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Can an individual marry someone else other than the petitioner of a Fiancé Visa? The US fiancé died before the marriage could take place although she was already here. She was here 4 weeks and he died of a heart attack. Does she need to go back home and start all over again with someone else?

I will answer ur questions honestly based on my own experience. I met my husband online in 2003 and we chatted everyday for 3 long years before he finally came to the Philippines to met me in person. We are now happilly married for almost 4 years with a 2 yr. old baby plus my 2 kids.
To answer ur questions:
1. Will it work? Yes but it will all depends to both of u if uare willing to do whatever it takes to make ur relationship works.
2. Yes..just make urself busy so u won't get homesick. Do volunteering, Join organizations etc. etc.
3.Yes the same thing if u were to ask will u love him for the rest of his life? Are u willing to commit urself into him and to ur marriage. Marriage is not all a bed of roses..there are all the time UPS and DOWNS...it's a matter of choice if u are willing to live with him in good and in bad, for better or for worst. We all need to work in our marriage.
I admit we had so many trials during the first year of marriage(adjustment period) but I am thankful to God my husband is just being soooo patient and understanding (despite of me having 2 kids of my own).
4.Not exactly 100 %. U will never know the true color of a person till u live with him. Like I said ask urself the same question. Will ur husband feels the same way u do? Will u not change and show ur real self when ur together by then? When i came here 4 yrs. ago i have no relatives just myself and had to leave my family and my 2 kids to be with my husband.
No matter what,,we always put or best foot forward when we are in the dating or getting to know each other stage.But real color comes out when u live with each other. But i learned a lot. When u commit ur self to ur marriage and willing to compromise and put ur best effort on it..then there is nothing impossible. A happy marriage is not all about money.
Marriage is not all about happiness,,it's also about sacrifice, patience, believing and FAITH in him is the most important.
I tell u my hubby was unemployed for more than 16 months and was in the middle of petitioning my 2 kids when he lost his job.. I was not working then. But LOVE conquers all.. God made a way. I got a good job now(working at the hsptal-) and my 2 kids are finally here with us.
Believe in HIM and He will find a way.

I will answer ur questions honestly based on my own experience. I met my husband online in 2003 and we chatted everyday for 3 long years before he finally came to the Philippines to met me in person. We are now happilly married for almost 4 years with a 2 yr. old baby plus my 2 kids.
To answer ur questions:
1. Will it work? Yes but it will all depends to both of u if uare willing to do whatever it takes to make ur relationship works.
2. Yes..just make urself busy so u won't get homesick. Do volunteering, Join organizations etc. etc.
3.Yes the same thing if u were to ask will u love him for the rest of his life? Are u willing to commit urself into him and to ur marriage. Marriage is not all a bed of roses..there are all the time UPS and DOWNS...it's a matter of choice if u are willing to live with him in good and in bad, for better or for worst. We all need to work in our marriage.
I admit we had so many trials during the first year of marriage(adjustment period) but I am thankful to God my husband is just being soooo patient and understanding (despite of me having 2 kids of my own).
4.Not exactly 100 %. U will never know the true color of a person till u live with him. Like I said ask urself the same question. Will ur husband feels the same way u do? Will u not change and show ur real self when ur together by then? When i came here 4 yrs. ago i have no relatives just myself and had to leave my family and my 2 kids to be with my husband.
No matter what,,we always put or best foot forward when we are in the dating or getting to know each other stage.But real color comes out when u live with each other. But i learned a lot. When u commit ur self to ur marriage and willing to compromise and put ur best effort on it..then there is nothing impossible. A happy marriage is not all about money.
Marriage is not all about happiness,,it's also about sacrifice, patience, believing and FAITH in him is the most important.
I tell u my hubby was unemployed for more than 16 months and was in the middle of petitioning my 2 kids when he lost his job.. I was not working then. But LOVE conquers all.. God made a way. I got a good job now(working at the hsptal-) and my 2 kids are finally here with us.
Believe in HIM and He will find a way.

Sorry to hear that. We filipinas are brought that way"to help our family" but with some limitation of course. If u are sending her family that much money every month then ur wife needs to understand that u are building ur own family too which shud be her priority. I am sending my family every month but only a certain amount..even now that I am working and making my own..my family still gets the same amount each month. Let them know that money here don't grow on trees. Teach them how to fish.