Your Filipino Wife/Fiancée

[Calypso 464]

You must have asked yourself once what if she might just use you to obtain a GC or get you to send her $$$ but you still gave it a shot.

What's with her after all that you've become so fond of her and the process of bringing her to the States stirs excitement, frustration, and anticipation?

FAE

Edited August 21, 2009 by Arbind.Ariadne

[Jasman0717 9]

You must have asked yourself once what if she might just use you to obtain a GC or get you to send her $$$ but you still gave it a shot.

FAE

The thought never crossed my mind. Claudeth has always come across so honest and above-board

[AbbynSheryl 0]

i never think about anything like that. i love her blindly and i trust my wife completely. no trust no love no relation...... abby n sheryl

[MikenKyhen 0]

You must have asked yourself once what if she might just use you to obtain a GC or get you to send her $$$ but you still gave it a shot.

FAE

The thought never crossed my mind. Claudeth has always come across so honest and above-board

I agree with Jasman0717. It never crossed my mind, not for a second. My fiance had and always has been upfront , loving, sincere and honest. In two and half years has never asked for a dime nor has she ever inquired about how long it will take to get her GC.

[Robert E Lee 0]

You must have asked yourself once what if she might just use you to obtain a GC or get you to send her $$$ but you still gave it a shot.

FAE

The answer is NO! Why, are you doubtful about your fiancee? Please answer your own question, bubba.

[HappyDancer 7]

This is going to be exciting... Are we opening a can of worms again?

[Joseph & Ana 0]

In the very very beginning stages it crossed my mind, but after I got to know Ana, its the farthest thing from my mind. I know that its not her intention. Like the others said, I love her with all my heart and I trust her 100%. You can be screwed over by anyone whether they are from your country or are immigrating here. The point is that you need to get to know your SO really well before making this sort of comitment. This goes for any marriage. Whether you're marrying locally or from another country.

[GuardianOne 0]

Hard to explain, we just click.

[MikenKyhen 0]

In the very very beginning stages it crossed my mind, but after I got to know Ana, its the farthest thing from my mind. I know that its not her intention. Like the others said, I love her with all my heart and I trust her 100%. You can be screwed over by anyone whether they are from your country or are immigrating here. The point is that you need to get to know your SO really well before making this sort of comitment. This goes for any marriage. Whether you're marrying locally or from another country.

[Dakine 26]

First pinay I met online I went and stayed 2 weeks with in Cebu at the Plantation Bay Resort turned out to be a scammer. No problem tho as we partied and played for the 2 weeks. Had one of the best times I ever had in my life.

Next one even turned out even better!

We are still partying after 4 years!!

[Jasman0717 9]

First pinay I met online I went and stayed 2 weeks with in Cebu at the Plantation Bay Resort turned out to be a scammer. No problem tho as we partied and played for the 2 weeks. Had one of the best times I ever had in my life.

Next one even turned out even better!

We are still partying after 4 years!!

[Parachute4U 1]

The thought never crossed my mind, even though Jing is from a very poor family. Now we have a wonderful little 9 month old girl scooting around the house. !!!

[Aquices 0]

For the people that say it never crossed their minds.... they must not of talked to any of their friends about their fiance.

Most of my friends are just happy for me.. but there are a bunch that try to warn you about women that try to get out of their countries.

So, of course, you have to consider it in the least..

In the end, you will know your love's intentions, in which case... I would assume that 99% of the feelings of filipina is genuine.

The original poster asked what is with her that has made you so fond of her?

When I heard that question, i was just thinking in general...

If a woman here met a guy that was a really nice guy... acted like an average joe..

on top of that, he was a millionaire and was not a jerk and all that jazz...

Then, it is really easy for that woman to fall head over heels.

I don't want it to sound like it's all about money.. but there definitely is a sense of security for someone living in a third world country to meet and marry someone that can provide a better life for them and their future children.

So when a guy meets anyone... and i mean anyone from anywhere... that shows him real genuine unconditional love that could last forever.... Then that love is what makes you so fond of your fiance.

[HappyDancer 7]

I do warn my friends - both the USC and the foreign SO. Fair is fair.

[eros_EX_Plumber 0]

You must have asked yourself once what if she might just use you to obtain a GC or get you to send her $$$ but you still gave it a shot.

What's with her after all that you've become so fond of her and the process of bringing her to the States stirs excitement, frustration, and anticipation?

FAE

I know few VJ are going to jump on me......

Most will not answer honestly....because they may get in real trouble with current fiance or wife...so they have to paint a rosey picture...or they just lucky (cant blame them)

but honestly in the beginning... i was guard...for 2 main reason

1. Divorced already once....burned already...did not wanted to get burned again....

2. Unfortunately, others girls I meet from RP on the Internet before my current one...were scammers and one was a even a TRANSVESTITE.....that was the funniest part of all...as I played along sending them FAKE Western Union number...still LMAO on some stories..when I think about that...

Now after 3 years relationship...I do not doubt my fiance even for a second....we both had our share difficulties but that is what relationships are all about...

Am I perfect.....Absolutely not...

is she perfect....no

But this is the best relationship that ever happen in my entire life.....

I hope that answer some of your questions...

Cheers...