popcorn1012

Hi, I was just passing through and wanted to say hello. I am one of the founding ppl on this forum and really have not been on for a very long time. Wish you all the very best and speedy processing!

After all the talks, warnings and pre testing the child I happened to be married to failed the ganja test and of course is banned for three years. The situation from 7 years ago did come up but was irrelavent due to his positive test results. My husband doesn't expect me to sacrifice any more time with his dum a$$ and I've pretty much decided that he's not worth it and I should move on. If I wasn't worth it to him I don't see how he should be worth it to me especially after all this time of being separated.

Not sure yet if I'll file for divorce, but I'm definitely moving on. If three years goes by and I haven't found someone else I want to be married to then I will support him when he returns to the embassy but I can't see myself being in a relationship with someone so immature and selfish. I'll file for divorce then. For now I'm just focusing on me and my goals until I'm ready to start dating again maybe sometime next year.

I figured if I could be another example to deter a stubborn spouse I should do it. Unfortunately for me no matter how many stories I shared with him he could not take heed but rather learn the hard way.

Congratulations on all the new approvals and good luck for all the interviews coming up. I'm pulling for all of you.

Empress my prayers go out to you. Everything happens for a reason and I pray that no matter what decision you are called to make (whether you wait things out with him or you move on) you find the happiness you deserve.

My dear my prayers go out for you....... just pray that God will show you what direction to go!

mi woulden vex cuz him knoa sey him blaze an im nuh tell yuh a ting...juss let yuh gwaan fret and pray dat him likkle confessian tuh 7 year ago ting nuh stop oonu progress. BC...Mi knoa yuh vex tuh raass...why him neva chat wan next yaardie fe knoa ah nuh joke ting? CHA!!!!!!

Qwestian fe hennybady...whaa mek dem nuh deny visa agen afta tree year time cuz dem knoa sey dem did ban fe drug use before? If dem ban sum fe eva using ganja...ow yuh fe knoa yuh eva get tru when de ban did lift? Dem require completian of some AA class are sumting?

Yea..u an u patios bwoy..ehehee..yeah mi hear dem affi test every 3 mths fi 9ths..dem ban u fi 3yrs cause dem seh it tek dat long fi "rehab"

Ah whaa? Ie nuh sell off? kikikiki

Laaawwwdddd LMAO! Yuh sell awf like beef an cheese patty wid bax juice an chips yuh hear?

et me get back to writing this paper before the instructor fail mi rass )

HHHEEEYYYYY PAPCAWN

can you have the baby on the 10th - thats my birthday!

Have not been on the site in ages but just wanted to say hi to everyone and hope that the fast proceesing fairy will pick up your application!

Hey guys i know its been a million years since i have been on.

Hey Popcorn It's good to see you.

Who's anniversary is next????

DECEMBER 11 will be 2 years for me and Tony

DEC. 11 will make 1 year for me and richie

Hey guys i know its been a million years since i have been on. I can only hope that all is well with everyone. We are here still waiting on Richie to hear something from immigration since we went for his interview in aug. I guess the name check is still pending. Just popped in to say hi...................

Hey guys just popped in for a really quick second. Jay is 10 months now and tearing everything down and i am so happy that he is because these past few weeks have certainly been a trial. me, richie and jay spent the weekend from peditrician to one hospital to the next. please pray for my family because i am truly being tested right now.

lovew you guys and miss you all so much!

I can honestly say that it does not pay to stay away from this place..... I have so much reading and catching up to do i feel like i was out from school. i can only pray that everyone is okay.

i wanted to come on and post our AOS interview.

we got to the Garden City location at around 12:35pm and was called at around 1:25 (our appointment was for 1) we met wit the great guy who joked about how sure he was than jay was richie's but they may have to do a paternity test on me because jay looks exactly like his dad and not a bit like me. he asked me what was richies parents names but i forgot what his mothers name was so richie told him about the fact that he mother died since he was 9. then some other little questions were asked like where i worked and what i did and why richie went to jamaica the other day. the guy said everything was fine but the FBI name check is still pending but that should come through in about 1-4 months if all goes well within the world. All in all things are good so far.

Congrats on the wedding, kimlbs!

hey guys, here in jamaica getting ready to bury my grandmother.... wow this all feels so surreal. i keep looking around and remembering all these little things we used to do together. do let anytime be missed that you could be spending with the ones you love.... i missed the woman who i grew up with until i started college by one day and its killing me inside.

thnak u all for your kind and enouraging words.

please keep my family in your prayes as my grandmother passed away last friday night. I was at work with my bags packed ready to come to jamaica to come see her. i grew up with her so this is really hard but just please pray for my family

WELCOME Mindy (Mango)!

Well since we have two mindys i hope u wont mind me calling you mango. even though i dont eat mangoes much since i gave birth(go figure- and my 9month old is in jamaica now eating mangoes out of season.

if i can be of any help just drop me a line.....

The other two threads were soooo popular they actually slowed the board down! Here is part 3, enjoy!

Previous thread location: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=41

We did it again

Welcome to our new home

i miss my boys! i especially miss Jayden...... i have to wait until the end of the month to see them both. I told my husband to send jayden back now!

Bleh! NO CSC for us! We got our interview letter today. We are scheduled for September 7, 2006. Please keep us in your prayers. We give thanks for the swift date.

