Mnemosyne

This matter has been on for about a year now. It's amazing how the OP talks more and does less. I don't think he needs advice. It seems that he just wants to vent. I wonder if he's doing anything at all.

Give her a second chance because she has a very nice job and she said she only wants a simple life?
There is always a huge difference between believing and doing or merely saying.
Sure, give her a second chance and wait until you catch her red-handed before you decide to ditch her. That's the most moronic thing to do.

I have a feeling that the root of this is: The guy has extremely high expectations on how marriage or his wife should be.
True enough, it would've been different if the wife did something nasty or has committed fraud; however, that's not the case here. There's one whiny guy saying or implying that his wife is fat and all. This guy really sounds unpleasant and it's just strange that the early posters on this thread are even encouraging him to go for divorce. There are just people who think that marriage is trial-and-error and they enjoy being their own guinea pigs.

I have a feeling that the root of this is: The guy has extremely high expectations on how marriage or his wife should be.
True enough, it would've been different if the wife did something nasty or has committed fraud; however, that's not the case here. There's one whiny guy saying or implying that his wife is fat and all. This guy really sounds unpleasant and it's just strange that the early posters on this thread are even encouraging him to go for divorce. There are just people who think that marriage is trial-and-error and they enjoy being their own guinea pigs.