QUESTION

[ilovemaya 0]

got another question...

so i, as beneficiary am tryin to do the paperwork sinece my fiance is just not good with paperwork, the thing is though, that if i write for example Declaration of how we met, it will be obvious that it is not his words. If on the other hand i write all of it n then just send it to him so he can put it in his words....that would take FOREVER, cuz my honey is just unreliable in some things....

what should i do now, how should i get this done?Would it be too bad if i do it myself n let him just sign it?..even though it will be obvious that it is not his words?

any sugestions?

THANKS!!

[Converse34 1]

That's why I did. My husband wouldn't know where to begin with all the paperwork. So I filled it all out, including the letter of intent and then I just told him where and what to sign. Our intent letters were almost indentical - we had no issues.

[~Laura and Nick~ 5]

That's why I did. My husband wouldn't know where to begin with all the paperwork. So I filled it all out, including the letter of intent and then I just told him where and what to sign. Our intent letters were almost indentical - we had no issues.

Is there anyway you can have your husband type out how you guys met and mail it to him and you just type in the spot his words?

Or you could just write it as if you were him.

[ilovemaya 0]

That's why I did. My husband wouldn't know where to begin with all the paperwork. So I filled it all out, including the letter of intent and then I just told him where and what to sign. Our intent letters were almost indentical - we had no issues.

Is there anyway you can have your husband type out how you guys met and mail it to him and you just type in the spot his words?

Or you could just write it as if you were him.

....yeah, thinking about this, i may just let him write how we met n then use some of his words, the way he says it...god it will take forever to get one letter out of him though....

Edited January 9, 2008 by ilovemaya

[~Laura and Nick~ 5]

That's why I did. My husband wouldn't know where to begin with all the paperwork. So I filled it all out, including the letter of intent and then I just told him where and what to sign. Our intent letters were almost indentical - we had no issues.

Is there anyway you can have your husband type out how you guys met and mail it to him and you just type in the spot his words?

Or you could just write it as if you were him.

....yeah, thinking about this, i may just let him write how we met n then use some of his words, the way he says it...god it will take forever to get one letter out of him though....

not even by email or on MSN? It doesn't have to be a letter.

Just have him state how you met and then the first time you met in person. He could also talk briefly about other visits after that.

It doesn't have to be a huge long letter.