Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)

[dancehallquana 5]

So it seems like everytime I talk to u ladies something good happens .

I was talking to u guys when I found out I was approved

I was talking to u guys this morning when I went to throw out trash and check my mailbox:

I received my GREEN CARD TODAY

Guess I just need to keep talking to u ladies and go buy the powerball

congrats mrs jeffs!!!

see finesse we mussi keep di good vibes.. good tings appen!

all my stars are aligned right now too, but never fear drama is always near..

[jawi876 2]

So it seems like everytime I talk to u ladies something good happens .

I was talking to u guys when I found out I was approved

I was talking to u guys this morning when I went to throw out trash and check my mailbox:

I received my GREEN CARD TODAY

Guess I just need to keep talking to u ladies and go buy the powerball

Congrats and Welcome!

i like the avo maria song too jawi.. i just wished she would have sung more of "in the arms of an angel" BEAUTIFUL!!! omg and just thinking bout mj w/ that song..

i cry everytime i hear even a snippet of that song i am telling u..

I wish she had performed both songs in their entirety. I love them both.

Poor Tevin Campbell...he disappeared and came back looking like he aged 90 years...was he on drugs? He struggled through that song.

Edited June 30, 2009 by jawi876

[*JG* 2]

Okay, Finesse - I have some dirt or a what would you do situation for you -

One of my friends, who I love to death, has gone through a lot in the past few years (break up of her marriage, etc...) - Her drinking has gotten increasingly out of control - I have spoken to her about it in the past, and she got mad at me - It's not fun to go out with her, cause she can't keep it in control, which means we play babysitter -

Now, Sunday afternoon, we were all out watching the band - I knew she was getting drunk, so I left right when the band started - Another friend of ours emailed me - She ended up driving her home because she found her puking in the alley by the restaurant - Not only that, she was hitting on someone's boyfriend, went off on the band, telling the drummer that he's an f****ng whiteboy who knows nothing about soca, was rude to the waitress and bartender,........... and much worse -

What would you do?

Stop hanging out with her.

[dancehallquana 5]

So it seems like everytime I talk to u ladies something good happens .

I was talking to u guys when I found out I was approved

I was talking to u guys this morning when I went to throw out trash and check my mailbox:

I received my GREEN CARD TODAY

Guess I just need to keep talking to u ladies and go buy the powerball

Congrats! But if you win the powerball you have to share it with your lucky charms!

[*JG* 2]

ok, this is boring now. i may have to go over to negril.com unless smadi have something juicy to talk bout. who got problem? who ave biznez to share?

finesse.. stop di nize gyal!! only pure vibes round herso..

but if u got some juice, i will gladly listen LOL

all di stars must be aligned right now cuz me no ave no problem!

Ditto for me.

[IrieCat 2]

Okay, Finesse - I have some dirt or a what would you do situation for you -

One of my friends, who I love to death, has gone through a lot in the past few years (break up of her marriage, etc...) - Her drinking has gotten increasingly out of control - I have spoken to her about it in the past, and she got mad at me - It's not fun to go out with her, cause she can't keep it in control, which means we play babysitter -

Now, Sunday afternoon, we were all out watching the band - I knew she was getting drunk, so I left right when the band started - Another friend of ours emailed me - She ended up driving her home because she found her puking in the alley by the restaurant - Not only that, she was hitting on someone's boyfriend, went off on the band, telling the drummer that he's an f****ng whiteboy who knows nothing about soca, was rude to the waitress and bartender,........... and much worse -

What would you do?

I have a friend going through seperation, maybe divorce as well. She is 37, but acting like 22 again. Drinking too much, hanging out with people that have a bad influence on her and just being irresponsible. She is one of my best friends though... I have straight out told her when I think she is being immature and irresponsible. She listened but did nothing about it. Until some of those so called friends came back to bite her in the a$$. They used her to pay for drinks, rides etc....

I would agree with not hanging out with her until she figures it out herself. You were right to leave!! Hopefully she wont end up more self destructing. Maybe you and your other friends should "boycott" her and tell her exactly why you are doing it. Hearing it from everyone may help. She may get mad at you, but you trying to help her out of the situation would be the best thing. You wouldnt want to end up saying "I should have done more"....

