first of all he is not a random guy ..second i have been married for six months now...and i have tons of pictures, emails etc. and third i would not be that stupid to just marry someone but im not sure if your married but when i met him i knew he was the one ..we been chatting online for months then we met so basically i have known him about 3 months prior to the marriage. everything is legit just curious of similar couple like me .