may mga tao (kaibigan) ba tagalang ganito?

[bevs 0]

hello mga sis ko dito, may e share share ako sa inyo, its all about my long lost friend, tagal ko kasi di sya nakita. we become freinds at first sa work namin, sa isang food chain, dun nag start friendship namin, naging close kami to extend na share nya secret nya sakin share ko rin yung secret ko, well di manan sercet na grabe , yun about sa mga crush lang yata yung noon, but the main point here, we become close to each other. nag ka miss understanding na din kami dati but na fixed na yun, normal nman cguro yung sa mag kaibigan. so matagl din kami di nag kita. then once nag share sya na sakin na may kano sya, matandan, but mabait daw, tinanong ko naman sya, mahal mo ba? sabi nya di nya alam, but the man is willing to marry her, sabi ko paano BF mo, alam nya ba? sabi ko nalng mag ingat kal kasi mga kapalit lahat. yung sabi nya sakin nung umalis ang kano, na miss nya daw, sabi ko, baka mahal mo na. during that time pa alis nadin ako for US. di na tagala kami nag karoon ng communication, hinanap ko sya thru friendster, myspace, at ano pang online dyan, but no luck, till marami narin nangyari sakin at umuwi ako sa pinas, its been last FEb yata nag surf ako dito sa Vj about yung I-94 na di na turn over sa immigration, so yung maraming nag appear, till may e opne ako at binasa, then i seen her name at nag post din sya about cancelling the petition, may picture doon, so sure ako sya yung friend ko na hinahanap, message ko sa sabi ko sabi ko masaya ako atlast na hanap ko din sya , which di ko expect, hinintay ko reply nya but nka ilan beses lang ako nag ka memessage wala pa rin reply, so i try to be frank to her, sabi ko, ano ba problema, mo but di ka mka say ng HI man lang sakin? takot ba? di ko naman ipag sasabi sa mondo yung past mo, may past din naman ko, may ex. di ko na kasi makayanan, kong pag iignore nya kahit nga thank u sa reply na sa post yna di nya masulat, but yung iba meron, ang aking lnag sana, sabihin nya sakin bat nya ako iniiwasan, wala naman ako sakasaln sa kanya, and take note mga sis, taga CDo din sya, at same area na kami nakatira, ko sa baga pa, malapit kami sa isat isa. di ko lang talaga ma intindihan bat may mga taong ganito,

"kong mamabasa mo man to, pasensya na, di kong lang tagala lubos ma isip bakit ka ganyan, ang sweet mo pa naman sakin noon, para tayong mag kapatid, tawag nga nila sa work sa anim kababiyak daw. be frank to me pls, ano ba ginawa ko sayo at ganyan lang ang pag i ignore mo sakin, kaw lang yata ang taong di ko makausap dito sa VJ, naging masaya pa naman ako ng nakita kita sa VJ, yung pala wala ako dapat ipagsaya, kasi parang di rin kita nakita, up to now"

mga sis pasensya na ha, di ko lang tagala matago nararamdaman ko, totoo nga cguro sabi ng mom in law ko " there is no words called "friends" kasi daw yung definition ng friends malalim daw, yung friends daw para nya member ng family mo, na kahit ano mang mangyayari mag e estick yan sa puso mo. so mga sis what u think? do i need to forget this so "called friend" thanks for the time spend for reading this. i just wanted to have some views, to ease what i feel. good luck sa atin lahat

Edited October 17, 2008 by bevs

[lovers_in_love 0]

hello mga sis ko dito, may e share share ako sa inyo, its all about my long lost friend, tagal ko kasi di sya nakita. we become freinds at first sa work namin, sa isang food chain, dun nag start friendship namin, naging close kami to extend na share nya secret nya sakin share ko rin yung secret ko, well di manan sercet na grabe , yun about sa mga crush lang yata yung noon, but the main point here, we become close to each other. nag ka miss understanding na din kami dati but na fixed na yun, normal nman cguro yung sa mag kaibigan. so matagl din kami di nag kita. then once nag share sya na sakin na may kano sya, matandan, but mabait daw, tinanong ko naman sya, mahal mo ba? sabi nya di nya alam, but the man is willing to marry her, sabi ko paano BF mo, alam nya ba? sabi ko nalng mag ingat kal kasi mga kapalit lahat. yung sabi nya sakin nung umalis ang kano, na miss nya daw, sabi ko, baka mahal mo na. during that time pa alis nadin ako for US. di na tagala kami nag karoon ng communication, hinanap ko sya thru friendster, myspace, at ano pang online dyan, but no luck, till marami narin nangyari sakin at umuwi ako sa pinas, its been last FEb yata nag surf ako dito sa Vj about yung I-94 na di na turn over sa immigration, so yung maraming nag appear, till may e opne ako at binasa, then i seen her name at nag post din sya about cancelling the petition, may picture doon, so sure ako sya yung friend ko na hinahanap, message ko sa sabi ko sabi ko masaya ako atlast na hanap ko din sya , which di ko expect, hinintay ko reply nya but nka ilan beses lang ako nag ka memessage wala pa rin reply, so i try to be frank to her, sabi ko, ano ba problema, mo but di ka mka say ng HI man lang sakin? takot ba? di ko naman ipag sasabi sa mondo yung past mo, may past din naman ko, may ex. di ko na kasi makayanan, kong pag iignore nya kahit nga thank u sa reply na sa post yna di nya masulat, but yung iba meron, ang aking lnag sana, sabihin nya sakin bat nya ako iniiwasan, wala naman ako sakasaln sa kanya, and take note mga sis, taga CDo din sya, at same area na kami nakatira, ko sa baga pa, malapit kami sa isat isa. di ko lang talaga ma intindihan bat may mga taong ganito,

