My kids, my mom and I arrived at the embassy early but the security informed us that we could not wait outside so we should come back 15mins before our interview time. We walked over the street and spent some time in Sandton Mall. At 12:45 we went back to the embassy where they checked our names off a list and waited to be called.
Not long after, we went inside and through security. We had left all our electronics in the car so there was no need to store anything. We then went through to a second building where our passports were checked and then asked to wait. There were three other families all with kids which eased my nerves a little.
After maybe 15mins I was called to a window where they took all my forms, documents, proof, passports etc. I then had to pay the fee and have my fingerprints taken.
After about an hour we were called to another window for our interview. The interviewer was very friendly and after greeting us I asked if the kids could sit with my mom and he said that was fine. He then asked a few questions...
1. When did we meet?
2. Where did we meet?
3. When we met in person?
4. Have I met his family?
5. What does he do for a living?
The questions were asked as part of a back and forth conversation and didn't feel like an interview at all. After that he said everything looks good and don't see any issues but that I have to wait a few days for an email with further instructions. He kept our passports and gave me a paper detailing how to arrange for our passports to be couriered to Cape Town.
I was super nervous about the kids being there and keeping them quiet and entertained but my mom was allowed with me to help with the kids while I was busy. I also brought activity books to keep them occupied.
All in all it was very pleasant experience and not nearly as bad as I had imagined.