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hi guys,

im feeling kinda sad.. although expected my Mom got denied and im going to be motherless in my wedding day.. i know some can relate to my sentiments here im very close to her.. my faince actually made a letter to the consul that says we are taking responsibilty of her stay here for 2 weeks only 2 weeks.. besides she got work and my siblings to aattend to.. im her first born and im missing my mommy :crying:

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Girl, I know how you feel.. Just do not know how to comfort you..

Anyway, best wishes.. I know your mom is happy because you are getting married with the person you love most.. (F)


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girl, I'm sorry that your mom got denied...

I know how you feel, my mom was not present during my big day too :(

but don't worry.. invite your vj friends, you will feel better :star:

Best wishes :)

congratulations

Edited by I luv my chappara

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Oh my!

I've been there and i cry a bucket during the vow.

(Imagine my mother was just a 7km. away from the city hall and she did not make it, long story but she did not intend not to attend, it was just like we need to be married that Monday morning because local city Mayor only officiates wedding every Monday, my husband will fly back Tuesday of next week so well it's a wedding rush!)

I also wasn't able to wear my gown, shoes..ahh everything!

You'll get through it, I promise. Don't stress yourself much about it, things will fall into place and for sure your Mom is the happiest person on earth during your wedding day!

hi guys,

im feeling kinda sad.. although expected my Mom got denied and im going to be motherless in my wedding day.. i know some can relate to my sentiments here im very close to her.. my faince actually made a letter to the consul that says we are taking responsibilty of her stay here for 2 weeks only 2 weeks.. besides she got work and my siblings to aattend to.. im her first born and im missing my mommy :crying:

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This is the actual scene during my wedding. We don't even have camera man to take our pics and so my husband called everyone there "my family".

My auntie happened to be at the city office because there was a Teacher's Convention, thanks God there's at least one member of the family!

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:crying: :crying: :crying:

thanks girls.. i hopei can get through it.. we know we have plans of us getting married in the ohilippines when we get back for the sake of our family but of course thinks can change like we are saving for a house, what if ill get pregnant? we have to allot monies instead not for the wedding but for our future family.

naiiyak talga ako.. pero i was like the type who is not really showy with my emotions with my parents.. my dad cried when he last called, so i cant help it but to cry to but i hid the tone so he wont get overwhelmed and cry the whole minutes of his call.. he only needed one reassurance he needs to hear these words: "WALANG PROBLEMA, OK LAHAT MBABAIT SILA LAHAT SAKIN DITO" and i did tell him those words so he finally found his relief.. im sure it s hard for a macho guy like my dad to cry but he cant help it.. im his unica hija..and im getting married with a whetto (hehehhehehehe) but he trusts mike..

i miss pinas, my brothers, :crying: :crying: :crying:

This is the actual scene during my wedding. We don't even have camera man to take our pics and so my husband called everyone there "my family".

My auntie happened to be at the city office because there was a Teacher's Convention, thanks God there's at least one member of the family!

uu nga sis, kasad naman la yung parents mo.. im sure ill get over it oh yeah.. pero while thinking about it... waaaaaa :crying:


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Sorry to hear that.

I can sympathize with you girl. I miss my mother/my parents too. :(

But best wishes and Congratulations in-advance. :)

hi guys,

im feeling kinda sad.. although expected my Mom got denied and im going to be motherless in my wedding day.. i know some can relate to my sentiments here im very close to her.. my faince actually made a letter to the consul that says we are taking responsibilty of her stay here for 2 weeks only 2 weeks.. besides she got work and my siblings to aattend to.. im her first born and im missing my mommy :crying:

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Sorry to hear that.

I can sympathize with you girl. I miss my mother/my parents too. :(

But best wishes and Congratulations in-advance.

:)

Thank you shape :yes: i was hoping i can everyone here fellas in VJ for my wedding, unfortuntely we only have a small space and a budget that can only include family...sensiysa na po about that.. still thanks for the greetings!

girl, I'm sorry that your mom got denied...

I know how you feel, my mom was not present during my big day too :(

but don't worry.. invite your vj friends, you will feel better :star:

Best wishes :)

congratulations

thank you primie, love the dress.. my theme is red too..:D as in black magic red heheheh:D


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Sorry to hear that.

I can sympathize with you girl. I miss my mother/my parents too. :(

But best wishes and Congratulations in-advance.

:)

Thank you shape :yes: i was hoping i can everyone here fellas in VJ for my wedding, unfortuntely we only have a small space and a budget that can only include family...sensiysa na po about that.. still thanks for the greetings!

Lol. That's okay. Thank you though for having thoughts of inviting us. hehehe.

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Girl... sorry about this. Just keep the positive attitude! K? ang a BIG congratulations... I'm so happy for you!

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I'm sorry that your Mom couldn't make it. But I'm sure she will want you to be the happiest and prettiest person your wedding day. Big Congratulations!!! :thumbs::thumbs::thumbs:


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Best wishes Jomay I am happy for you. Ingat.


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