"kong mamabasa mo man to, pasensya na, di kong lang tagala lubos ma isip bakit ka ganyan, ang sweet mo pa naman sakin noon, para tayong mag kapatid, tawag nga nila sa work sa anim kababiyak daw. be frank to me pls, ano ba ginawa ko sayo at ganyan lang ang pag i ignore mo sakin, kaw lang yata ang taong di ko makausap dito sa VJ, naging masaya pa naman ako ng nakita kita sa VJ, yung pala wala ako dapat ipagsaya, kasi parang di rin kita nakita, up to now"

mga sis pasensya na ha, di ko lang tagala matago nararamdaman ko, totoo nga cguro sabi ng mom in law ko " there is no words called "friends" kasi daw yung definition ng friends malalim daw, yung friends daw para nya member ng family mo, na kahit ano mang mangyayari mag e estick yan sa puso mo. so mga sis what u think? do i need to forget this so "called friend" thanks for the time spend for reading this. i just wanted to have some views, to ease what i feel. good luck sa atin lahat

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First of all Dhai. You have such a pretty smile. Gurl, all I can say about this is that You need to talk to her as in face to face. Maybe may nasabi ka before that hurts her feelings. Then you were friends before so meaning you know and understand each other so Baka may mis-understanding lang kau dba? talk to her dhai. Then if ever she will say yousaid taht..or did this...if you want to bringher back as your friend you are willing to forget and forgive. God Bless you and your family..Good Luck I am hoping you can say hi or hello to each other. Good luck on our VJ.

[bevs 0]

hello mga sis ko dito, may e share share ako sa inyo, its all about my long lost friend, tagal ko kasi di sya nakita. we become freinds at first sa work namin, sa isang food chain, dun nag start friendship namin, naging close kami to extend na share nya secret nya sakin share ko rin yung secret ko, well di manan sercet na grabe , yun about sa mga crush lang yata yung noon, but the main point here, we become close to each other. nag ka miss understanding na din kami dati but na fixed na yun, normal nman cguro yung sa mag kaibigan. so matagl din kami di nag kita. then once nag share sya na sakin na may kano sya, matandan, but mabait daw, tinanong ko naman sya, mahal mo ba? sabi nya di nya alam, but the man is willing to marry her, sabi ko paano BF mo, alam nya ba? sabi ko nalng mag ingat kal kasi mga kapalit lahat. yung sabi nya sakin nung umalis ang kano, na miss nya daw, sabi ko, baka mahal mo na. during that time pa alis nadin ako for US. di na tagala kami nag karoon ng communication, hinanap ko sya thru friendster, myspace, at ano pang online dyan, but no luck, till marami narin nangyari sakin at umuwi ako sa pinas, its been last FEb yata nag surf ako dito sa Vj about yung I-94 na di na turn over sa immigration, so yung maraming nag appear, till may e opne ako at binasa, then i seen her name at nag post din sya about cancelling the petition, may picture doon, so sure ako sya yung friend ko na hinahanap, message ko sa sabi ko sabi ko masaya ako atlast na hanap ko din sya , which di ko expect, hinintay ko reply nya but nka ilan beses lang ako nag ka memessage wala pa rin reply, so i try to be frank to her, sabi ko, ano ba problema, mo but di ka mka say ng HI man lang sakin? takot ba? di ko naman ipag sasabi sa mondo yung past mo, may past din naman ko, may ex. di ko na kasi makayanan, kong pag iignore nya kahit nga thank u sa reply na sa post yna di nya masulat, but yung iba meron, ang aking lnag sana, sabihin nya sakin bat nya ako iniiwasan, wala naman ako sakasaln sa kanya, and take note mga sis, taga CDo din sya, at same area na kami nakatira, ko sa baga pa, malapit kami sa isat isa. di ko lang talaga ma intindihan bat may mga taong ganito,

