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MikeandJaq

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  1. Hi please pm your number let me call u now I hope I can help you..I'm filipina po..

    Hello Everyone,

    Though I can share our experience here in America with my 2 young kids against my horrible life with my husband. We move here last year September 2010. I married to a US citizen guy and we have son which is 7 years old now and I have my own daugther before I marry him which is 9 years old now. It takes like 4 years the process of our Visa due to denial and re process again. I moved here with my 2 young kids knowing that life in america with him is heaven and a nice future to my children. I am wrong!! our life comes out Hell since we got here. My husband is way to old to me for like 20 years gap,. He is so emotionally abusive person..everytime he comes home we end up fighting, he love yelling at me infront of my children we started in a little conversation and it end up big because he never listen and he thinks whatever he decide is right and am always end up wrong. He is controlling me for my decision and for all my life. He dont like me having asian friend, he dont like me being exposed, he dont like me to have my freedom. He said that whatever he wants me to do I have to do it. He is so greedy, money and food. If he leave home and give me 20bucks when he comes back he expected reciept or prove what i spent on the money, I cannot even get a job because he dont want me to get a job he said I should only take care of him and the kids and thats all.

    I stand behind him on all his decisions in a few months eventhought I am not happy..my first christmas here in America is full of tears we didnt celebrate the christmas because he is not in the mood to do. We went to church but he left us bcoz his dog jump out to his car and that we have to walk in a white snow freezing christmas eve carrying my 2 kids to get back home.

    After a months behind his back-- finally stand on my feet! A friend of mine sponsor me to get to school nursing aid just to be able to handle myself and get a better job and not such to depend on him..I told him about my plan he wasnt happy because he said that my salary in nursing aid a week is enough to pay the taxes and babysitters to my kids.

    My children is afraid of him ( his own son,and my daughter) there is no moment that I never cried of what he did to me, he is emotionally abusive to me..he yelled and embarrashed me infront of people even we go shopping our food he yelled to me if i cannot hear what he said. God Knows I felt so much pain beside him.

    2 days ago, I called his phone, let him know that I got a call from school about my daughter personal problem which I think my daughter is affected of what is happening to our life here, my daughter is begging me to go back to Philippines where they are happy and they are not happy here. Anyway, the school called me to schedule a meeting regarding my daughter and I told him and I said I felt sad because I blame to him what is going on and I ask him if he can do it or he cares for the family then i ask him to change his attitude and show a little respect to me or stop yelling at me infront for the children I said to him if he wont change then its better for us to go back To Philippines where we are happy and my childrens. He said to me and he work his #### to feed us and I have the nerve to blame all this to him. I just ask him to change his nasty attitude but he dont understand. I call a friend of mine to sleep 1 night at her house just to get away from him and want him to think what he done to us. but dispite it comes out really bad.

    He turn on my friend back and sending my friend nasty messages he was mad on my friend of giving us a room for a night to sleep. then when we go back home the next day he wasnt here but he leave me a note in the wall that he is not coming back and that i have to support the children on my own. I am so confused!! I dont know what i've done wrong to him of treating us like this. We have such a terrible moment here in USA and the sad part is why my children have to be here to witness this life. My children born with so much love and care to my family, they grow up of laughters and smiles and hugs with my loving families..then when we move here what they saw is my tears, yelling, and my terrible husband. I dont know what to do..

    My daugther is a green card holder for 10 years and so I am. my son is a us citizen here in America.

    what my plan is...to send them back to Philippines...after my graduation and once i get my reimbursement back from my school. I dont know if my plan is right, but I like to go back to Philippines and leave my children to my family and I go back here to work and send support to them. I know from myself that I cannot handle my 2 children here with my miserable life. I dont drive here and currently a student. I dont know what to do. He left us yesterday with nothing, no food in the fridge and no money, how can I support my children in this situation and the apartment is behind the rent. I dont know what to do. please anybody give me advice on what to do If i send my children back in Philippines for their own safety and what will happen to thier citizenship and my daughter 10 years greencard?

    please I need an advice I have a friend willing to loan money to buy ticket just to take my children back to Philippines.

    I expected answer please...

    thank you!

  2. Better u back to the bank to just clarify it maybe the teller was wrong sis..

    hi i just wondering if visa interview fee is now only 6,100 pesos? coz i paid mine today and the teller only asked me to pay 6,100 for K1 interview fee...

    i thought it was $350 ??? do they have promo now?? lol i dnt wanna have problem coz of this..thanks

    anyone who experienced this?

  3. Better to call US embassy 1800...atleast u can get schedule..

    My fiancee and I are trying to schedule her interview online. I went to the K-Visa Scheduling link, I entered her passport #, MNL case #, date of payment, date of birth, password, and image code. I keep getting the error "Case Type Number not valid." I have tried MNLxxxxxxxxxx and I have tired the number without MNL. Same error both times.

    Any suggestions?

    -James

  4. u can try to go to ur local social security to update to them that u have a GC now...

    Hi all,

    I just got my green card in the mail today! :star:

    I have a social security card which has my married name on it. I applied for it after I received my EAD. Now, do I have to change my social security card or inform the Social Security Administration of my permanent residence status? (Since my social security card says I can only work with DHS authorization, which should no longer be the case now, right?) How do I go about doing this? Do I just go to a social security office with my green card? Or is there an easier way to do this?

    Thanks!

  5. Better get the new one atleast u don't any problem just only 1 day to get a renewal of nbi...

    my nbi was issued last april 20, 2010 and my interview will be n march 15, 2011 would this be a problem? as Ive read one of the post here that they are strict with the NBI clearance. If we have on file is about to expire they will ask you to submit a new one.? is this true? i mean i need answer for this.. thanks

  6. yes sis u can bring a cigarrettes me i brought here 4 box last yr the things just put in check in luggaged then spread in a pieceses it all so dont have to worriess waahhhhhhhh got jealous u have cigaretttes to bring yay its so expenssive here....

    Hello to all Filipino VJ! It is a very good and blessed day for me and my husband and we are thankful that our journey will be already end up for good and the waiting is so worth it. Anyway, I just wanted to have advice if I can bring a cigarettes like 2 cartoons of Marlboro. Is it not bad to bring like that? Advice is really appreciated, thank you and GOD bless to all of us...GOD is good all the time!

  7. Your purse it's ok but Celphone, camera, iPod are not allowed all electronics devices are not allowed...

    Our Interview is coming up very soon (ANKARA, TURKEY) and we need to know what we can take and what we cannot take inside the Embassy. Can I take my purse and are cell phones allowed?

    For instance, all of our Documents that are needed at the Interview, can they be in a bag or do they have to be simply carried "by hand" per say? I ask this as I am not sure and don't want to have any last minute surprises and then be left scurrying to find a place to keep what is not allowed. :blink:

    Thank you in advance!

  8. Nope but she need to get a police report there.. She needs that in usem...

    hi guys!!! i have a very important question my fiancee in philippines had been working in saudi since 2008 as an ofw due to all of the things that is happening right now in the middle east we decided for her not to go back there anymore she still have a year left in her contract my question is will it going to be a problem if her employer there decided not to give her a certificate of employement.will it affect my petition to her due to that problem..

    thankz

    chrizz

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