[finesse 3]

tell har what an #### she is making of herself and enroll her in AA

Been there, done that - she doesn't listen -

on a serious note, this exact thing happened to my best friend. she got divorced and went through some tough times. then she started drinking more and more and acting so ridiculous. she would get so wasted that she did not remember a thing that she did. last summer, she got really drunk and got into an altercation with her ex-husband over the kids. she stabbed him in the chest and she is now doing 9 years in prison. I just wish there was something more I could have done to intervene on her drinking...

most likely your friend is an alcoholic. and she needs serious professional help..

[dillon 6]

Okay, Finesse - I have some dirt or a what would you do situation for you -

One of my friends, who I love to death, has gone through a lot in the past few years (break up of her marriage, etc...) - Her drinking has gotten increasingly out of control - I have spoken to her about it in the past, and she got mad at me - It's not fun to go out with her, cause she can't keep it in control, which means we play babysitter -

Now, Sunday afternoon, we were all out watching the band - I knew she was getting drunk, so I left right when the band started - Another friend of ours emailed me - She ended up driving her home because she found her puking in the alley by the restaurant - Not only that, she was hitting on someone's boyfriend, went off on the band, telling the drummer that he's an f****ng whiteboy who knows nothing about soca, was rude to the waitress and bartender,........... and much worse -

What would you do?

I would stop going out with her until she gets this under control. If she asks why you don't go out with her be honest and say because she is embarassing.

[^KK^ 3]

Yeah...I wonder where Tevin Campbell has been.

[finesse 3]

Okay, Finesse - I have some dirt or a what would you do situation for you -

One of my friends, who I love to death, has gone through a lot in the past few years (break up of her marriage, etc...) - Her drinking has gotten increasingly out of control - I have spoken to her about it in the past, and she got mad at me - It's not fun to go out with her, cause she can't keep it in control, which means we play babysitter -

Now, Sunday afternoon, we were all out watching the band - I knew she was getting drunk, so I left right when the band started - Another friend of ours emailed me - She ended up driving her home because she found her puking in the alley by the restaurant - Not only that, she was hitting on someone's boyfriend, went off on the band, telling the drummer that he's an f****ng whiteboy who knows nothing about soca, was rude to the waitress and bartender,........... and much worse -

What would you do?

I have a friend going through seperation, maybe divorce as well. She is 37, but acting like 22 again. Drinking too much, hanging out with people that have a bad influence on her and just being irresponsible. She is one of my best friends though... I have straight out told her when I think she is being immature and irresponsible. She listened but did nothing about it. Until some of those so called friends came back to bite her in the a$$. They used her to pay for drinks, rides etc....

I would agree with not hanging out with her until she figures it out herself. You were right to leave!! Hopefully she wont end up more self destructing. Maybe you and your other friends should "boycott" her and tell her exactly why you are doing it. Hearing it from everyone may help. She may get mad at you, but you trying to help her out of the situation would be the best thing. You wouldnt want to end up saying "I should have done more"....

i disagree with this. she needs you now more than ever...

[mrsjeffs 0]

LOL. dont worry ladies , am gonna hook u all up ......GIFT CARDS to all :lol:

[IrieCat 2]

tell har what an #### she is making of herself and enroll her in AA

Been there, done that - she doesn't listen -

on a serious note, this exact thing happened to my best friend. she got divorced and went through some tough times. then she started drinking more and more and acting so ridiculous. she would get so wasted that she did not remember a thing that she did. last summer, she got really drunk and got into an altercation with her ex-husband over the kids. she stabbed him in the chest and she is now doing 9 years in prison. I just wish there was something more I could have done to intervene on her drinking...

most likely your friend is an alcoholic. and she needs serious professional help..

wow

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Tevin looked good to me

he actually looked like he hadn't aged

maybe its my eyes

lol

[newlynluv 0]

hey Yardies... i am finally having a good day yesterday was the freaking worst for me... okay well today i brought my bday shoes for 500 instead of 800 matter of fact instead of 1100 i been stalking these shoes for months!!! then i brought a bcbg maxazria runway dress orginally 400 i paid 70 bucks on top of that i just knew my chunky azz was not going to fit into that dress but i guess the gym paid off because it fits so nice then i went to daffys and brought a pair 2 pairs of capris, a cover up and a maxi dress for 20 bucks okay that's it so far hopefully more good things will happen today...

[dillon 6]

Some little Jamaican guy. He was hanging around the guy with the loud brown pinstripe suit on.

I am cracking up over here! He had dreads right? He is not Jamaican AT ALL! LOL he is actually the pastors son and the guy with the loud brown pinstripe suit is his uncle. Thank you for the laugh today! The blurry picture explains everything!