"kong mamabasa mo man to, pasensya na, di kong lang tagala lubos ma isip bakit ka ganyan, ang sweet mo pa naman sakin noon, para tayong mag kapatid, tawag nga nila sa work sa anim kababiyak daw. be frank to me pls, ano ba ginawa ko sayo at ganyan lang ang pag i ignore mo sakin, kaw lang yata ang taong di ko makausap dito sa VJ, naging masaya pa naman ako ng nakita kita sa VJ, yung pala wala ako dapat ipagsaya, kasi parang di rin kita nakita, up to now"

mga sis pasensya na ha, di ko lang tagala matago nararamdaman ko, totoo nga cguro sabi ng mom in law ko " there is no words called "friends" kasi daw yung definition ng friends malalim daw, yung friends daw para nya member ng family mo, na kahit ano mang mangyayari mag e estick yan sa puso mo. so mga sis what u think? do i need to forget this so "called friend" thanks for the time spend for reading this. i just wanted to have some views, to ease what i feel. good luck sa atin lahat

First of all Dhai. You have such a pretty smile. Gurl, all I can say about this is that You need to talk to her as in face to face. Maybe may nasabi ka before that hurts her feelings. Then you were friends before so meaning you know and understand each other so Baka may mis-understanding lang kau dba? talk to her dhai. Then if ever she will say yousaid taht..or did this...if you want to bringher back as your friend you are willing to forget and forgive. God Bless you and your family..Good Luck I am hoping you can say hi or hello to each other. Good luck on our VJ.

i understand, but how can i talk to someone face to face, na even in a mail di nga sya nag rereply? face to face pa kaya? i will always be happy to see her again, but shes seem not interested, but well, i wont force her, i got lots of so called friends here. kong may nasabi man akong masama sa kanya, wala na nun kasi we able to fixed everything before i left US before, it was 5 yrs ago. if that is her reason, its not valid at all. thanks sa reply dhai!

Edited October 17, 2008 by bevs

[PingLocalHostess 1]

If you ask me, ill just ignore her. If she wants to talk to you, she'll come to you. You already made an effort to contact her.

[EMOTION 0]

If you ask me, ill just ignore her. If she wants to talk to you, she'll come to you. You already made an effort to contact her.

BEBS, in this world we have rich when it come to friends but really hard to fine one best friend

you try to communicate but she choice not!!!!! may be she has a personal reason just ignore it!!!!!

you have best for lifetime ALEX your life and happiness god luck.....

[rheanick 42]

Mahirap hanapin ang taong ayaw magpahanap. Friendship tp sustain is aa give and take thing. Dont waste your efforts and energy. Ikaw lang ang mahihirap.

[bevs 0]

to my sis here, thank u for giving me such a waking up advice. thank u, it just so hard to think that our good friendship will end cuz of unexplainable reasons. but yeah, i will IGNORE HER.i just really value true friend, thats why i open it here for u guys to help me realize the right thing. good luck to all and GOD bless us. Edited October 17, 2008 by bevs

[Gumbolette 58]

Bevs, You tried what you can do, and I guess that was enough, if she has a problem with you she should do what you did towards her. In this world, some people will just be there when they need you, when they need to console to you, but time comes that they will completely forget about you. Come'on girl, you have a lot of reasons to just erase her too from your memory. you have wonderful circle of friends

[bevs 0]

Bevs, You tried what you can do, and I guess that was enough, if she has a problem with you she should do what you did towards her. In this world, some people will just be there when they need you, when they need to console to you, but time comes that they will completely forget about you. Come'on girl, you have a lot of reasons to just erase her too from your memory. you have wonderful circle of friends

you are right here sis, i already tried the best i could to able to reach her, but yeah some people does change alot, better if they change for a better person, but they change for the worst person they are. and in this part, true color appear. now i know who are my true friends and who are my acted friends. well that type of woman will easily be forget. they are alot of friends here at VJ, and actually i just hang out of one of them earlier. when u lost someone, there will always a replacement. thank u sis for the words.

[Gumbolette 58]

Bevs, You tried what you can do, and I guess that was enough, if she has a problem with you she should do what you did towards her. In this world, some people will just be there when they need you, when they need to console to you, but time comes that they will completely forget about you. Come'on girl, you have a lot of reasons to just erase her too from your memory. you have wonderful circle of friends

you are right here sis, i already tried the best i could to able to reach her, but yeah some people does change alot, better if they change for a better person, but they change for the worst person they are. and in this part, true color appear. now i know who are my true friends and who are my acted friends. well that type of woman will easily be forget. they are alot of friends here at VJ, and actually i just hang out of one of them earlier. when u lost someone, there will always a replacement. thank u sis for the words.

