last night. But she wont tell me bcoz it is not allowed. Adviced me to call taiwan customs.

[belovedbyme 0]

We were doing okay we chatted that morning without my knowledge he is going to check-out. I dont do anything to him. The 1st time I asked about hotel no. what hotel he is staying when he never contacted me Aug.14th whole day and night and called me Aug.15th on his way going to Japan...I emailed the hotel begged them to send me a confirmation that he did check out as my proof of my claimed. He love to say IM SICK of your INSINUATIONS. I dont think cheated but he said to me " why in your email its about cheating". I never mentioned any word. I just told him in order for marriage to last communication, openess and faithfulness makes the relationship grows.If u cant be faithful to your partner, dont get married so no one wl check on you if u r okay or not as no one cares.

I know it is hard for you to sleep having that situation right now. Im sure a lot of things are in your mind. Please try to get some sleep so your head will be clearer and you can think better. Is there something you have done why he is acting that way? His actions are strange especially because he did not tell you the truth about that hotel check out. Were you okay before he left? Was he like that always? Do you see a big change in him(not only on that travel thing, but in other aspects)? If your husband is doing something wrong, ex: cheating, you can feel that. As they say, "woman's intuition." Can he check his emails there? If so, then maybe you can write him about how you feel. Do it in a calm way, so that he wont feel suffocated. I know it is hard to really "talk" to the person trough email than personal, but that is the best way now since he doesnt call you and you cannot contact him. He did not tell you where he would stay in Taiwan? Of course as a wife, we will reAlly worry about our husbands. Pray to God and talk to Him, He will give you signs.

[John&Juvy 36]

Yes into business once a month have trips Taiwan and Japan. But my hubby is different. He never give me contact # or anything to me since his July trip. I dont know why. We had been arguing a lot because of it. I am wife I need to know where he is. He wont communicate with me at all. I requested the itinerary last week because when he dropped off to Taipei before going to Japan. He never called me whole day and night. I called him morning and night time. He wont asnwer my call but it kept ringing. His reason was he has no service?

We never have issue about it before..He will think nothing happens and that he didnt do anything and he was at the hotel that time when I called but he was sleeping at 9p.m due to jetlag 2 weeks ago. He never go to sleep at 9p.m..It is 10 0r 11p.m as soon as he arrives froma trip so he wont experience much jetlag. But then the bill statement from his company he works with sent in our adddress of the bill he paid in credit card BAR payment . I confronted him about his lies and claimed he was at a hotel but the bill statement showed he was out.

I would like to talk to someone.I am so lost. I am alone in the house. I feel like the world slapped me.

He will go to taiwan for a business trip. But he is scheduled to be there Sept.1-6.

I am trying to contact my husband but I have no luck. His flight was NW 79 from NRT Japan. I can't get a hold of anyone at the customs office in Chiang Kai Shek INt'l Airport. Is there anyone of you here know how to contact the custom office at terminal 2? I called in their numbers in the website I cant get through always said please check the number.. I never called Taiwan before.I freak out now as I dont hear anything from him since last night. I want to know if he made it or not. He always contact me when he arrives.

Please send me a message if you can give some info. Thank you.

Go to Northwest website and then go to their flight status, I also check that flight... your husband is already arrived at Chiang Kai Shek Int'l. Your husband will come here in the Philippines? You can call the northwest airlines.

Your husband is a businessman? Does he always go for a trip in Asia? I'm just curious about it. Because my husband when he go in different state in America he gave me his contact# in the hotel because he go for a camp... he is a military instructor. Try to email him and tell him your feelings about what he is doing, that you worried a lot to him. That is what I do when my husband let me get worried a lot.

Dont worry too much.. Happened to my husband also 1 time, was freaked out and cried coz the plane that my husband supposed to be in to was already arrived but husband not there. Didnt leave the airport, 5hrs later husband called he said he missed his connecting flight so he'll be in different plane and arrived for another 4hrs.

Next time ask your husband if what hotel he going to stay... and even some info at the company he work so you can bug the s**t out of them if where they sent your husband just in case crazy things happen. Try to relax though I know its hard to do lol. He will gonna call you soon.

[Loolie 56]

I am trying to contact my husband but I have no luck. His flight was NW 79 from NRT Japan. I can't get a hold of anyone at the customs office in Chiang Kai Shek INt'l Airport. Is there anyone of you here know how to contact the custom office at terminal 2? I called in their numbers in the website I cant get through always said please check the number.. I never called Taiwan before.I freak out now as I dont hear anything from him since last night. I want to know if he made it or not. He always contact me when he arrives.