It will be fine and over in no time!

Although this is a while away.... i was thinking of celbrating our birthdays/anniversary in Puerto Rico and then we could go to Tortola (about 30 minutes away) and see his two brothers. this is not until december but i really wanted to make this special for for both of us as we did not get to have a honeymoon so now i am just wondering how best to do this. has anyone been to PR and what places are good to stay. I was there once put i only spent a day and the hotel was #######. but it was just like 5 minutes from the airport and i know those dont show the true beauty of the island.

one more question why am i listed as an anonymous user in this toipc?

this question goes out to those who have already done their AOS interview..............

What where the questions you were asked? and what was some of the other proof of relationship you brought with you/(outisde of what was on the list).

i am just a bit worried because there are no bills or rent coming in our names and i dont want it to seem that it is not a legitimate relationship.

That's my issue too - absolutely NO bills in both our names (and I don't think a magazine subscription counts). We're going to bank this week to add him to account and change my last name on it as well. I hope that will suffice (both our names on bank account). Honestly Papcawn I don't think you have a worry cause you two had Jay and that should be more than enough proof of a bonafide relationship

Hey everyone!

I hope you all had a wonderful weekend

It was hotter than Saudi Arabia so all I did was clean and sweat buckets

Guys thanks for your reassuring words. I have been so worried since my friend and his wife were reqquired to do a second interview. i should be starting a new job around the time of the interview and i just feel lik eeverything is hitting at once.

Married life is great! I can't remember when I have ever been so happy. We laugh and play together and tangle are body together as we talk about life into the late hours. Rohan is a wonderful man. I know how all the jokes on TV go, the way they joke on and refer to married couples.. but I want my marriage to remain this way and better for ever. Me and Rohan had an argument the other day. It was terrible. I hate arguing. I got upset and did what I was taught in pre marriagecounseling not to do, went to bed upset and slept on the couch (since he went to bed first). He woke me up as the sun was coming up with a bible in his hand, and held my hand, and said "Baby, its been a little while since we had devotion, and the argument was just the enemy". I never want to argue again, but I know disagreements are inevitable.

QUESTION (married)

Do you guys have any strategy when dealing with disagreements, any rules?

How do you make up?

Who normally appologize first or do you both take the wrong?

What do you do when you feel you are heading for an argument to diffuse the situation?

Is it just some Jamaican men or do all seem to be a little hard-headed- meaning when they belive something, no matter how much you prove it is not-so, they still have trouble bending..and how do you cope?

I am just looking to take some sucessful strategies, to add to my own. THANKS

I am REALLY hard headed so i never end up apologizing first. which is bad but i am so into whatever i am standing up i cant think of saying sorry. when we argue we both act like we just will never make up again until we get to bed because we try to make up before we go to sleep.

We just got approved -- NO INTERVIEW!! Can you all see me dancing?!?!?!?!?!? :dance:

Application Type: I485 , Application to Register Permanent Residence or

to Adjust Status

Current Status:

On July 11, 2006, after approving your application, we ordered you a

new card. Your card will be mailed to you as soon as it is ready.

WOW!!!!!

this is such great news. congrats girl!

this question goes out to those who have already done their AOS interview..............

What where the questions you were asked? and what was some of the other proof of relationship you brought with you/(outisde of what was on the list).

i am just a bit worried because there are no bills or rent coming in our names and i dont want it to seem that it is not a legitimate relationship.

this question goes out to those who have already done their AOS interview..............

What where the questions you were asked? and what was some of the other proof of relationship you brought with you/(outisde of what was on the list).

EAD approved today!

Just got two emails!

:dance:

Now he can start working and taking care of me

I was just updating his resume too...now time to register for weekend or night GED classes

congrats !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Didn't we just have a weekend???

well since the boys are away..... i think i will be going out with the girls this weekend

You go and rip up the town.....you sure deserve it!!

Im going to party!!!! like its my birthday

Our EAD case was touched today so I hope that means an approval soon.

What's taking them so long??? I bet this was the "touch" for the card being printed....

I hope so...anyone have plans this weekend?

well since the boys are away..... i think i will be going out with the girls this weekend

Hello everyone

I hope you all had a great 4th of July. We had a great time and I took nuff pictures for our AOS interview

Congrats and Good Luck:

- Darlene on sending off K1

- Kim on interview at Kingston

Hey Dee are you getting ready for your interview?

Papcawn love the pics in Yahoo

Mindy - where are your photos???

Our EAD case was touched today so I hope that means an approval soon.

dont worry your approval is coming...... i saw it in my crystal ball.

Anybody else scared out there mind because of the AOS interview...

Michele -

We went to Taste of Chicago on Saturday -- it was about 90 degrees. We got in and out pretty fast. I tried the alligator -- Roy wouldn't even look at it. He said, "You know they eat people" It was pretty funny. He told me I needed to brush my teeth to get rid of the alligator taste before he would come near me

WOW your a brave one! i would mot have been able to eat that...... the last time richie ate pork he had to hold me down just to get a kiss from me...

How did it taste ?

just stopped in to say hello! Gotta run back to get the baba ready for jayden.

ohhh i added a pic of jayden that i took this morning (in yahoo groups)