Oh not a problem. I once had a experience too like this, but because of her filthy attitude, whop!,split seconds she is noone to me.I have true friends.

Myself does have a lot of friends, but only few are true friends. These are the people we have to treasure, that no matter what happen, your friendship should be mutualism.

That's nice to know that some of the members here in VJ really see each other, if only there would be another chance to see others , that would be really nice for me. We can make more friends not only virtually but also personally.

[mergee 0]

hi bevs!!! =) its ok , u already made an effort.. she really has a personal reason u have lots of friends here =) i wish a very good news of ur son's visa next week=)

hi bevs!!! =) its ok , u already made an effort.. she really has a personal reason u have lots of friends here =) i wish a very good news of ur son's visa next week=)

[amerasianlove 0]

hay naku bevs! I can relate to your situation,you made an effort to get in touch with her, pause for awhile now and

hoping soon she will reply back to you.

Nakakasama lang kasi ng loob yung ganyan nag take ka ng effort to talk with them tapos wala mang reply,

nakakasakit ng pride hehe.

Im sure u got tons of friends out there....not ur lost my dear.

STAY PRETTY!!

[bevs 0]

Bevs, You tried what you can do, and I guess that was enough, if she has a problem with you she should do what you did towards her. In this world, some people will just be there when they need you, when they need to console to you, but time comes that they will completely forget about you. Come'on girl, you have a lot of reasons to just erase her too from your memory. you have wonderful circle of friends

you are right here sis, i already tried the best i could to able to reach her, but yeah some people does change alot, better if they change for a better person, but they change for the worst person they are. and in this part, true color appear. now i know who are my true friends and who are my acted friends. well that type of woman will easily be forget. they are alot of friends here at VJ, and actually i just hang out of one of them earlier. when u lost someone, there will always a replacement. thank u sis for the words.

Oh not a problem. I once had a experience too like this, but because of her filthy attitude, whop!,split seconds she is noone to me.I have true friends.

Myself does have a lot of friends, but only few are true friends. These are the people we have to treasure, that no matter what happen, your friendship should be mutualism.

That's nice to know that some of the members here in VJ really see each other, if only there would be another chance to see others , that would be really nice for me. We can make more friends not only virtually but also personally.

exactly. really i easily get friends, maybe cuz im a jolly person, i laugh loud , i cry for them i scream , i fight for my friends and i value them bring me anywhere u be shocked that even in manila, i met one of my co worker before, yet i remember her. ur right sis that only few are true. im the only child, maybe the reason why i love to have many friends as i can keep. im really longging for someone to be with to be my sister.

i hope all of us here are few steps away form each other only, by that we will all have the good time together. i also love to met more of our VJ family here. i know there alot who is nice like u, but there is also some who is nevermind . but really mga sis sayang din nun. but as what u here been said, marami pa dyan ma mas deserving

Edited October 17, 2008 by bevs

[RonMay 1]

hala aha sa cdo kay atong sulungon! JOKE...

anyways i think time change in a way. we never know what happened between those time na you werent there and or maybe she's not ready yet to face and talk to you about this personal matters... time will come na when she's ready, she'll do the first move... sagdi sa sya karon...

taga xu ka? familiar pod imo face hahah

[JamesRachel 0]

Bevs, You tried what you can do, and I guess that was enough, if she has a problem with you she should do what you did towards her. In this world, some people will just be there when they need you, when they need to console to you, but time comes that they will completely forget about you. Come'on girl, you have a lot of reasons to just erase her too from your memory. you have wonderful circle of friends

you are right here sis, i already tried the best i could to able to reach her, but yeah some people does change alot, better if they change for a better person, but they change for the worst person they are. and in this part, true color appear. now i know who are my true friends and who are my acted friends. well that type of woman will easily be forget. they are alot of friends here at VJ, and actually i just hang out of one of them earlier. when u lost someone, there will always a replacement. thank u sis for the words.

Bevs, sometimes you dont easy to conclude someone why she not reply you back yet in many times you sent her a messages, maybe she was busy or didnt notice your messages yet. I know how hard you to reach her to contact specially for the long lost friend. I am a same boat to you too but i just wait the perfect time. I guess she doenst felt bad at you maybe she was busy or not notice yet. If she was forget you then forget her too but treasure the good moment between you and her in the past. I guess she wasnt really your good friend it she notice or read your messages already maybe she try to forget you and dont want to have a communication of you again. Yes, you can have a bunch of friend anywhere but the true friend is stay with you no matter how far both each other. Sometimes we thought that co`z our friend not communicate us they forget us already but i believe they doesnt forget us. Just wait the perfect time she will notice your message and contact you back, most of all to cross your both path to see each other again. Good Luck, Sis.