Please send me a message if you can give some info. Thank you.

i pray that things will be okay between you and your husband...if he is starting to change then i think you should really have a good talk...try to talk about it when you are both in a good mood so you can clear things more.

its hard to be alone and apart from your hubby...even me when my hubby is not yet home by 9pm coz he is still working i really call him and ask him what time he can go home...and there was a time i was not in the mood i didnt call him past 9pm already he told me why you didnt even care to call me...hehehehehe.

ask also your husband why he go to bar...what kind of bar he always go to?

God bless you.

[belovedbyme 0]

UPDATE:

My husband texted me thru skype .He is using a hotel pc this morning (US time) that he is still in Swissohotel Japan staying. He msg he doesn't want to talk to me bcoz he is pissed off why I told him he wasn't at the hyatt hotel in hyatt when i called and he claimed he was there. He said he is so sick of it!

Tonight, I called in Swissohotel to talk to him before going to taiwan accdg.to him he wl leave in the morning. THERE IS NO SUCH name on that hotel when I called. I again freaked out.

All I got are LIES. I am now sure he is not in JAPAN. He is really in TAIWAN .

I am SICk guys. I dont understand why he treating me this way. Everything was so right before he left.

[belovedbyme 0]

Thank you. He goes to the bar nothing to do at all they hang out with some group and he is in a higher position too. I wish he would buy a laptop for us to talk not using the company laptop since chatting program is now blocked.

His msg in skype is warning me. I just want to know the TRUTH of WHERE in the WORLD he is. I dont want to think he is cheating bcoz he is not a playboy. Who knows? From this experience, I am feeling it.

I am trying to contact my husband but I have no luck. His flight was NW 79 from NRT Japan. I can't get a hold of anyone at the customs office in Chiang Kai Shek INt'l Airport. Is there anyone of you here know how to contact the custom office at terminal 2? I called in their numbers in the website I cant get through always said please check the number.. I never called Taiwan before.I freak out now as I dont hear anything from him since last night. I want to know if he made it or not. He always contact me when he arrives.

Please send me a message if you can give some info. Thank you.

i pray that things will be okay between you and your husband...if he is starting to change then i think you should really have a good talk...try to talk about it when you are both in a good mood so you can clear things more.

its hard to be alone and apart from your hubby...even me when my hubby is not yet home by 9pm coz he is still working i really call him and ask him what time he can go home...and there was a time i was not in the mood i didnt call him past 9pm already he told me why you didnt even care to call me...hehehehehe.

ask also your husband why he go to bar...what kind of bar he always go to?

God bless you.

[ManilaIdaho 2]

Hi,I'm sorry about what's happening to you,I do understand your situation,but you said your husband is in a business trip,maybe he needs time when he said that "he's sick of it".Save your time and energy when he gets home,you're just making everything difficult by keep on locating his whereabouts,you said you just want to know if he's ok,now that you've got a text from him and found out that he's ok,just relax.dont nag him on the phone, emails nor thru text.it's hard to have an argument when you're not face to face with a person.for now,you cant do anything but wait till he comes home and have a heart to heart talk.

good luck and hope everything will be ok with the 2 of you.

[belovedbyme 0]

Thank you ManilaIdaho.

I want to hear his voice I missed him..We used to see each other online on skype but company no longer allowed it since July so we talked on the phone and jsut emails. I dont tell him I called in that hotel he told me. I wont say anything at all.

I will go to work now. I am now relieved he is not in JAPAN. My mind keep thinking if he is in Japan or Taiwan. More talk and discussions as soon as he is here wth me but I dont know when he will be home...He never mentioned anything to me at all.

Hi,I'm sorry about what's happening to you,I do understand your situation,but you said your husband is in a business trip,maybe he needs time when he said that "he's sick of it".Save your time and energy when he gets home,you're just making everything difficult by keep on locating his whereabouts,you said you just want to know if he's ok,now that you've got a text from him and found out that he's ok,just relax.dont nag him on the phone, emails nor thru text.it's hard to have an argument when you're not face to face with a person.for now,you cant do anything but wait till he comes home and have a heart to heart talk.

good luck and hope everything will be ok with the 2 of you.

[Mike's Lucy 14]

Hello belovedbyme,

When you called the hotels in Japan, did you talked to an english speaking people? I used to work in Japan and I know that majority of japanese have a hard time talking in english, maybe they didn't understood you well when you asked them. Also, is your husband can speaks or write in Japanese? Sometimes when you translate some of the names to japanese, it will sound different because their alphabet characters are different, it could be that he was still there when you called. Just maybe.

Hope everything will be okey for both of you soon.